Hello brothers,

Currently in my life, I am kind of lost on what I should do. I am in my mid 20s and all that I have ever wanted my entire life is to be a husband and father. I’ve wanted to have my own family more than anything growing up but as life goes on, I find myself wanting to push those things much later down the line and now I’m not even sure if it is something I still should do.

A mix of things have me thinking this; Every girlfriend I have ever had has been unfaithful and cheated, I see the way the world is with women always having the advantage if something happens between us down the line, the world seems to be getting crazier everyday and I’m not sure if I want my kids to grow up in all the madness, several other things too but I think those are the biggest reasons.

I am single and don’t have my eyes set on anyone currently. Should I keep it that way? How everything has gone down for me in the past is really making me think I should just give up. There are two things that still give me hope that there could be a chance though. My mother and the church.

My mother is something else. She is what a woman should be like; Loyal, faithful, gives everything to her family, contributes, loves unconditionally, etc. My father seriously lucked out with her. The other reason being the church. A woman who truly believes in and fears God and follows the Bible is a woman who will have all the qualities necessary for a good and healthy relationship. I am Non-Denomination Christian for your knowledge.

What do you guys all think? Should I give up on my dream and go my own way? Or should I believe there is still a chance?