All the women I have talked to have this mindset.

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I start out like this: I ask them what they think about paternity test, I ask if they would be ok with me having a paternity test if we were to get a child. As you can guess they all take offence, they think it is disrespectful to assume that she would cheat. I tell her that it is not about mistrust, but it is about knowing 100% that the child is mine, because in her case she knows 100% that the child is hers as it comes from her vagina, you can't really argue with that logic. And then she says but what is the point of having a child with someone if you dont't trust that person? Already her ears are blocked, I am explaining to her that it is not about that, when you get a job you don't just trust your employee, you sign a contract because that is the procedure. When a bigger company buys a smaller company they have a due diligence, they check and verify that everything is correct. They don't just blindly trust because that is not smart in business. So I explain to her that I would like the same privilege as her, that I would like to know with 100% certainty that the child is mine, like she knows. Of course she disagrees with stupid logic.

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And then I tell her that I do not want to get married, because we should trust each other because why would you want to be with someone that you can't trust? Why do you need to get married? Her response? Because being married is about trust, and that shows that you trust the person.

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Jesus Christ, imagine giving control of your own life to a an illogical being like that.