How do I get rid of feelings for a friend who doesn’t feel the same

PubliusVirgilius · 2018-11-11T09:49:34+00:00

I had something similar in the past. You need ro stop being friends with her. 0 contact. Its just a wasre of energy in this case.

In general I would advise against platonic friendships with women. And if you are in such a feiendship, never allow her to talk about other men and her sex life.

deadBeefCafe2014 · 2018-11-11T10:53:08+00:00

You need to bow out as much as you can. If she asks why, tell her.

I have very few female friends explicitly because of this possibility. I especially do not fraternize with coworkers. Feels can develop on one side or the other, and the results are rarely good. And that assumes she isn’t insane. Even still, crushes come and go.

The only way out of the friend zone is to walk away. If she has any empathy at all, she’ll understand that.

2018-11-11T11:52:30+00:00

One thing I've discovered throughout my existence is that you become friends with women who you won't develop crushes on. Now that's not to say these women have to be ugly. I have plenty of pretty female friends that I'm not crushing over. It keeps the ball in your court. You have to keep the power. So in this instance you have to walk away.

Being a co-worker, keep it business and keep it moving. Don't talk about personal stuff with her even if she brings it up. If she does, divert it to business conversation. She will eventually lose interest because she'll know you don't care to talk about her life anymore.

SFM_2046 · 2018-11-11T12:20:23+00:00

Stop being around her.....plus men and women being friends is bullshit

jmars33 · 2018-11-11T10:31:11+00:00

She slipped the blue pill into your drink when you were not looking. Move on, ignore her

caem123 · 2018-11-11T13:22:02+00:00

There is a scene in the movie Whiplash where a young man explains to his female friend that he will no longer hang out with her. Very red pill.

Turist0AT · 2018-11-11T13:40:38+00:00

Cut all contact for at least a year and do something else to keep your mind of things. Or else you will just prolong your suffering.

coinstash · 2018-11-11T13:35:33+00:00

Fuck her Mom.

2018-11-11T16:27:02+00:00

Just think about all the dicks she has sucked and all the miles of dick that have penetrated those sugar walls. Now imagine you sucking on that pussy and kissing those dick covered lips.

Title	How do I get rid of feelings for a friend who doesn’t feel the same
Author	Throwaway_9190
Upvotes	3
Comments	12
Date	November 11, 2018 9:21 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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