Today I had a 2h talk to a construction worker here in germany. Low payment, moderatly good german speech skills, ... He was showing me pictures of his crushes and stuff like that and what he dreams about.

Back than before I came here I probably could have helped him that as much as I did today.

I told him where to improve his language skills, where to apply for that, how to improve himself, which books too read, what jobs to pursue and how to handle crushes on girls. He was romantazising too much and having some kind of expection to get a girlfriend. I couldn't really talk him out of it but he might be more caution about the whole thing. I can't lead him to this sub but I might have saved a hardworking men's life by changing his view on the world.

I never cared about other people but since I'm im this brotherhood here I learned so much