I'm not a "true MGTOW" I guess but identify with MGTOW in that I cannot find compatible women so I am stuck being single, possibly for the long term.

I will often try to look for a date, can't find anything after putting in reasonable effort, I feel disillusioned and like I'm doing something wrong and need to change myself and I do keep working on things, I'll come to this subreddit eventually and then just remember that it's not actually me causing the problem, then time will drift and I will become optimistic again about dating and will try to look out there again and will repeat the cycle.

Anyone else stuck in this?