Where do I begin with TRP game?

Ill_mumble_that · 2013-05-31T03:31:55+00:00

About approaching girls. Once you see the girl, immediately do it. Don't give yourself time to think about it. Literally within seconds just jump to the approach before you can get anxious over it. Don't even give yourself time to think about what you are going to say, just approach and say anything that comes to mind.

Starting out all you have to do is practice approaching, don't worry about technique. Don't worry about taking the girl home. All you need to do is get comfortable approaching.

If you have a particular girl in mind, don't start with her. Practice on girls you don't know and don't care about. Be prepared to fail, and keep on failing. Out of nowhere things will suddenly click and it won't be a big deal talking to women. At that point start applying techniques and tricks.

tuxidomasx · 2013-05-31T03:48:07+00:00

"going to a school full of girls in long distance relationships/are single moms"

This is great for you, actually. There should be available women everywhere. No need to go out looking for them. (unless you have a moral issue with attracting women in relationships already)

You know your weakness (fear of rejection that causes anxiety, which probably lowers your confidence and social competence). For me, red pill is largely about improving your life. If you believe your fear of rejection is a problem, you should concentrate on fixing it. Just like you workout to improve your body, you can talk to a lot of people to improve your social skills.

The concept of "red pill game" doesn't really fit with my view on the red pill mentality. The way I see it, if you take the red pill, you're on a path to become so awesome you don't even think about game directly.

I would've considered myself an introvert as well at one point... but the human brain is equipped to be both introverted and extroverted. If you're truly awesome, you can learn how to leverage them both when necessary.

VZPurp · 2013-05-31T05:53:21+00:00

Girls in long distance relationships aren't much different from single girls. I would hardly consider a LDR a committed relationship unless he is much higher in value relative to her (and her local options).

dropit_sphere · 2013-05-31T23:19:52+00:00

It's funny, we actually don't talk a lot about game here; it's assumed to be sort of background knowledge.

One thing you should absolutely do is figure out what you want. Do you want a girlfriend? A wife? A harem? A bunch of one-night stands? A string of short-term relationships?

You might say, "Well, I don't know, depends on the local woman environment." The funny thing about TRP is that you find out your environment matters a lot less than you think it does, because women are more adaptable than you. We men tend to project and assume that women are as goal-oriented as we are, but they tend to just go with the flow much of the time.

Your job is to be the flow, and you can't do that unless you know what you want. Then, act accordingly.

Cask_Strength_Islay · 2013-06-01T01:18:26+00:00

Wow, you're pretty much me. I'm somewhat new to this sub as well, and an introvert as well. My advice is going to be limited, and I'm still practicing this myself, but I have a lot of experience with dealing with performance anxiety. I'm a musician, and the group I'm currently in occasionally plays arena gigs, and I used to compete individually as well. I've been performing for more than half of my life, and I can tell you one thing for sure, the anxiety never goes away; what you're feeling is your fight or flight reaction.

What you need to learn to do is channel that energy your body is generating, and use it to your advantage, and the only way to do that is to practice, practice, practice. The more approaches you make, the better you'll get at handling your anxiety.

Title	Where do I begin with TRP game?
Author	Costafarian
Upvotes	4
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Date	May 31, 2013 3:11 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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