this is what i want to achieve before i'm 30. is it good enough?

zoddyz · 2019-05-19T06:05:30+00:00

Hi friend,

Your goals are yours alone. They are good enough if they suit you.

Although have you considered something in programming or computer based fields? Unsure as to where you are from but many blue collar workers experience bullying on the job, this diminishes for less manual trades. People with ASD find themselves naturally drawn to logic and repetition which are common in programming and systems tech.

Maybe take a personality profile and see what type of occupational groups suit you best. Consider this one http://www.humanmetrics.com/personality

All the best

mgtowguy1 · 2019-05-19T05:29:14+00:00

I think those are commendable goals.

But by 30 you should be making serious plans on savings and investments. Doesn't have to be a house and stock market but you'll be starting to make some real money for the first time and you've got to start thinking ahead then.

I'm late 50s and could have done a lot better if I had got serious about savings at your age. No one wants to be old and poor.

Otherwise good luck on you. Absolutely.

marcopoloman · 2019-05-19T06:26:06+00:00

Tough to have a garden with an apartment. I have one of my own. Unless you get a ground floor place with a little yard.

astuteglute · 2019-05-19T09:30:52+00:00

Debt free is a good one to add and keep track of. Almost impossible not to do if you keep at your goals.

Ps. Not 30. All of the above besides gardening and my old laptop. I should be able to do 405 depending on grip not going to use wraps during a workout. Also debt free.

formerlydeaddd · 2019-05-19T08:26:30+00:00

Very realistic goals. Look into reddit subs like r/financialindependence man.

Try getting out there man.

Just because you've been diagnosed doesn't mean you cannot shed some symptoms.

Even if they come back. Always fight them.

Find yourself in others. Find others in yourself.

I believe in ya.

You'll take on the world, like only a man can.

600-dead · 2019-05-19T08:48:47+00:00

Ok for trades got to trade school or get an apprenticeship. I highly recommend being an electrician as with the advancement of 3d printing, being able to wire things is going to be in high demand and electrician skills are transferable to the electronic engineering field.

A 405lb deadlift isn't really anything special, I don't say this to put down your goal but rather to say it's a pretty easy one to attain with a years training of say 5x5.

A 1 room apartment is easy, just have enough to pay the rent each month which is going to be easy if you become an electrician as those guys make BANK so alot of your goals are solved through this.

2019-05-19T10:05:30+00:00

You can do it bro. Try to eat as healthy as you can while trying to get there. There's been quite a bit of research that concludes diet can positively affect autism. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5863039/

Ranavolio · 2019-05-19T10:32:45+00:00

No goals are "good enough", if it is something you desire, it is always good for you! Others opinions do not matter, only your feeling of inner peace matters

BertTheWelder · 2019-05-19T13:19:57+00:00

I think all of this is doable. The hardest part would be getting more than 1 close friend. The older you get, the harder it is to make or keep close friends.

ShortBus0101 · 2019-05-19T13:32:02+00:00

If you are 19yo and haven't yet developed close friends, I don't think you'll have real close friends from here on. But everybody's lives and experiences are different.

Everything else on the list is easily achievable.

Small cities are everywhere.

1 room apartments can be a ripoff. Be careful.

Lot of places giving out dogs.

Little garden needs a house, not an apartment, but you can have indoor garden. It's not going to work with dogs, depending on breed.

Deadlift 405lb just need to work on it. 5x5 program is one of the multiple ways to get there.

Google schools near you for the skills you're looking for.

Drawing and writing. Work on it everyday. Put the phone, laptop, TV down and work on it.

If you have an income, pay your monthly bills, save and invest money, grow your credit score and have extra for entertainment, most likely you're doing OK financially.

You can use a credit card to buy new laptop, drawing and writing materials and pay it off. Build credit in the process.

You have 24 hours a day. Save 8 for sleep, about 8 for work and you have another 8 for school and personal stuff.

rquasius · 2019-05-19T13:31:43+00:00

I think a good thing for you to also focus on, since some autism is result of autoimmunity.

Focus on improving diet, I'm not advocating one specific one. But a common theme is eliminating sugars and inflammatory foods (wheat products, sugar, so called vegetable oils). Eliminate sugar, grain products, especially processed foods,

Many on Keto claim mental clarity, though I lost 50 lbs on it, I very much noticed the mental clarity. Which allowed me to read 20 books last year (something I'd never done).

I've read a few on Carnivore. It's also called elimination diet. Once you go carnivore, then introduce back one item, so see how you respond (physically & mentally)

I've read Williams Davis's "Undoctored" (but he also wrote Wheat Belly books). He is very down on all grains.

I've read the Plant Paradox from Dr Gundry. He like William Davis talks about a lot of plants that use defense against pest like Lectins, that cause immune responses.

2019-05-19T17:26:11+00:00

You don't come across as someone with IQ below 100.

Why don't get back into programming? There's plenty of work for lone wolfs in that field.

2019-05-19T17:41:32+00:00

Go to community college and get a 2-year electrical degree. That's what I did and was hired as a federal electrician during my last semester. Pay is about $85k/year.

2019-05-19T17:56:05+00:00

external validation is not necessary my man if you are happy with yourself go for it man no one is stopping you

Hellraiser133 · 2019-05-19T19:25:41+00:00

I like your goals man, you can achieve them, stay a bit positive and keep walking forward, but look back from time to time, to see what works and what doesn't, I like your goal of 405lb deadlift I myself have the same target, by 30. I am currently at 315 lb. Getting there. Good luck.

Invduck77 · 2019-05-20T00:42:21+00:00

The only validation you need is from yourself. You got this.

KelvinYoungKim · 2019-05-24T20:02:12+00:00

I think "Not being poor" is an aimless goal. Have a certain number you want to reach. Being Rich or being poor is the matter of mindset, environment, and circumstances.

Svartanatten · 2019-05-19T07:05:18+00:00

That sounds like healthy goals, realistic but I wouldn't say your aiming low. I had much higher ambitions (140+ so there's that) but I wish my goals had been more like yours.

We got different skill sets, I'm useless at manual labour but I wish I could have became a contractor, my skill set is more, STEM.

Title	this is what i want to achieve before i'm 30. is it good enough?
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Date	May 19, 2019 5:01 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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