As someone who was falsely accused of rape, who is also attractive, charming, has a girlfriend, and whose girlfriends nieces and nephews love him, great people skills, taking a applied mathematics degree.

It’s painting people like me, people you wouldn’t expect to be rapists as a rapist. Everybody could be a rapist.

The district attorneys office was pursing me relentlessly.

I agree anybody could be a rapist but this stupid fucking movie is making it seem like guys you’d least expect to be rapists are more highly likely to be rapists. If he’s too good to be true there’s a good chance he’s a rapist if he is accused.

This sentiment is 100% bullshit.

I was charged with rape almost a year ago and my life has fallen apart because of it. Girl ending up being an extremist feminist that was after me for cheating, which I do deeply regret.

I have had night terrors almost every single night for the past 2 weeks and countless nightmares over the past 9 months.

I was at a party and at the end of the night this girl who introduced herself to me and hovered around me staring at me and laughing obnoxiously at my jokes setup her sleeping bag right next to me at the end of the night. She hadn’t been drinking all night so far as I could tell. Completely sober. I set up my bag near hers and touched her arm, she then grabbed my hand and I rubbed her back then she started moaning and grabbing my arm. After 45 minutes or so, I’m not completely sure how long she told me I wasn’t her boyfriend.

All the blood drained from my face and I turned as white as a ghost. This girl has a boyfriend? So there were 7 other people that were turning down for the night and she was one of the last to go to bed, as was I. Apparently she had a boyfriend that was sleeping just 4 feet away from us in a chair.

I followed her into the kitchen and I was soo confused I told her I’m sorry. I asked her 3 times if she was ok and she said yes, yes, yes. she said she needed water so I got her a glass. She asked me what happened and I was still in shock so I said that I thought she was someone else.

I went to go lay back down in the living room and she walked straight to her boyfriend and they left the room.

At this point I’m thinking, “what the fuck is going on” I freaked out and left the party.

Next day she Facebook messages my girlfriend and tells her I sexually assaulted her, she said I was touching her arm then back, then vagina while she was sleeping. She said there were no witnesses. I admitted to my girl I cheated . . I broke down in tears I didn’t deserve forgiveness but she forgave me. She told me not to hang out with the group of people that falsely accused me of assault and delete them from Facebook.

A few weeks later I get a call from a police detective.

I ignore his calls and he continues calling so I get a lawyer.

I find out that I have a warrant for my arrest. I go to the superior court and they put me in jail for the weekend, I look at the paperwork that the officer has in his hand and it said rape.

When I get out of jail I read the police report and it says she was awake the whole time and telling me no, and telling me to stop and that I was forcing my fingers inside her. And that she thought I was her boyfriend while I was doing this. She said she thought her boyfriend was raping her in the police report.

I investigated the shit out of everyone in that group later on and found out her good friend who hosted the party posted sick pictures on social media of men being murdered simply for being male. Of men being decapitated for looking at a women’s cleavage.

She was posting crazy extremist feminist shit on her facebook profile, the craziest shit I’ve ever seen a feminist post, ever. She even had a facebook hate group dedicated to her, and she was listed as a character witness against me.

I went to court 9 months later and the prosecutors went for the Facebook message instead of the police report, she admitted she completely fabricated the police report. The judge agreed to drop the charges only after a year on probation, but if I get in trouble while on probation I get a conviction and have to register as a sex offender for 20 years.

I took the Continuance without a finding of guilt or innocence for 18 months after which the charges are dropped and there is no conviction. After which I can petition the court to have the case immediately sealed.

I had to very begrudgingly and grinding my teeth tell the judge that the District attorney had a case against me and could potentially win against me in court. I had to say to the judge that a jury could find me guilty of touching her vagina while she was asleep.

I did so because my lawyer told me I had to.

The judge felt so fucking bad for me he was apologizing to me the whole time and wishing me the best of luck.

Fuck me. I feel like I was raped by the criminal justice system. I had all the evidence I needed to win at trial but my lawyer told me that I only had a 90% chance at winning and it wasn’t worth the risk of a sex offender conviction so I took the deal. The judge forced the District attorneys office to give me the deal because the judge knew I was innocent and even forced the probation office not to make me take sex offender counseling. Unfortunately if the judge immediately dropped all charges against me with no conditions he could have been crucified by the media so he had to play it safe and give me conditions.

And now I’m at the mercy of a probation officer for the next year . . .

If I didn’t have proof that she completely fabricated the police report and posted those pictures on Facebook I’d be completely fucked. He said she said means I get convicted of rape no questions asked, regardless of my clean criminal record.

Movies like this are fucking with women’s heads in such a way as to destroy innocent men’s lives and its fucking disgusting.

There needs to be more movies about false rape charges on Netflix and all the other media platforms.