Can a woman love three men at once?

DangZagnut · 2018-11-02T07:20:33+00:00

Their definition of love is a little different than a man's definition of love. Much like their definition and transaction of sex is completely different than men.

TCM-black · 2018-11-02T07:27:35+00:00

Love is not a distinct objective concept. Love can be reduced most effectively to a declared judgement of value; you value your dog, you value your pc, you value your parents, etc. What are the underpinnings of that value? What principles form the basis?

Most people base "romantic love" on nothing more than infatuation, which IS a distinct psychological complex, but it is based on the subject not the object. Other people base it on something less ephemeral and more specific to the object, such as a shared cultural basis, shared principles / morals / virtues / religion, etc. Some base it on pragmatic self interest. All of these are valid basis for a subjective idea of love, but you have to separate those elements out to discuss them, otherwise you're communicating with other people based on a word that is too ambiguous and has no shared interpretation for each subject.

The most important thing you can ask this woman is "why do you love me, and what does that mean." Until there is a more concrete definition established between you two, it is a meaningless (literally,) word. If her value judgement is not based on things that you value, you have to realize that you do not love each other, you love abstract models that you're projecting onto that person. In that case, there is no reason to continue your relationship, and that there is nothing there of value to lose; move on.

nonchalantfool · 2018-11-02T07:33:19+00:00

They don't love men - just use them

TigPlaze · 2018-11-02T07:23:49+00:00

A man's definition of love is deep and exclusive affection for another, which includes dedication and loyalty. A woman's definition is a powerful feeling of happiness at the exploitation of a man's resources. So, yes, by a woman's definition, she can indeed use the resources of three men and feel good about it and think it's love. Just about any man would be horrified and disgusted by that, as I am.

user_miki · 2018-11-02T07:55:48+00:00

Can love even more than 7 in one hour.

TCM-black · 2018-11-02T09:27:05+00:00

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vega-mgtow · 2018-11-02T07:18:40+00:00

#Cuckzproblemz

Title	Can a woman love three men at once?
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Date	November 2, 2018 7:15 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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