Since childhood, one is trained to fear the state of being alone.

BadassGT-CS · 2018-11-01T15:35:09+00:00

I've been alone for 13 years now. Once you get the hang of it, it's great!! NEVER going back to the old way!!

Sol_Install · 2018-11-01T16:11:17+00:00

Dunno who is a "sigma" around here but humanity provides "comforts" for things we cannot be certain of.

Who's going to bail you out when you're old and vulnerable? Kids.

What happens if you are defeated by being lonely? A spouse.

What happens after you die? You got to a paradise of eternal happiness.

What makes you happy? Marriage. Don't want to do that? Children.

How do you deal with the evil in the world that will never end? Turn to [insert whatever God you like] who will protect you.

The point is to manipulate you through fear. They want the appearance of everything. The appearance of family/happines/etc.That's why when things go wrong, they flat out deny it, go quiet or shame you out of anger. As long as enough people are doing it, the people who suffer are irrelevant. Through fear, they silence and control. That is what fear does. It dominates you. The irony is that you can easily expose this shit if you are man even more than if you were a woman. Bring up any situation in which a man could end up dead(war/protecting a woman) and they are okay with men dying. Yet they fear you being alone? Nonsense.

user_miki · 2018-11-01T16:50:17+00:00

So if you had a wife who dumped you for money and taken all your kids and poisoned them against you,you won't be alone.

BlasphemousMGTOW · 2018-11-01T20:24:35+00:00

Once you embrace Solitude, you can't go back.

KneeDeepThought · 2018-11-01T21:41:26+00:00

We're taught by our mothers as little children to fear being alone for good reason. While we're most vulnerable it's good to stay in the group. Natural selection kept this going as more children whose mothers kept them closer had more kids. Also, for women in general being not only part of a group but accepted and respected by it was a life and death situation for most of human history, so they're hardwired for it by genetics.

What we've fucked up is that in modern society boys stay in that mode indefinitely as they can spend their whole life "in the cave" with their little tribe, and mommy's genetics are screaming for her to do just that to him. There's no longer that impetus to go out and shed your fear of solitude, or it takes root far later in life than it used to.

DWShimoda · 2018-11-02T01:27:03+00:00

Yes, the system even admit to that -- it's just called by the euphemism "socialization" -- that kids MUST be "in school" with other children so that they can be properly "socialized."

Think about that for a minute: schools are no longer some "one room school" like some large family of a dozen or so kids of mixed ages... no the "modern" school -- the one designed for proper "socialization" -- invariably has not just multiple dozens of kids in one room (usually of exactly the same physical age); but also very likely hundreds even thousands of others also of essentially the same age. And all forced to follow a fairly strict, regimented routine (with arbitrarily defined "schedules"; governed by clocks, bells, etc).

It is actually -- historically AND societally -- a completely absurd institution. A bizarro artificial construct that has NO parallel in the actual "adult" world. Despite the claims that it's designed to be "like a factory" or that it's purpose/intent was to equip & habituate people to "factory" work... that's BULLSHIT, because no actual factory even remotely resembles the social construct of a "school."

If anything the "adult" institution that the "modern" school can be said to MOST closely resemble... would be a prison.

Lavendercrimson12 · 2018-11-02T02:24:20+00:00

One area this stands out in everyday living is going out to eat, especially at a sit down restaurant.

Most people go in couples, (which aside from the nuclear family, is the most efficient consumption unit in capitalism), or groups.

Yet here I am, sitting down in prime time, with a table all to myself, window seat please, and I don't care. I'll take my time, I'll have another beer as I read the menu, and I'll even drip sauce on my lap, I really don't give a fuck.

I'll tip well, too, cause there is no petty bill splitting or what not.

Set the tone for the whole experience by how you hold yourself. Spread your stuff over the whole table, sit where you have a view, you are not a lonely diner you are a man who takes himself out to eat a good meal when and where he would like.

Title	Since childhood, one is trained to fear the state of being alone.
Author	FennelMGTOW
Upvotes	20
Comments	10
Date	November 1, 2018 3:15 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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