NOTE: I'm using incel in the most literal form, as in "involuntarily celibate", I am not and have never been a part of communities specifically labelling themselves as "incel"
I'm an incel but I don't hate women. To my knowledge none of my friends or family even know I am one.
I have a normal social life. I'm not ugly, and according to some people I'm even somewhat attractive physically. I'm at college and play sports, if you saw me in the street you'd never match me to the kind of things I'm saying in this post. I even have a relatively large social media following, and male friends often remark how "I must be getting so many girls" because of how many pictures I'm tagged in on social media with girls around me.
But in reality, I'm an incel. I'm involuntarily celibate, I desperately crave relationships and intimacy but can't get it no matter how hard I try. I can't get any woman to pay attention to me in a romantic way. I don't know why but girls just don't seem romantically interested in me at all, I never get flirted with and girls never speak to me in anything other than friendly and platonic ways. The few times I've asked out girls I've always been rejected. Every time a girl seems to be flirting with me it always turns out that I've misread the situation, and usually they have a boyfriend, and I was just imagining that they were into me. As a result my self-belief is at rock bottom, I just dont believe it is even possible for girls to be attracted to me anymore.
I feel no connection to the beliefs peddled by "incel communities" online however. I don't hate women, and I find the right-wing garbage peddled by most "incels" to be disgusting and pathetic. Personally I am left-wing and would describe myself as a feminist. But at times this situation can be difficult and depressing for me, because people in my circles have referred to "incels" and poked fun at them, and sometimes I think "would they hate me or make fun of me if they knew I was involuntarily celibate?"
I don't really know what to do at this point. I feel like I've tried everything and still no girls are attracted to me. I try to stay positive and happy but it's getting more and more difficult with each passing day, I feel like I will literally never find a girl who is attracted to me at this point.
[–]Mex_Heroin5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
If you want advice on how to attract women, you're in the wrong sub.
If you want examples of how women are harmful to your mental and financial well-being, then read the sidebar and the posts in this sub.
Once you understand the nature of women and how the legal system is setup to cater to women, then make a decision if you want to be in a relationship.
But don't come here asking for fucking relationship advice.
[–]8017351 point2 points3 points (2 children) | Copy Link
How about "I'm a decent guy and women, like they always do, hate, me too."
[–]William_A_Bishop4 points5 points6 points (1 child) | Copy Link
Poor sucker. Hes gonna get cleaned out by the dicorce rape in a few years.
[–]8017350 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Meh, will not be a problem. Zombies don't feel pain. Ask
othermarried men if you don't believe me.[–]8390273642 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
go discuss this with your incel bros
[–]DangZagnut1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Poor bastard. At least even he knows the difference between incels and Incelstm
He's going to be screwed up later, not because he's an incel, but because he's only a 6.
So when the carousel bucks all the old flabby girls off, they're going to prey on him, and he'll be stupid enough to believe them due to lack of experience. He'll probably get picked up by some 30 year old chick and think "Here's a 6, I don't want to do anything, and a virgin college graduate? Fuck here's my meal ticket". She'll be pregnant during the swipe on Tinder.
He's going to be fucked, knock her up, she'll put in her quick ten to cash out, and his dumb ass will still think he's in love in divorce court.
Poor bastard.
[–]project_mayhem_1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
he is doing feminism wrong. feminism lashes out violently against a man who has any concern for his own problems.
[–]coinstash1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Wrong fucking sub. r/incel is thataway --->
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
If you are young, it is mostly your testosterone talking. Trust me, it gets better.
[–]CeleritySteam0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Let me guess, classic simping for thots which repulses them?