Dealing with rude behaviour

EpicLevelCheater · 2017-10-27T00:14:45+00:00

Read the rules. No questions on the main sub.

Now banning everyone who participated in this thread.

Banned-in-Boston · 2017-10-26T12:09:55+00:00

You are about to eat shit, because you failed to heed the rule, "Don't shit where you eat." Enjoy your new lunch order.

Start tuning your CV, tickle your network, your job hunt has begun.

Xhaka-Laca · 2017-10-26T13:41:44+00:00

Bad bad mistake. Hard next asap and hope this doesn’t affect your job.

rporion · 2017-10-26T08:38:12+00:00

Sounds like she is desperate.

And no, Mods, this is not something that is better of in AskTRP, this is a teachable moment.

sadomasochrist · 2017-10-26T13:36:39+00:00

You idiot.

Listen, you're going to have to cut your own head off if you're going to survive. Apologize to her, and let her own your soul.

"Hey, I was being kind of a dick. Let's get back to work, I want to make sure you feel comfortable, hey maybe it's even just me. Either way, here's the report."

I mean there's no positive way this is going to resolve itself without you submitting to her.

What were you thinking?

Redpiller77 · 2017-10-26T18:40:28+00:00

Easy mode: do as sadomasochrist says, submit to her. She will see you as beta and will leave you alone.

Hard mode: resume whichever frame you had before you started to act distant. Do not break it.

I'm currently doing hard mode with a bitch I work with, it's kind of easy if you don't care for her, but somewhat tiresome. It might help improving your game.

MattyAnon · 2017-10-26T18:48:51+00:00

Move to asktrp

maeksimili · 2017-10-26T21:51:33+00:00

Only a long time lurker but im surprised why suddenly the typical TRP advice is all about full retreat instead of "hold frame and chill".

Weren't we supposed to be invincible when holding frame?

MentORPHEUS · 2017-10-26T22:11:37+00:00

Anyone know why the sudden bitchy and nasty behaviour? She's acting superior, disrespectful and obnoxious.

You humiliated her semi-in-public, and this is now payback because she's flipped the lightswitch of attraction toward you to OFF.

You failed at Dread Game. You can't be legitimately (yet semi-mysteriously) too busy with your awesome life and career when you not only work with her but she is above you in the work hierarchy! Instead you acted coldly toward her in person, far longer than appropriate for the situation. She gave you days of demure, conciliatory behavior and the feedback you gave her for this was a strong, visceral ongoing rejection.

Because you work together, you're going to have to smooth this crisis out one way or another; hopefully it doesn't come to having to change jobs.

Phiend4Phoes · 2017-10-26T10:45:51+00:00

She ignores me greeting and moves to the area of my staff.
Hmmm

Despite what /u/rporion writes, I think this should be posted in asktrp since it is indeed a question to TRP.

Title	Dealing with rude behaviour
Author	AsdGoober1994
Upvotes	1
Comments	18
Date	October 26, 2017 8:16 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/78u67f/dealing_with_rude_behaviour/
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