Looking back on it, do you think in my grandfather's day that men had to read books about how to attract women, about what you had to DO to even be visible to them, about how your money is so closely tied to your ability to be attractive at all, and/or basically how to kiss their asses when at least back then they kissed OUR asses to attract us? Just when did this slide into thinking that we had to really DO anything manage to overtake us? Do you think that, had my grandfather had youtube, that he'd be suitting around on his lunch break looking at Ross Jefferies (yeah, I know) lectures on supposedly "what YOU'RE doing wrong!"? Got that, guys, what WE'RE doing wrong. Just how did we ever give into this brainwashing? We used to be the prize. None of that shit works anyway, and even then, they're still likely to date a recently released parolee child molester who doesn't even bathe-and yes, I've seen that happen-versus going out with you, as a man who has his fucking SHIT together?

Enough already, it's yet another reason to jump off the idiot self-help bandwagon and stop acting like you're not good enough. You are, so don't let that worry you. But who wants to even participate in a game that's that stilted against us? This is yet another reason I've gone MGTOW at age 48, though I've been approaching this shore, this refuge for years. Nay, decades, and it's not getting any better. Be good enough for YOU, that is all that matters. MGTOW forever.