I remember being 20, young and alive, and in "love" with a feminist 3 years older than me who had an English degree with a Minor in Women's Studies.... I was busy working my ass off 18 hours a day to buy a home in Orange County, Calif. so we could "start our life together on a stable financial platform"... HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!! When I was 22 I bought a home in Laguna Niguel and was stoked to bring her over to show her the rewards of my labor... She walked in and said, "what did you do?!? This ISN'T WHAT I WANTED." LOL!!!! Thank God she was the "one who got away"...

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Well, in the process of those 18 hours work days, I met a fine gentleman who had his home burn down in one of the wildfires in San Diego and my job was to make sure the insurance company wasn't ripping off the mortgage lender with cheap repairs... Me and my bro show up to this dude Dave's ranch and he comes out, tells us how his wife left him Christmas Eve, took the kid and was gone. Told me a statement I took to heart and will never forget. Dave said, "Boys, that pussy fucking will get you into serious trouble. One day you will knock her up and then that bitch has one of your ribs as well as your bank accounts, and she will leave you on Christmas Eve".

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Sadly at my tender age of 20, I thought it was a joke. It took me another 6 years to realize the truth in his words.