I feel like I achieved more in a short period of time embracing the red pill while ignoring the blue pill.

MGTOW has given me a structure to follow much like the military did when I served in the U.S Navy.

MGTOW I feel is one of last safe havens for men to retain their masculinity and what it means to truly be a man.

There's not many places left where men can be guided on being men. It's a very sad reality.

I do feel MGTOW triggered the light bulb into my head that before I truly wasn't living to my full potential and now that I don't value or need the validation of women anymore I have no excuse on reasons why I can't achieve the goals I set out to do.

Before I used to get super buff in the gym not because I liked the look but because I wanted to attract women.

(Now I just want to be medium sized. Medium weights, high reps and lots of cardio is the goal.)

Before I used to go to parties and drink excessive amounts of alcohol.

(All because I wanted to fit in and seem cool. Now I don't drink hardly anymore.)

Before I used to work like a mad man to achieve materialistic items all in the hopes of getting better quality women.

(Now I do work to achieve some materialistic items but no where near the amount I did before and I don't care to attract women anymore. No point when you have hookers.)

Before I used to go visit many events with groups of people hoping to meet women.

(The rejections came and my confidence and money were wasted. Those days are over.)

Before I used to try so hard to be approachable and get a girlfriend.

(After hearing many bad stories from other men. Made me rethink that idea all together.)

Before I used to think love and marriage was a real honest thing.

(MGTOW has shown me that was all a lie and an illusion. There's no such thing as love.)

The hardest part about MGTOW for me is to reprogram my mind to stop wanting validation from other people and to focus on my own purpose and validation towards myself.

The MGTOW path is not an easy path and it's even harder if you go monk mode for some but I do believe men who follow this path will be better off in the long run for it.

Once you get past the red pill rage it gets easier and your life begins to get better and take on a better form.

It's not an easy over night path.

It's takes time, patience, discipline and focus over many years to live this life successfully.