For this post I wanted to share a field report that deals with being able to adapt and encountering LMR. For the full story, go here: https://alphajedi.com/2017/11/15/the-workaround/

TL; DR

I had been hanging with a good friend of mine that night a bar by the beach. Toward what I thought was the end of the night, I was hanging at the bar at last call. This girl I had talked to for a few minutes earlier in the night came up to the bar get one last glass of wine. We had previously had a conversation about the merits of the pocket square.

"Topping off?" I said to her as she got a last glass of wine. She smiled and we began conversing again, though this time we covered the topic of how last call in LA is way too early. "Well, my friend and I are thinking of hitting this after hours place," I said.  "You should join." Her face lit up with a sparkle of excitement as she replied "Tell me more!"

I told her about this place my friend and I knew of that was open well past 6 in the morning and it was close by to where we were. My friend came and I told him we should hit up after hours with our new tag-along, to which he agreed and went to use the bathroom. The girl and I went outside by my car we started talking her job. After some conversation and getting a few IOI's we started making out. I was tempted to text my friend "had to run" but he wound up popping out of the venue right as I was thinking it. We all got into my car and proceeded to the after hours place.

I parked at the venue and we all got out to see the front door closed. Unknown to us, this spot recently decided it would only be open on Saturdays, and this night was a Friday. After a minute we realized that our hopes for after hours activities where going to be dashed, so we started walking back to my car. Enroute, a large Uber SUV rolled up with a festive group inside. Two guys enthusiastically hoped out excited to get to the after hours spot, but saw that it looked closed. My friend went to strike up a conversation with the the guys and so I told the girl that we should wait in the car since it was warm.

Hoping into my car, the girl and me made some small conversation for a minute before I pulled her in to start making out. It started getting a little hot and heavy, when the girl pulled back with a mischievous smile.

"I'm not that easy," she said. I smiled back and said "Good...I like coming up with a good workaround."

We started to make out some more, things got hot and heavy again and then I pulled back and told the girl to "hold that thought." I hopped out of my car to ask my friend what the status was. As I was walking towards him, apparently another Uber had rolled up and dropped off 4 girls, that had been looking to find an after hours spot. My friend informed me that the girls knew of an after hours spot out 35 minutes from where we were. I looked at my friend and said "It looks like you have a situation here, and I have a situation in the car. I think this is where we split ways." My friend concurred and I went back to my car.

"What's going on with your friend?" the girl asked.

"He's ditching us to try another spot across town," I replied. "But I'll give you a lift back to your place."

"Ok," she replied. "But I'm not sure if I have any booze."

"Don't worry," I replied. "We'll figure out a workaround."

Since it was now 3 am, it only took 5 minutes to get back to her place. We got inside, got some wine and we got cozy on her couch as she started talking about how she loves traveling and all of the different places she's been too. We started making out again, and then this time I got her topless in a few minutes. After some foreplay she pulled back and said "You can spend the night, but I'm not having sex with you on the first night."

Seeing this LMR I knew that she really wanted to fuck my brains out, but didn't want me to think she was some easy slut. I looked at her with a smile and then with a wink I said "I can work with that workaround." She then led me to her bedroom, where we hopped under the covers and cuddled.

After a few moments, we started making out, and then I reached down to run my hand on the inside of her upper thigh. She let out a soft moan and then playfully said "What are you up to?" I said "I'm working around" as I rubbed her inner thigh a bit more. She then grabbed my face, looked me dead in the eye and said "I want to fuck you."

We proceeded to have very passionate and intense sex for the next few hours.

Takeaways

3. Always have an after party. When out on the night, always have a venue, be it your pad, a friend's place or an actual after hours venue that you can head to. This keeps the night going as well gives you an arrow in your Game quiver.

  1. Sometimes you'll hit LMR. LMR can happen, as in this case she was literally topless and gave me every signal for sex, but then told me she wasn't going to have sex on the first night. My gut told me that she didn't want me to think less of of her, but I kept my cool and went with the flow. Then 2 minutes later she was grabbing me and telling me how badly she wanted to fuck me. When LMR happens, listen to your gut and go with the flow. You should know the line of consent so don't cross it.

1. Stay persistent. This night there where many obstacles to overcome or "work around," which was the key word. Keeping myself focused adapting to the situation paid off nicely.

TTL; DR

Met a girl, tried to go to an after hours place, went to her place, hit some LMR, wound up having sex.