Relationships are mainly defined by mutual sexual attraction. It seems that many people assume women should not be told to lose weight.

"Never tell a woman that she needs to lose weight" stems from women themselves. Like us saying "Approach us and treat us well".

Do they care? Nope, not in the slightest, quite the contrary.

Therefore don't bother hurting her comfortable lazy feeling and value your values. Tell a woman to lose fat or lose you. And set a timeframe. Remember: once you lose your manly character in one way or another, she's gone in an instant. We are mainly about looks, which is perfectly fine. So enforce it and you will feel better.