How can we ignore the results of being shunned by society? A damaged mind can not endure the pain and will lash out the situation in the end. We need some #Empathy4Incels

TheRabid · 2018-10-19T14:33:27+00:00

People will always shun others. The trick is what you do with it once you’re shunned. This guy decided to go on a killing rampage. I would have gone a different route and lift.

TheImpossible1 · 2018-10-19T15:39:07+00:00

Women always beat them down and down and down and down. Some of them posted suicide notes that literally said "r/inceltears ruined my life"

They take sick pleasure from beating on people at their lowest. If it wasn't incels it would be the disabled or the short etc.

Barmacist · 2018-10-19T16:11:53+00:00

Yep, I try to bring this up but since you know, its not LOL look at the loser INCEL, no one cares.

As these people get older and society continues to shun them they will lash out more, some violently but more likely via fringe political groups. Large numbers of disenfranchised men have historically been very bad for their societies, if modern men were not so weak we would have seen more problems by now.

yash_blue · 2018-10-19T16:13:09+00:00

I don't have any sympathy for incels who go on violent rampages. That's fucking ridiculous, and there's no excuse for it whatsoever. No one wanting to fuck you is not a justification in any way, shape, or form to set a bomb in a public place or engage in mass shootings. People making fun of you is not a justification to plant nail bombs.

And most people I know who feel like they are being mocked by society aren't. They're just super sensitive to behavior that more well-adjusted people would brush off. A well-adjusted person expects to be hated by some people, and understands that being unpopular is going to be the price you pay for being your own person sometimes.

For those incels who are hurting without resorting to violence or hate, it's hard not to feel at least a little pity for them. But it's not pity that they can't get laid--it's pity that they are so insecure and sex-obsessed that they feel like getting laid will validate them as people. These guys need to understand that sex isn't like some magic door that you pass through and come out a more confident, successful person.

If they put their focus on personal improvement and didn't think about sex for a while (monk mode), I'm sure that most of the not-obviously-psychopathic incels would have the opportunity for the sex they desire so much. And after having sex a few times, they'd realize that it is good under the right circumstances, but it isn't the be-all, end-all of the human experience our culture makes it out to be.

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