One of the things that grinds my gears about this subreddit is the lack of taking responsibility for bad decisions. I get that a lot of the things girls do are fucked up, and I agree with a lot of the commonalities you see on here but at the end of the day you’re responsible for you as a man.

A big learning experience in this subreddit is learning that just because you care for a girl doesn’t mean she will stay loyal. Men are biologically wired to spread their seed, women are wired to find the best suitor to pass along their DNA. Some of you are learning that this option changes for girls and getting bent out of shape about it.

Part of going your own way for me is learning to let go of the idea that you’re going to keep a girl forever even though it’s pretty clear most relationships fail, if not all. With that known, taking a relationship super serious is only going to come back at you and honestly women don’t find the clingy lovey type attractive.

All I’m saying is yeah women have a shitload of problems, but at the end of the day you’ve gotta take responsibility for getting caught up in it.