Tired of people putting me down all the time

C1375309 · 2018-10-17T02:48:09+00:00

If you're tired of people putting you down, then you need to stand up for yourself bro. You show motherfuckers that you're not gonna take their bullshit

801735 · 2018-10-17T02:45:27+00:00

Constantly I have to deal with people making comments about my stature.

Or do you just happen to hear it?

It really bothers me because there's nothing I can do about it

Mental exercise for the 2 of us today (but don't tell anyone, ok, promise?), is what combinations can the 2 of us get out of 'win' and 'lose'.

Win-Win

Win-Lose

Lose-Win

Lose-Lose

And? ... Well? Of course you know, you just might not have thought about it in this context, son, it's "No play."

Perhaps you might want to try this 'No play' option and see if it gets you anywhere, frees up your betweenyourearsnessed CPU power for you to put towards something you enjoy a bit more than their words? Juiced an idea.

Welcome to MGTOW, where 'No play.' is not only an option, but taken seriously, seriously.

SanPedroLover_ · 2018-10-17T02:49:01+00:00

Do you lift?

karben14 · 2018-10-17T03:04:04+00:00

Hey, when a woman says something mean, remember this. You are a man and always will be. She is just a woman, and always will be.

C1375309 · 2018-10-17T04:03:08+00:00

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TheRealDennisVang · 2018-10-17T07:46:42+00:00

Here's what you do.

Go to the gym, lift and also sign up for mma class. Eventually you will get people trying to bring you down. Then when you get so big and very good at fighting, you naturally develop confidence to stand up for your self and talk back with a smile which lets other know that you can really fuck them up when it comes down to it. Finally it comes to the point where no one will mess with you anymore. I'm 5'8 as well and people don't really talk to me. They say I have a presence that just makes them feel awkward, nervous and so so. Anyway, I get to enjoy peace, do what I want and don't got anyone bothering me at all. Those that like what I do, follows me around, and we have a good time.

People that poke fun at you are insecure themselves because they need to "feel" superior somehow and you became their target to make them feel superior.

Listen, it's going to be a tough lonely road. But you can do it. You're a man. That means you were created to endure shit, fail, learn, improve, break through obstacle, slay the enemy, conquer and get what you worked for. That is what a man is.

LeBouffonRoi · 2018-10-17T03:09:18+00:00

Well, I dunno, but I'd just learn not to give a shit about it personally. I mean, I've kind of ran out of fucks to give, so that comes easy to me now.

Mind you that some guy pissed me off to no ends a few months ago, and I totally let him have it; we've become good friends since then, lol Turns out he's a pretty good guy, who just exercised bad judgment at the time.

2018-10-17T04:25:58+00:00

Stop giving a shit about what people think about you, lift heavy, eat well, build your wealth and practice semen retention. Good luck

DaveC111 · 2018-10-17T03:50:54+00:00

I see a bunch of good comments. At the end of the day, you can do something about it, ignore it, or let it bother. Make your decision and act appropriately. Who are YOU going to be? GYOW and live by it. I would recommend not beating people up since that's sort of socially unacceptable but, hey, who am I to tell a fellow MGTOW what to do?! ;)

sandwich2000 · 2018-10-17T04:20:57+00:00

You did the right thing, quips are great but they will get you in trouble. Just vent in a safe place like here and try to ignore. Change work environment if possible.

iseehot · 2018-10-17T04:57:39+00:00

how can I feel like any woman would be interested anyway?

There's your problem.

Men don't care.

lesterstrat · 2018-10-17T05:38:40+00:00

Lol 5’8. Try being 5’6 and see what thats like. I don’t allow people to use my height as leverage, disrespect or shame me.

Went to a party many years ago, I was introduced to a girl who had no reservations to shame me for my height “ I thought you would be taller “, my reply was “ I thought you’d be prettier “, she was offended... but no fucks were given . I still ended up sleeping with her at the end of the night.

And more recently. I was shoved pretty hard from behind at a train station by someone who was much taller than I was ( I have a bad lower back, lumbar muscle ). It was no accident, he deliberately walked right into me because I was blocking his way unintentionally. We got into a very heated argument after he refused to apologise, he stepped up to intimidate me and basically withdrew when I verbally abused him into shame and embarrassment. He ended up going to the other end of the platform as far away from me as possible.

2018-10-17T02:47:35+00:00

Nah, you're not that small, it's just the way they find to make you feel worthless an even if you were small what can you do about it? Nothing, so move on... If someone says smth about that just ignore and keep doing your stuff...

If I were you I'd just start suing people for harassment or reporting to HR using the same arguments they would use against you "It is not a proper behavior for work, I'm here to work as a team and not asking for opinions about my height and if needed this kind of opinion I'd ask a doctor"

C1375309 · 2018-10-17T10:52:51+00:00

A lot of ppl seem to take kindness as weakness and if you can't show ppl the fine line between the two then ppl cant see it. Ive had this problem since young, but now I stand up for myself if I have to. There is nothing wrong with wanting to be nice but there is a clear difference between being a nice person and everyone's doormat.

sir_monkfish · 2018-10-17T13:36:43+00:00

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foreverfaded1 · 2018-10-17T18:19:44+00:00

I'm in a similar position and I'm getting kind of tired of it, which is why I started gaining and lifting. It's not really all about height but also how you carry yourself. I'm usually the polite guy but its become apparent to me that being polite only gets you walked over. It's one thing if its just banter, but if someone treats you with blatant disrespect you need to put them on notice.

2018-10-17T23:12:23+00:00

Dont quip, it aint worth it. You feel as if they are looking down on you because they are, no pun intended. Im 5'8" as well, embrace the grey man, let them think we have napolean complex's or what have you. Opinions of sheep and all that, but its a reality, height is a factor that plays in more to peoples opinions than they think or like to admit. There isnt really a flip side to it, lifes unfair and the shorter you are the more unfair it might feel. There are plenty of areas of life that dont revolve around height, and thats why going mgtow is great, women seem to be one of the largest areas where height factors in.

I feel you though man, Im sure you'll have people tell you to start lifting and that, but it wont matter in 99.9% of cases, height will factor in as a higher priority than physique, guaranteed. So lets stop caring about people who care about height. We all have areas to improve, but our height should never feel like one

Title	Tired of people putting me down all the time
Author	C1375309
Upvotes	7
Comments	42
Date	October 17, 2018 2:39 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/9ouksq/tired_of_people_putting_me_down_all_the_time/
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