Time for my story

Background: 40 yo, divorced two years ago with two kids, due to her hypergamy (basically, she was lusting after a coworker, a guy I knew from my neighboorhood!!!). 5 months of battle before getting the fuck away from home, once I really had proof that she was up to no good or just about to do it. 3 days later she tried to take me back, but I saw trough the lies again, proved her wrong, and got the fuck out of there again. After that, no more chances taken.

In this process, I lost 26 kg. I was a fat fuck and became much nicer to look at that point. Have not gained that weight back (any!)

Never regretted it, in fact, 5 days later was deep in pussy with an old friend, did not even looked for it. After that, two years filled with some dates, some friends DTF, and all of them in a similar way, unsatisfying, plain and simple. Used apps, local scene, what have you... anything to be a BP again. I even had a serious girlfriend who I loved a lot, and had to leave due to her extreme jealousy, even though we spent the whole day together. That one fucked me up and gave her another chance, just to check first person her hypergamy and Chaddy ways.

Now living in another country (more than a year), its been a weird ride. In this country I 've had less, but I had my share, even though it seems impossible for a foreigner, even with a good job.

Fast forward to this summer, I just started working for one of the good companies we all know, I had my kids with me for three weeks, and was considering going MGTOW, I was starting to get tired, too much effort for nothing or for lays that don't even get me off (Seriously, most of the times, it was better to jerk one off in comparison)

Thing is, I was already subscribed here, reading a lot and confirming my experiences with yours (Some of them so similar) and then somebody popped up in one of the language exchange apps (nothing new, I had my share of virtual sex also thanks to those apps).

This girl seemed like an unicorn, she was weird in a good way, so I thought I could give it a try.

She is brazilian, but not the classical one. She had no big "anything", post-wall and a stable job and career. So no red flags...

One of her main selling points was that she was 5 years sexless, even more, "kissless". She had no interest in just sex, no interest in one night stands, and she wants to marry. I caved to the conversations, I knew this was not the usual "virtual jerk-off" I used to have sometimes.

I broke up with her like 5 times, due to inconsistencies on her stories, or plain simple, not wanting to answer some questions (bear in mind she explained very clear she had intention of marrying someday and she wanted HONESTY). We got to the point of having virtual sex (boy, that was a hard one in this case) but still, something was off about her.

My confirmed flags:

  1. Following and making public comments on the hot pictures of Chads she followed, justify them as "joking", even after being in love with me, supposedly.

  2. Adding a guy on FB without knowing him, and then later regret it because he has "married" on the about section. (Why add him to begin with?)

  3. Posting his gym achievements on IG, reap and answer every comment.

  4. Answering an asshole publicly on FB about where does she work out ("Don't worry, there are two gyms by that name, and he cannot make the same schedule as me, he is older")

  5. She used my phrases back at me, the very next day ("You think I would have time to talk to another guy being with you?")

This last week was revealing, she told me about contacts she had previously with other users on those language exchange apps, and they were all horny guys asking for naked pics, something she does not do, so they are blocked.

But one of those blocked contacts was a friend she made in another country, and boy, did she lied with that one: First she never said she met him, she purposedly deleted their pictures (I found them later), then she admits she met him, but with his daughter, then the guy never even met the daughter, first she met him just once, today she met him 3 times while in his country... but no sex!

I even contacted the guy, what do I have to lose? Just wanted to confirm anything. The guy was polite, did not want to shit on her, but the way he said some things, made me realize she was in love with him as she supposedly was with me. Still, she needed to omit, lie, and whatever she thought fit. I could give two shits about her past, but if you start talking, better talk till the end, as I do. Not gonna visit you 9000 km if I get a weird vibe from you.

Still, she tries to sell me that "Her word is sacred" and "had nothing with someone for the last 5 years"

Finally kicked her out of my life, this is the 5th time, but this time I feel at peace. Not angry like before, just in peace.

No unicorns, boys. Not at all. Not even post wall lonely ladies, they still have the hypergamy full-on, Im pretty sure I would be past news the moment she comes to Europe, and she finds any BP dying for her, or if she decides Im taking her for granted.

Thanks!