Hi guys, i've decided to write a post on how the red pill has greatly impacted my life. This is not a theory post or a field report, just my way of saying thank you and maybe it can help inspire new red pillers.

The beginning

Before the redpill i was your average skinny fat boy, masturbated twice a day, average luck with women, absolutely shit game, hunchbacked, and wasnt doing anything productive with my life. Found the red pill and things got interesting from there.

First few months into redpill and it connected the dots for me. I'm from an asian background, so most of the things here didn't surprise me. The biggest questions i had at that time was.

"Why am i not getting sex"

"Why do girls fall those bad boys instead of me, i'm a nice guy and girls like nice guys'

Well the red pill answered all of those questions for me, the answers felt like i was being stabbed, it hurt because i was aware of the reality of it, but i chose not to accept it. So i decided to be what the girls wanted, an asshole/fuckboy/jerk/player.

i started working out and got some noob gains, dressed better, took care of my face, and behave differently when i was out with women. But still i had no luck with women, i was still a beginner in the game, and women can smell that from a mile away. They read your body language, shit test you, and do test you in different ways just to see if you're worth a fuck. I was still determined to change myself, so i kept failing and failing , faking it till i made it. There were nights were i would read tons of theory posts and field reports but all of them eventually pointed to one thing. Go out and just fucking do it.

I went out to a bar alone to get rid of my social anxiety. I stared talking to any random people on the street more, i flirted with cashiers and waitresses. Overall i felt like i was improving but some players i met were miles ahead of my game. I still had alot to learn, and by this point i felt like i had to learn this shit for myself and that reddit could only help me soo much.

The change

I enlisted into the army (not from the US, conscript army for those wondering) and that put my body in total shock, i gained confidence like a motherfucker, fittest condition of my life (not ripped or buff but respectable) i wanted to make full use of my off days and i wanted to fuck. Maybe it was being with a group of men for such a long time that put my body into overdrive. i was a different person.

This new found "power" and my mind subconsciously applying red pill attributes made for really enjoyable dates with women. They thought i was some sort of player, that i get sex with multiple women easily, they were soo in love with the idea of who i was. When in actual fact i was never any of those things and it was at that moment i realised i made it.

Then women became the least of my concerns, i became more productive, i had to make use of my time efficiently, i wanted to try explore new things and take on new challenges. So to you new guys out there, improve yourself first, the women will come by easy.

Apologies if this is not a quality post or if i didn't go into detail about some things, just felt like sharing my story to those of you guys just starting out, it gets worse but then it gets better. if you guys got any question i'd be happy to answer them