Women commentors out in force to defend a wife who is repeatedly raping her husband

My wife has always had a much higher libido than me, but it's never been too much of a problem, she usually just masturbates when she needs to. My wife works part time and I work full time so I am usually more tired so go to bed 1-2 hours before her. Recently she has been waking me up to have sex just before she goes to bed. She is usually doesn't even wake me up before to ask, just starts it and lets that wake me up. If she woke me up to ask I could say no and easily get back to sleep, but this way makes it much harder to do that. I am always too tired to really enjoy it and am always SO tired the next day, so I asked her to stop doing that, but said we could have sex before I went to sleep more often. She agreed to stop, but then did it again 2 days later. I got annoyed at her this time, but she said that I should like waking up to a woman riding me, and if I didn't then I am clearly not attracted to her anymore. This isn't true at all, I love her so much. I get it must be frustrating to not be having as much sex as she wants, but I need my sleep.

AITA for wanting her to stop?

EDIT: This is NOT rape. I fully consent to it, I'm just asking her to do it at another time when I'm not trying to sleep.

EDIT 2: Again, not rape. I am telling you I am giving consent to her to do this, It may not be right before we start but she knows from previous conversations that I have no problem with waking up to her doing this, just would rather she didn't do it when I have work the next day. If I really don't want to one night then I can ask her to stop after it starts and she respects that, have done that before.