I’ve been having this beaten into me countless and countless times that women have an infinite amount of choices no matter how low their smv is. Idk why but it hit me at work out of no where. I was zoning out in the office when...bam! I know people say,” oh you’re 23, you’re still young, have some fun.” Well I will but sex isn’t the only thing and I’m not chasing. Well I’ve come to a few conclusions which I don’t think I’ve seen before.

-Never mention anything about sex to others unless it’s brought upon you (sexual queues, gestures, comments when appropriate).

-Only act when someone shows interests in you, don’t look around chasing(dating apps, social media, school, work)

-Only work on myself, cut porn, fapping,cut off all sexual content like softcore porn.

-Even when I get interested, just be myself and not try to fake anything and tell her straight up what I want. If she doesn’t agree, on to the next one.

-Workout, eat healthier, work on my software engineering career and don’t give women any mind.