So I was texting back and forth with a girl I matched it and wanted to hook up outside for a car date, which is NOT close to her, I have to drive and she has to drive since we live about an hour and a half away from eachother, so I chose a central spot to meetup which is way closer than that. Date set and all and continue bantering for a bit, got to the topic of moving out and she tells me she lives on her own. Now I’m not sure what to do here. Text “well why not meet up there then?” Which could be coming over too thirsty. I don’t want to go to hers when I meet up while on the first date in the central city since it’s way too far for me to drive back(dates on a sunday, so cant stay to sleep), fuck that. Or just date and go to hers on 2nd date (which I know has a higher rate of succes)

Or try texting a bit more “sexual” and change place of date a day before to hers.

Or last option, get her to invite me over which would be the best possibility, not sure how to do that

Now note: I got no plates atm since it’s hard as fuck to date, everythings closed here and even my 190cm blonde hair blue eyes friend has no rotation lol, or else I would’ve just said to meet up at hers