Basically my main goal of this post is to give value, what I have to say is basically my thought process after being in a past 2yr relationship and also my experience dating from thereafter.

INVESTMENT/TIME: As a man your value lies within these two aspects. You are trading your time and investment for any female that you come in contact with that being a relationship, a fuck buddy, ‘friends’, or whatever. The TRUTH is that a lot of men freely give up their time and investment for no good reason at all.

From now on until forever I deal with women on a mathematical basis, it should always be a fair exchange 50/50, when it comes to time and investment. Even better when you receive 60% or more of the value while the woman is getting 40% or less. Why? Simply because you will never lose.

When you are overly invested in a woman YOU WILL END UP BEING PLAYED. This is a hard rule for every man to realize. Also a few things will happen when you’re overly invested. A woman will eventually exploit your weakness all while losing respect for you as a man, also her vagina will dry up as she craves the next dick that’s always available for the taking. Any woman will continue to stay with a man she disrespects as long as she can take some value away from him. I’ve seen this situation happen time and time again.

Men continue to be involved in this exact dynamic because they get COMFORTABLE, being comfortable is the main reason why most men are blind and cannot leave horrible relationships. They’re weak and comfortable with this one subpar female whom they have been with forever. They are accustomed to the usual boring sex. Its come to a point that they invested so fucking much into this one female, and there DOWN at the poker table. They will continue to stay in this dynamic in some strange way of getting a fair return on there investment, which will never happen. Or worse you have the guys who have such low self-esteem and self-awareness that they have placed their entire value and definition of a man into their girlfriend. Which in turn this female becomes the man’s only source of validation, and without her mentally they cannot exist.

POWER: A man’s power lies in his ability to walk away. I’ve been recently applying this hard rule into the dating game. You should be able to walk away and never look back from any woman who is giving you bullshit, causing headaches, drama, and isn’t bringing any VALUE to the table besides her good looks and pussy. There are millions of women in the world DO NOT get caught up on one as there is always a better suited woman to take her position.

As a man you have to be confident within yourself, your presence alone should be rewarded and valued. Too much men place too much value on pussy. When you stop placing value on pussy and place value on to yourself the world will shift into your favor. There have been times where I’m dating a hot girl and getting pussy on a regular basis but I get tired and aggravated because I feel like I’m providing too much value while I’m not being appreciated. The old me would continue to stay in this dynamic because hey I’m getting pussy on a consistent basis and she’s hot but fuck that shit, there has to be more to life. The moment I feel unappreciated for the value that I bring to the table I drop the bitch right there. Why? Because its not worth my time and energy, if I’m getting absolutely nothing except pussy, I feel a woman should uplift her man and truly be the queen to her king.

When you switch your thought process and walk away from anything that’s not giving what you feel like you deserve its like you open up your life to a totally new caliber of women that you thought never existed. Currently I’m dating a girl who’s smart, she brings real value to the table, other than the amazing head and pussy. Also I’m winning in the dynamic I feel like I’m getting more value and investment than what I’m giving, in my dynamic anything I could ever want or need she would comply. However I’m not dumb to the fact that if this dynamic ever changes and I become unhappy I have the ability to walk away.