While I’ll never get married, cohabitate, or have kids, I’m not above hooking up with high quality women. I take usual walks around my building at work and this cute girl starts chatting me up. We talk for a few weeks and I ask her to lunch. She says yes and it goes alright, but I get the feeling she’s not into me so I cut her loose. A month later she is at my office saying how she’s been busy whenever I go over there and we haven’t had the chance to talk. I’m like cool maybe she’s still interested, so I start talking to her again. I then ask her out and only then does she tell me she is married (no ring). However, she did say her husband is cool with her doing things with other guys (forget exactly how she put it). I know that you guys understand female nature better than anybody so I’m trying to understand what’s really going on here. I don’t consider myself a Chad, I’m not rich and I’m average height. But I do have a good job, I’m not ugly, and I workout a lot. So what actually is going on here? I have no plans on cucking another dude.