AFBB: Is there any blame on the alphas women cheat on their betas with?

ichigo56 · 2018-09-21T18:08:40+00:00

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2018-09-21T18:40:43+00:00

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iseehot · 2018-09-21T18:06:03+00:00

This question comes from the old way of thinking.

MGTOW recognize that the rules are being rewritten. If women want to have a relationship and still be free to break it without telling the one they have committed to, men get the same pass.

That is called equality.

DangZagnut · 2018-09-21T17:40:59+00:00

Why would they have blame? It's not their job to cure the woman's relationship problems.

She's a whore, and you don't worry about a whore's johns.

Besides many of these women don't mention it until after the fact.

0signal0 · 2018-09-21T18:27:50+00:00

Technically no, because the other guy usually doesn't even know that the woman is taken. And if he does, at least he should aware the husband/fiance/boyfriend about the fact that his woman is a worthless slut. If anything that guy is doing you a favor.

There is no consensus in this. Some say it's a shitty thing to do (from a moral standpoint this is true), others say it's not (from a practical, rational point of view). I personally wouldn't do it. Sharing a vagina with another guy? No thanks.

2018-09-21T17:50:23+00:00

People outside of a relationship aren't responsible for maintaining the integrity of that relationship. Unless you're coercing someone to stray, people have to be free to choose whether to act on their impulses or not.

In short: no.

Thebigstill · 2018-09-21T18:40:27+00:00

Some times, every time in my case, we don't know the chick has a husband.

JohnBravo9990 · 2018-09-21T19:26:44+00:00

The top tier men and all women are allies in taking advantage of the lower 90% of men.

maggot_brain79 · 2018-09-21T19:29:11+00:00

In my opinion, if the 'Alpha' isn't aware that the woman is in a relationship, he has absolutely no culpability. I've had it happen to me. Luckily I did my due diligence after shit started to get a little suspect and I ghosted that bitch before anything happened and dropped a line to her man who then broke up with her. Saved a couple guys a whole lot of trouble that way. Sometimes though, even when you tell the guys that their girl is a whore, they'll get defensive and confrontational even if you have proof for them. But fuck those guys I guess.

If the 'Alpha' is aware that the woman is in a relationship and still pursues anyway, he does shoulder some of the blame. Primary blame is on the woman but secondary blame falls on the 'Alpha' as well. Most guys who exhibit that kind of behavior should be well aware that doing such a thing can result in injury or death because if you shatter the 'Beta's world view like that he'll get desperate. Given that the 'Beta' in this situation cannot physically retaliate against or confront the woman, he's likely to confront the 'Alpha' instead. However, I think confronting the 'Alpha' is a stupid decision on the 'Beta's part. Most of his anger and rage should be directed at the woman and indeed his efforts would be better for him if he confronted the woman rather than the 'Alpha' in the equation. Defending his woman's 'honor'? A little late for that if she even had any honor to begin with, which most of them don't.

Either way, the world would be a better place if men would stop letting their thirst dictate their actions. Conquering one's own instinct and biology is a difficult task for most and impossible for some, however, so I don't see that dynamic changing any time soon.

2018-09-21T20:54:30+00:00

I think that those guys are lied to. The woman will make her husband out to be some calloused and uncaring tyrant, or that he just neglects her, blah blah.

So the man who he cheats with has this picture of a total monster that is not deserving of his sympathy. I don't really blame the guy. The cheating wife needs to do her husband a favor and get divorced.

CiceroVoltaire · 2018-09-21T19:24:02+00:00

It's the responsibility of people in a committed relationship to honor their commitments to each other.

if someone in a committed relationship does not honor or respect that commitment, that is their responsibility.

If a woman is DTF with me and I'm interested, I will. I did not make or break any commitment. If she is breaking a commitment it's her choice not mine.

IMO

edits: spelling/clarity

Title	AFBB: Is there any blame on the alphas women cheat on their betas with?
Author	Wokeloser
Upvotes	3
Comments	16
Date	September 21, 2018 5:39 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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