Asked recently married coworker if he got his college junker fixed yet. No, "they" decided "they" need a newer, bigger car. I suggested a couple of brands I've been researching in case I need one. No, will be whatever "she" wants and "she" will drive it. He will just be there to 'sign the paperwork'. He gets to start driving her Civic they are still paying on.

This is how the debt creep starts. Always on a quest for upgrading cars, houses, vacation destinations, etc. Then one day, you realize you can barely make ends meet. I sure don't miss those unilateral 'decisions' that add to my debt load so my vagina holder/slave master can be more comfortable.

My two vehicles are paid for. Sure i have repair costs, but no car notes and full insurance that seem to last forever. I am the decider!