24, No motivation to do anything after College is over for the day

2019-03-30T20:25:03+00:00

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anongogogo · 2019-03-30T20:16:49+00:00

Start planning on early retirement. Accumulate fuck you money.

Astral-Projector · 2019-03-30T20:09:29+00:00

Well, almost. But i recommend to start with a creative hobby. Like Music or art. The Music have saved my sanity many Times.

801735 · 2019-03-30T20:26:29+00:00

I feel lethargic as shit

Eat more, get tired physically, it'll boost your T, boost your E and most impotent (hehe), get your out of your head.

BiffBiffBiff27 · 2019-03-30T20:16:55+00:00

You'll only work out what it is by putting yourself in order - process of elimination.

I felt shite in my early twenties. Stick thin, poor diet, no exercise, bad sleep pattern, smoking up too much. 10 years on I'm the total opposite and feel great, though my existential depression is still there.. working on that with deeper pursuits.

User-31f64a4e · 2019-03-30T20:54:10+00:00

You need to work out.
Your description matches exactly the symptoms of physical inactivity and low muscle mass (and hence low T).

Strixt · 2019-03-30T21:12:47+00:00

Working out will keep yourself busy and physically active. Whoever put you on meds have your testosterone level checked and possibly thyroid or just general panel.

Watch cooking videos, and exercise videos. Even if you don’t do those things it is a learning experience. Learn to cook like a real man. Eat things that will make you feel full but without causing you to feel bloated and lethargic.

You need to challenge yourself mentally as well. Start by reading 1 book a month that you choose for yourself not a college book. Try to read 12 in a year and then next year try and do more. Unless you are some kind of omnipotent being you should always be learning. There is simply no reason not to continue learning new things.

For instance I am watching some videos in beer and cigars. I never knew there can be so much to learn on these simple subjects. It is fascinating to know how these delicious things came to be and the various ways to make them. It makes you want to try these tasty things and be apart of something grand. So many cigars are made in so many different countries and travel around the world. They need to be tried.

After trying all these things and learning to love yourself and love to try/experience new things. Think about adopting an older cat if you aren’t allergic. Sometimes coming home to a living space that has someone you can count on to be happy to see you is really great. Even if they just wanna bitch you out to feed them.

2019-03-31T02:03:29+00:00

I feel similar. The only time I leave the house anymore is to put more gas in the car, get something to eat from a restaurant, or go to the grocery store. I still get enjoyment from gaming and watching movies. Overall, my zest for life is just gone.

mgtow-zen · 2019-03-30T20:56:54+00:00

Oftentimes animals make much better friends than people do, but you have to communicate with them using the language of feeling.

I like to hide from the city too. People suck. Women are agitated and men are competing with you for the privilege of being abused. It's fucking stupid to meet people when you know the most that could happen is for people to give you dirty looks.

But what you are experiencing is taking place within the realm of emotion. I disagree with the stoic message. I would say that you absolutely should get in touch with your feelings and experience them. You just do so privately, and without any fanfare.

Also, listen to some music and smoke some dope. :)

2019-03-31T14:11:25+00:00

Sounds like you're just mentally exhausted.

Happens to me after a long stressful week at a desk job.

Really not in the mood to do anything on the weekends.

When I'm in this mood I'd rather watch somebody play games than play games. Last thing I want is more stress and more thinking.

Sometimes I make plans, draw, or just browse things up for auction on goodwill looking for a great deal.

I also get bad caffeine withdrawal symptoms on the weekends because I don't drink any coffee or soda on the weekends. Headache right behind the eyes is the main symptom followed by sleeping most of the day and feeling lethargic in general. Usually by Monday I'm all reset and ready for another stressful high energy day of work with multiple cups of coffee to make it through.

MGTOWch · 2019-03-30T20:35:02+00:00

Well I felt like that a lot in my 20s, but, I alway think about moving my ass a little. The only downside I had is changing things to please people, like going out more even if it’s not really what I wanted.

But it taught me a lesson, you need to experience things to decide after that your like it or not.

I think you should move your damn ass and do something, even if it’s reading or gaming, as it’s doing something.

You only live once, do you really want to have experienced nothing than the blank view of a poor ceiling ?

Well, you can, it it make you happy.

What, you’re not happy ? Get up your ass and do something !

yooshio · 2019-03-30T21:07:25+00:00

I feel like I've already experienced everything life has to offer.

Have you gone skydiving yet? Try that when the weather gets better.

Also, as the others have suggested...check your blood panels...more vitamin D...fish oil...supplement with liquid vitamins and minerals.

Sneakybobo · 2019-03-30T21:20:07+00:00

Maybe you are just a lethargic person. There's nothing wrong with that.

ibz646 · 2019-03-30T22:55:00+00:00

Focus on making money to build financial independence brother. Learn to trade stocks CFDs cryptocurrency etc

ShortBus0101 · 2019-03-30T22:56:36+00:00

Read about vitamin D3, 5-htp and Dopa mucuna and niacin. Whenever I feel 'stuck' in the house, I take those and feel good to go back to my daily routine, including weight lifting, running, playing with my son and the dog and have sex.

You said you are thin. You're probably fit for endurance sports like running. Have you tried? Make a playlist and go for a jog when it's sunny.

There is so much to do in life, I doubt you've done or seen enough. Have you gone skydiving? Hunting or shooting in general? Ride/race motorcycles? Street fights? Those are adrenaline filled events. You might need a little bit of those to get out of the funk.

Freefrombitches123 · 2019-03-30T23:16:36+00:00

It could be a combination of diet and also finding out about this stuff can get you a little down at first. If you are going to uni 5 days a week, then it's only the weekend that you are being truly lazy. You can't rely on motivation tho you have to force yourself to do something no matter how painful. I did it with golf and now I can't get enough of it. But it can be with any hobby, you often don't start enjoying it until some times been put in. There's no point going down the rabbit hole of whats the point in anything in life because there is no point. Even getting money past a certain point just become all about "buying women" or "frontin", no one cares so there is no point you just got to keep going.

oldman_stone · 2019-03-31T01:27:00+00:00

there a college gym you could work out before going home?

ZeroBlink · 2019-03-31T11:43:24+00:00

When you finish college, you will find that you have no friends, because everyone went home... and then you'll question if you even bother finding new friends. SO your co-workers become "new friends" ... which is in general a stupid idea.
It's just the cycle of life I guess.
Get physical again if you already aren't , I find that forcing myself to work out even if occasionally with some dumbells , kinda gives my body reason to "crave" for physical activity. Once I crave physical activity , then also crave mental activity. I watch shitton of medieval tactics and war videos , books, manga, novels... I'm a strategy freak... You have to explore, if you don't explore then your life will feel stagnant. Find new kink... It might be history, biology , chemistry... etc etc. I fking love chemistry and cooking, if you think about it it's like magic. you put two things into a pot and something else (hopefully tasty) comes out. It's just your perception of the world that makes it look uninteresting atm.
Try meditation and train your mind to become like an infants mind... everything you see must appear brand new , this will breathe new perspective and excitement into your life.
There's so much stuff you don't even pay attention to , but it's fking awsome... case and point go out on a field and try to count every blade of grass... and then realize that all that you see is LIVING , every blade of grass... how fking cool is that. How STRONG is the unseen with the naked eye, will to live , to cover almost entire planet in living things.

Title	24, No motivation to do anything after College is over for the day
Author	MGTOWMayhem
Upvotes	16
Comments	26
Date	March 30, 2019 8:06 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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