From what I've learnt from friends and my own experiences in college, Don't fall in love. That shit will waste sooo much time for someone only to get heart broken, and heart break sucks. For me, love for someone else does feel great but it also feels like and emotional/spiritual tax and I cant get over that. Save love for family and friends, not for some college Dame. To be honest I really dont know what to believe in, if I dont believe in love then what can I believe in. Society has drilled in our minds that love, marriage, sex, romance etc. is the most important part of life. Not persuing love sometimes feels like a blessing and a curse, and that applies to when your in love as well. Any advice brothers.