I mean... Men don't really care about most of the petty things that women would judge other people on, notably other women. Females bevahe, dress, say in certain ways not because they want it, but in order to not be judged unfavourably by other women.

Like they are afraid of being independent, having their preferences and sticking to them, of not being in the very core of their social circle. I believe this often leads to paranoia and extreme conformity.

For some time I was working with several women (it was a cancerous environment that could make a whole another post on its own) and they publicly judged me on some bizzare petty things, like the brand of cottage cheese I ate ('too cheap' in their opinion), or when I had my coffee (they didn't like that I waited 1h or 2h after starting the work... to this day I don't know why).