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September 6, 2018

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Author	DudeThatRapedYou
Upvotes	381
Comments	48
Date	September 6, 2018 3:21 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/9djn8e/_/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MGTOW/496610 https://theredarchive.com/post/496610

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[–]DoctorKnockboots3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

What if the child is old enough to actually make such a choice, but as usual "mom" got the house while they are just dividing things up, and the choice between "parents" also amounts to moving 400 miles away, leaving all of your friends? Don't try to pass off your "mom kept the house" bullshit as some special child-rearing instinct. Men make sacrifices for their loved ones, especially children, and you are preying upon it, suggesting that men shouldn't be disruptive about the "custody process". Kids don't want to move to a completely new fucking school district as juniors in high school after having already done so as a sophomore. Other than the huge "disruption" that children will only get to see one parent anymore with any regularity, the "disruption" kids don't want is to their circle of friends. If you want to act like custody is just a choice between parents, then lets start with: the house goes to dad instead of mom, and then see where everyone stands.

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[–]Bonesteel507 points8 points9 points 7 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

" Why would you leave your kid with someone who only wants them for money? "

This is what this post is criticizing, the fact that mom gets default custody. Even if she does'nt actually want to take care of the kid, extorting child support is literally a living for her. Child support has very little to do with the actual needs of the child.

Fact: Men are ultimately held responsible by society for having children, women are not. Women can: Abort, leave a child at a police station, give it up for adoption, drop the kid off with dad and never pay a cent in child support due to the fact that nonpayment for a woman is almost never enforced by the police.

Men on the other hand, pay child support or go to jail. Alternately, live completely off the grid.

Give default custody to Men. They are the ones ultimately responsible for the kids. You'll see the divorce rate significantly decrease and the marriage rates go up. What kind of man signs up for the potential to pay punitive levels of child support for the best years of his life? For kids he doesn't get to see? Can't you see this obvious hell created by society, where Men have 0 power in the reproduction game?

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Some of them love their children ROFL you do realise millions of kids grow up and never know their dad because he's not interested. And being a single parent is known to be very hard so why wouldn't they just give them up for adoption if they don't love them? Plenty of women get 0 money for their kids off the dad. Here in the UK many go self employed cash in hand purely so they can avoid it. I have a friend having this problem and my sisters father always did everything he could to avoid CSA making him pay.

Of course, men can be good parents but it's a fact that most childwork and mothering is done by women. Did you also do dentist appts, doctors, school, vaccinations, shopping for her clothes and toys?

Caretakers? It's good for kids to help around the house and do some chores it prepares them for adulthood, I never had to as my Mother did everything and it would have benefited me to have tbh. It hit hard having to cook and clean everything myself when I moved out, lmao.

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