In our quest to hate women, objectify them, devalue them, and generally abuse them, here's the perfect first date for a misogynist. Don't tell the feminists, this is some heavy handed woman-hating, it's essentially using hypnotic misogyny to dominate a woman and bring out her submissive side.

Taking a woman out to dinner and paying is not going to make her like you. It can come across as beta as fuck, too, as if you are paying for her company. But lots of women like being taken out to dinner, having the man pay, but they aren't being gold-diggers, they are being subs.

In the excellent film Secretary, which if you've never seen you should watch immediately, the Dominant tells the Submissive what to eat and what to wear. This predictably raises feminist hackles, because it's "controlling" women. If the feminists are against it, it's likely good for you. So let's re-frame dominance and submission and the dinner date.

Tell her where she's going, what she will eat, and what she will wear. It's pretty simple really.

"I want to take you to my favorite restaurant. I'll order you the chef's specialty, you'll love it. It's a pretty fancy place so wear a nice dress and heels."

That's alpha as fuck. This is beta as fuck:

"Where do you want to eat? I'll pay, you get whatever. Wear whatever you want, I'm sure you'll look great in anything."

It's called leading and following. Just like in dance, you lead the woman. Soon she'll be looking forward to the new adventures you will be giving her. The frame is that you are doing something you like, and want her company. You are not doing something for her, and it's not an economic exchange where you're paying for dinner and in return she gives you attention. You're building a relationship of dominance and submission, and the way you do it is to start on the first date.

Also, use the terms dominance and submission, precisely because it drives feminists up the wall. But if that's scary to you, use "lead and follow." During the first date it's essentially the same thing.

She'll be begging you to spank her in no time.