I don't like writing long posts, but browsing the sub I've found no similar topic, so I'm thinking this might benefit some.

This post is directed at low SMV guys who thought they hit the jackpot when some hot woman showed interest, tried their luck and only fed some slut's ego.

First of all, know your real SMV. Register to sites like Tinder, put some photos, swipe left and right and see the results. If you are getting little to no matches, read further.

Once you have low SMV proven, take into consideration the possibility that if she approaches / shows interest, that may be because she sees a provider quality in you (of resources or of validation).

To quickly judge whether or not it's genuine sexual attraction or just provider harvesting, take a look at their behavior:

  • if she dresses provocatively, wears lots of makeup, tries to be in the center of attention, chances she's a harvester are extremely high. To be avoided!
  • if she fixes your eyes, but doesn't react defensively when you look back and meets your sight unflinched it is a bad sign. She either hunts for providers or has over the top N count.
  • if she doesn't flinch when bill comes and expects you to pay, that's too obvious.

Generally, just follow your better judgment and stay clear of validation seekers. Never forget that for a woman, just like Chad is important for sex, so are you for validation. Validation is cheap, yes, but becomes more valuable as they are starting to hit the wall. Once sluts hit the wall, they typically go into a validation spree, eager to harvest any proof that makes their ego survive the other day...