I met this women(44) with 3 kids online. She's married to a guy for 25 years but she basically drove he men crazy. They both started seeing other people. The men being successful and having a good job was able to find good matches. But she failed to secure and good date because she has nothing to offer. After realising that her men is having better options and can walk out any moment she started her crazy tantrum, calling him cheater, liar, insensitive and all sorts of things. She played the victim card and pretended that she was really really hurt that he moved on so easily. She said bullshit like 'it was very difficult for me to be with other people and i was never truly happy(because I was faithful inside)'. Now after realising that no one is gonna feed her ass except her husband she asked him to 'work on himself' as if it's all his fault, she makes sure he feels guilty everyday. After every few weeks when he becomes normal and tries to remember all the bad things she did she plays the victim card and fights for few days, he then behaves nicely to her for next few weeks. It's been 4 years like this. Now recently she has kicked him out of their house and he's living nearby on rent. She doesn't allow him to visit their home very often and throws tantrum randomly. I feel bad for this guy.

( I realised I'm no expert in changing women so rather then confronting her I pretend to be nice so that I could get her true story out of her mouth. I have no hope for this women and there's nothing I can do, me showing her mirror won't change anything. One more men lost in the name of marriage.)

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