Many of you read /u/gaylubeoil's post and thought, "All I have to do to get women to fuck me is to be valuable?!" Yes investigator, but hold on just a moment. If you create value for the sole purpose of exchanging it for pussy, you really haven't changed your mindset as a person, and even if you get women in your life, you're still going to fuck it up with your beta attitude and get crushed because of your lack of backbone.

If you create value with the sole intention of being recognized and valued by others - then you are doing what's called "attention seeking behavior" and this is going to leave you with blue balls. Someone who is truly valuable, knows their value, and doesn't need other peoples recognition or appreciation to understand their value. For example, the sun doesn't give a fuck whether or not you appreciate it. It's still going to sustain life on earth as we know it - regardless of your worthless opinion.

Now let's shift mindsets. Instead of being the needy beta, who desperately needs other peoples attention to feel good about himself - let's change that attitude to someone who is truly full of value, but first, you have to have something that is *actually valuable*. Now this isn't something that's objectively valuable. It's subjectively valuable, first to you, and second to those who admire it (but you're not going to worry about them for a while).

Okay so we need to change our mindset, but we also need to create value. The great thing is that almost anything can be valuable. I enjoy fighting. Today I saw a bro punching the bag at my gym with terrible form. I shine on him my knowledge of kickboxing, get him up to speed, and have him throw some punches at me. All together I spend an hour at the gym with some stranger I might never meet again. - Okay so what's the point and how does this generate value.

  1. First I chose something that is valuable to me - fighting. I have a deep enough understanding of the subject to do it proficiently and teach someone else to the point of being proficient.
  2. I am true to the values and principals of said thing.
  3. I share (in this case knowledge and application of fighting) with others.

It's a pretty simple formula. Even the spergiest of spergs should be able to apply it. Find what you like, get good at it, and share it with others. That is the essence of creating value.

Now let's talk about the mindset shift before you run off to punch your friends in the head.

If I am trying to teach gymbro for his approval or attention, I am in the wrong. If I need his approval, recognition, or thanks in order to be satisfied with myself - I am in the wrong. I don't help gymbro because I need him. I help gymbro because he needs me. I am satisfied with offering my value unconditionally and I don't need anything in return. I share my experience of fighting with him simply because I love to fight, and I know that doing so will give me more opportunities to grow as a fighter. Lastly, if I help gymbro because I want to get laid - am going to accomplish neither.

Create value and share it with others because it's what you enjoy doing. It will help you become a better man, and prepare you for hardships in your life. If you do it because you think it's going to help you get laid, you're going to come off as a doosh and accomplish less than if you were honest with your passion.

P.S. Bitches love dudes with a passion for something.

Keep your ego out of your mission. Good luck.