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[–]strongandhappy42 points43 points44 points 7 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
This isn't perfectly related, but I just want to point out that you should never reach out to a girl in pity or charity (or at all, mgtow). If a girl is interested, her job is to make herself attractive and available to you. A girl who does not, or cannot, do this will be useless in every capacity. She will expect to be carried everywhere and have no concern or interest in the man involved. When he drops her, or she becomes dissatisfied, she will just find another. I point this out to counter the myth of the shy sweet girl who just needs someone to lift her up and she will provide all kinds of support and affection. Not true, they are empty useless shells.
[–]CIAC5021 points22 points23 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You help them out and that's what you'll be doing the rest of your life. One shit test after another.
[–][deleted] 13 points14 points15 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Correct, can confirm this technique ruined my life. Enough said.
[–]rationalthought3142 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
what happened?
[–]13Heathens6 points7 points8 points 7 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
This somehow reminds me of a girl gamer I met. Tells me us wants to clear one of the hardest optional content, but refuses to farm the previous content which we cleared together for better equipment.
Yep, she just wants to be carried. You need no less than perfect play by everyone to get through it with our gear back then. Basically, no way in hell were we going to succeed even if our play were perfect because she'll be the dead weight pulling us down.
Guys mistake the shy girl for a girl who isn't vain and bitchy but ends up with someone needy, low personality, and if she does gain confidence and the attention of higher SMV guys she will dump the guy who gave her chance and helped her up.
[–]Docbear641 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Ouch this reminds me of an ex FWB of mine she had literally no initiative, we met over Tinder . We had fun and decided to make things regular but I promise never not once did she take initiative over anything in her life. I'd push her to go to see a therapist to help her with her anxiety but no dice ... She needed money and I encouraged her to get a job, she quite on the second day of it . Her mom paid her rent and all she did all day was watch youtube , post to tumblr, and fuck me and the other guys in her rotation .
No Initiative whatsoever.
[–]combatmonk1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ew
[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
This is a perfect way to attract all the other women in the vicinity.
And then you ignore them and they want you more.
But you got better shit to do.
Fuck em', go your own way...they may follow, but only if they wish to follow your path 100%.
[–]oirectine0011 points12 points13 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I got called a "scary incel" for stating this once. I said I was tired of trying hard to impress women and throwing effort into the void that is online dating. I said that for once I would like to see a woman make that sort of effort towards me.
Being called an "incel" over that by an otherwise intelligent and respected female friend was the final nail in the coffin for me.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's pretty ironic if you think about it.
The culture preaches tolerance for a person's sexuality, but everyone is utterly hateful to a heterosexual man that either has lack of sexual success or voices some sexual frustrations.
Think about the extent we as a society will take to relieve you of those sexual frustrations, but only in ironically the most extreme cases. If you identify as a woman but born a man, it's OK to mutilate your body, take hormones, and become a woman.
If you're a man that's attracted to other men, that's OK too. You can get married and be a couple. Hell, you can even do the family thing by adopting children.
If your a woman who can't be monogamous, well then it's perfectly acceptable to cuck your husband and screw other guys in front of him.
But if you want to try your hand at challenging the gender norms and ask women to put forth as much effort as you do in dating? "incel creep!"
[–]Get1921711 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Me in my high school prom night
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