Time to come out of the closet. How many of us have been assaulted by girlfriends or wives and N.E.V.E.R. called the cops because we sucked it up? Time for #men too.

DangZagnut · 2019-03-02T20:50:17+00:00

I once had a domestic violence advocate punch me. That had a bit of irony to it.

Belrick_NZ · 2019-03-02T21:05:15+00:00

a dozen times or more

my family court judge was strangled by my ex wife and even he didn't call the cops. he instead later apologized for upsetting her enough to assault him

Fantoche_Dreemurr · 2019-03-02T21:36:18+00:00

I've heard :

- If you loved me, you'd hit me

- Real men fight back

- Real men let women hit as much as they want

The moment you realize women have the mental capacity of a 10 year old, you stop getting angry at this shit.

DeplorableToast · 2019-03-02T20:53:16+00:00

Happened to me a couple times.

One time i had to actually defend myself against an armed attack (hammer).

I Disarmed her, and held her down until she indicated she was calm enough for me to let go. Gave her a bruise doing that.

Even though she didn't file a complaint against me with the police, friends and family took her side and believed her sob-story of course.

The road to MGTOW is full of aggressive and lying women. This philosophy is going to save lives! (Hopefully)

Edit: None of those people are in my life today!

Best decision i ever made is going my own way, and stop caring what others think of me or my lifestyle choices.

swankvagabond · 2019-03-02T21:11:26+00:00

Oh man, more than I can count including family members. Luckily I stopped seeing them for good.

krenovinspired · 2019-03-02T21:35:51+00:00

I've had a knife pulled on me. Whatever's handy thrown at me. Punched. Flat out attacked where I had to wrap her up before she hurt me or herself (sidebar: bruised the fuck out of her from that, of she had caked the cops that night, I might have gone to jail, but I was sober and she was blind drunk). Slapped. Etc, etc.

Why not call the cops? Because I have friends in law enforcement and they have flat out told me: dept policy is to jail the dude, or send HIM packing, regardless of circumstances. Reason? The woman, being weaker, is more likely to be hurt.

BloodlessTurnip · 2019-03-03T00:34:58+00:00

Ex-wife was having another one of her insane snit fits... and I was having none of it. Just gave her the "You are crazy look." Didn't even say anything.

Out of the blue, she full-on slaps me.

Without thinking, I slap her back.

Regretted slapping her back... but the deed was done. She didn't call the cops, and I didn't either (why put myself in jail?)

Couple years later, got called for jury duty. Was obviously a case of spousal abuse. Told the judge I couldn't judge the case without leaving my emotions to the side. Couldn't really. Got thrown off the jury.

She never slapped me again though. Guess she figured she wasn't going to get a free-pass to slap anymore.

CiceroVoltaire · 2019-03-02T20:50:38+00:00

Interesting side note: in looking for an image for this post I googled images of "women assaulting men" and 95% of it were images of men assaulting women. Social engineering. When the "Future is female" no one is safe.

Docbear64 · 2019-03-02T20:49:55+00:00

Multiple times and what's even more crazy I can tell you at least two of them slapped me so that I'd slap them back .

What kind of crazy fucked up world do we live in where a woman assaults you so that you can assault her and " put her in her place" but then she can turn around and then get your life ruined for doing the very thing she wanted ?!

The juice IS NOT worth the squeeze AT ALL .

mgtow-zen · 2019-03-02T22:01:14+00:00

I think we all have. Yes, women get away with it. News at 11.

But maybe instead of celebrating victimhood and complaining about women who are abusive, it should be addressed as a child safety issue.

No one cares if men are the target for domestic violence, but even a woman would likely oppose a child living with an abusive woman. So any legal, institutionalized response should center around that, IMO.

Aside from that, I sure get annoyed when men try to claim victim status. It's a losing game, obviously no one cares and it just encourages other men to be victims. It's like giving your power away.

If you can do so, simply leave. No police, no drama, no nothing. If you are abused and you have the option of leaving yet you don't, then you must want the abuse.

Gibits · 2019-03-02T22:28:37+00:00

My ex threatened my and herself with a knife. Right in front of our son. She also threw a lamp at my face that needed a few stitches. Told the ER doctor I fell down.

The ex wife really liked throwing glass items at me. Usually I only get a few cuts. Of course I had to clean up after her.

Never called the cops or ratted to the hospital because they would just arrest me instead.

wwstewart · 2019-03-02T21:53:51+00:00

Yep. Multiple times.

KneeDeepThought · 2019-03-03T00:44:23+00:00

My wife's violence ended our marriage. If you get attacked, go TO the police don't call them to you. This allows you to get away from the Duluth model which will put you in cuffs even if you're bleeding and she's holding the knife. If you live together get an emergency restraining order at the station and the cops will come kick her out.

verynormalsimple · 2019-03-03T00:11:04+00:00

I'm sorry but the # mentoo tag makes me cringe hard for some reason. Other than that I think this has happened to more than 95% of men that have had consistent contact and interaction with women at some point in their life (it could be work, coed school, living with sisters, etc).

2019-03-03T01:19:00+00:00

Got attacked once. Aikido put her on the bed safe, no harm, neither me. She says I deserved it. I told her that if I was to hurt her as she deserved, she'd be on a wheelchair.

fritobandito214 · 2019-03-03T01:57:28+00:00

I was once blind sided and hit in the back of my head with a home phone, and i don't mean a cordless lightweight phone this was a rotary dial home phone. The hit was so brutal it made blood come from my nose, and all over some stupid shit that was totally unprovoked. And yes fellas i know what blood from nose usually means so yupp FritoBandito is very lucky to be here today. Why i didn't go to the cops/hospital, i was young and dumb, and "latino men" just don't report this kinda of thing to the police. Fuck that machismo shit, i'll call the cops on a woman quicker than a rabbit gets fucked now. All this makes me really wonder how horrible the domestic violence rate really is for hispanic men who will not report DV in fear of ridicule and man shaming. Latino women are fucking nuts and extremely violent, i hope we can get it through to men it's ok to ask for help to get away from these psychotic monsters.

Davegvg · 2019-03-05T02:42:04+00:00

I have

1st time I blew it off.

2nd time I told her never to do it again because if I hit her back it could permanently hurt her so I have no other choice if she did it again but to call the cops.

3rd time She blind sucker punched me and pushed my glasses into the side of my head and cut my face up. I called the cops.

What happened? said the cops after initially approaching me as if Id done something wrong - I told him (she didn't work) from what I can tell - she was home all day drinking and lost her shit over a problem with the dishwasher. I came home and she was throwing what could best be described as a conniption fit.

They almost took her away........

I pointed out that if it was her that called on me they would have. Cop told me to work it out rather than deal with her.

Had her served the following week and she was gone. Buh bye!

2019-03-02T21:41:30+00:00

How many of us have been assaulted by girlfriends or wives and N.E.V.E.R. called the cops because we ~~sucked it up?~~ were afraid they would take the man to jail regardless

fixed

AeternusDoleo · 2019-03-03T03:14:31+00:00

It never got physical - but the amount of what I now know to be gaslighting from my now ex was extreme. Screwed with my mind for a LONG time. Red pill rage burned that trash heap down to the ground though... and I've gotten a keen bullshit detector sense out of it. Was it worth it? No, but that's life I suppose...

Never really complained about it to anyone. Felt wrong even then, but... meh. You man up and muddle through. Well. No more of that, not for me. Anyone pulling that on me (both in my personal sphere or in my professional life) gets called out on it on the spot.

AutisticCyborg · 2019-03-03T05:23:58+00:00

Yup.

simplisticallysimple · 2019-03-03T22:16:06+00:00

Me. To be honest, I fought back too.

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