If you wanna marry, buy a wife.

M23W0OH7FV2t · 2018-06-07T05:14:16+00:00

It's MusliM not muslin
Having been forced (by my mother) to go into the arranged marriage thing twice, and gotten divorced both times, I can say that the marriage discussion should have been initiated by me and not have mum go back to the old country and bring a girl back with her. Cultural differences are real, people adjust to them at different rates and, I, being unprepared (age 19 for the first and 23 for the second), didn't realize the depth of cultural shock.

Ayrab4Trump · 2018-06-07T08:24:06+00:00

It’s too late for Americans if that’s what you mean.

But I have succeeded in getting the best of both worlds like you say:

old culture wife from the old country
modern college degree
no worries at home (but can always do more)
watch as society declines around me

Nothing is perfect but I can easily see my marriage lasting a lot longer than the American version (already has).

However, I have no idea how my white American counterparts are supposed to do the same. They’re screwed. They would literally have to wait a generation get all their women to not whore it up as much as they are now. Fat chance.

Idk if our old world concept of “marriage” even fits in todays America.

The_Chiselnator · 2018-06-07T08:17:02+00:00

All marriages are arranged. This is a basic point.

It is simply a question of the extent of the due diligence. You can pick up some EatPraySlut thot at your organic Llama semen bar in fucking California and try to do the due diligence yourself (see how much you find out) or can have more people in the community augment your effort by letting you know more about her, her family, her upbringing and the fates of the marriages of her relatives which are all indicators of her suitability.

There is no one way.

It could be that marriages that involve more members of of the community in the selection process are better at due diligence and matching preferences/ personalities than the other ones.

The real question however is: what do you need to marry a woman for? Kids? Nice. But if you want strong, intelligent, functional, mental illness free kids why would you not welcome extended due diligence through your relatives?

I am not promoting arranged marriages. I am just saying that maybe they are not a bad idea or at least not worse than the alternative

JamesSkepp · 2018-06-07T10:52:19+00:00

Right, so basically you deliberately choose to fuck one and only girl for the rest of your life AND you're willing to pay for this great privilege.

Up next on TRP: how to simultaneously develop ultimate outcome independence, abundance mentality and IDGAF attitude: pay a guy to fuck your wife, preferably the one you paid for.

FYI: the "50% divorce rate in US" is debatable, it's probably lower. What is certain is that divorce rates in US have been slowly declining over past decades (google "USA divorce rates" and go to images to see the trend).

CreatedItJust2Saythi · 2018-06-07T10:56:22+00:00

That's the exact thing betas do: buy the wife.

Betas pay alpha the fux.

This is why only inferior men need to buy their polyandrous wives at the brothel.

I think TRP should ban every piece of advice telling redpillers to embrace the male inferiority culture. This post is telling redpillers outright to go beta. It's the antithesis of the Red Pill. It tells redpillers to replace alpha muscle with beta bux.

DeeplyDisturbed1 · 2018-06-07T11:50:19+00:00

This is one of the worst posts I have read here in a long time. The fact that it survived is a surprise and a sign that TRP has gone mainstream.

While I appreciate creative and new original content, this is neither. On top of it, this post fails every single standard for this sub and borderline breaks the rules - this post helps desperate foreign women way more than it helps men.

This is a bold, and very clever attempt to sneak in an alternate view that is flat out against the spirit and intent of the sub. And you got right past the mods. But not me.

Here are a few thoughts:

A man does not HAVE to marry. Stop this crap. Do it, or don't, but do not take this as inevitable.
If you are going to start posting theories on this sub, at least do something more robust - comparing divorce rates for arranged marriages vs choice-based is problematic It could be that people in arranged marriages are simply more predisposed to stay together anyway (culture and context matter unless you are an idiot). So the average guy on TRP might not have that success regardless of the sort of marriage.
You should also compare happiness of married men (including divorce) to never married men. It is just presented that marriage is a given, but isn't TRP about sexual strategy and the happiness and well-being of men? Your post fails right on the face of it for this reason alone. Do proper comparisons next time, dim wit.
The "spoiler" clickbait title worked. I clicked. Congrats - you got me. But it is lame and you just diminished the quality of this sub. You also just lost my trust. This low quality, low effort crap needs to be slammed. There are other subs for this.

If this stays up, @redpillschool, this is the beginning of the end for this sub.

Have a good day.

Title	If you wanna marry, buy a wife.
Author	PracticeKahneman
Upvotes	0
Comments	18
Date	June 7, 2018 5:02 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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