Been seeing plate for 6 weeks, we meet we chill we fuck then a few days later I call her and set up another round. I only really text for logistics.

I’ve never been with a girl this long.

Plate never calls me, but quite often sends me a good morning text with a tiktok for me to watch about something she knows il like.

Plate constantly refers to me as a natural Dom in the bedroom I’ve read SGM. Always gives me head and either swallows or let’s me finish on her face or boobs. Plate has mentioned she has been with women before.

Plate has mentioned before she would be surprised to see herself in a relationship and so would everyone she knows. Also mentioned she hasn’t told anyone about me.

Plate is always grabbing my hand or touching me in some way whether walking, driving or in bed.

Plate is independent but I would like plate to start chasing me now, calling and making plans etc.

I met plate few years ago when I had high smv, my smv is lower at the moment but I plan on losing 20lbs.

Plate is ideal atm because hard to get other girls in pandemic and on social media with me being 20lbs overweight (I get away with it because I am quite muscley)

I’m going to try push pull

I’m going to try take a week off and not call her... thoughts?

What do I do now?

I work my purpose then see her 1/2 times a week, at the start I felt like I missed her between seeing her but never acted on it, that is now passing and has been good growth and self control for me. That feeling reminds me I want to be an independent man, on my purpose and encourages me

Trying to talk to other girls but want her to chase me, maybe I’m validating her by having conversations? We talk a lot about ideas and weird subjects when together