Often when we think of Beta men and how women relate with them, we think of the usual roles. The "gay" best friend, the shoulder to cry on, the emotional handkerchief, the man to give her advice and console her about her bad boy biker boyfriend who she's having sex with despite her constant cries of "why can't more men be just like you?" This is usually the case for novice gamers but a trap that more often red pill men and intermediate and early advanced level gamers will find themselves in is women using false cues of sexual availability to keep them in their orbiter zone.
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The reason novices will not have this problem as much is to be frank, they usually don't get this far. However once a man starts having some level of success with women is more often then not when he will find himself in these situations. Women can tell he's not the usual doting amateur and will resort to other means to try and hook him. These are frequently what seem like promising sexual cues or "Honey Traps" as I have heard them appropriately named. These are dangerous in the fact that men being logical creatures see these as clear signs of sexual interest and will invest heavily thinking that sex or relationships are inevitable from this position however they are nothing more than another notch of validation for the woman's belt. This is why we so often preach actions over words.
Some of these traps are covered in the Beta Bait article recently listed on here:
In-genuine female acts towards a man designed to entice him with pleasure
As he also says in the article the results are:
their egos are inflated, and the tingles are reduced.
The biggest Honey Trap listed in this article, the one that millions of men fall for a day, myself included at times, women sending nude photographs. It is an extremely easy one to fall for and for that reason it's the biggest one I'm focusing on here today. Your logical mind says here is this woman sending naked pictures of herself, obviously she wants to have sex right? You might be correct at times but the fact is that women today have no restraint against showing their body to almost anyone. In the early days of technology a nude was a pretty big indicator of interest but in today's world you can almost be sure that she sends those same photos to everyone including you. Not as a sexual cue but to bait you into validating her.
To quote Rollo on nudes:
Context is King.
The deductive (beta) response for a guy receiving a topless pic is to applaud it, encourage it and reinforce it in order to get more and / or confirm for himself that he’s “in there” with this girl.
The problem is that the attention you give her is in the context of your approval. Your approving of her topless pic satisfies her reason for sending it – male affirmation of her attractiveness. Once satisfied there’s no reason to send more, or really any reason to pursue a guy who will default to giving her unearned approval. Strippers know this dynamic well.
The counter-intuitive (Alpha) response is a measured disapproval, or casual indifference. That disapproval shouldn’t be a negative rejection of her, but rather an invitation to try harder with the next one. This is exactly why short text-long response time Game is effective – it provokes imagination in women. Neg Hits are based on the same premise; redirection of qualification. Most of women’s shit tests can be circumvented or turned to your advantage by keeping your focus on redirecting her qualifications of you into her qualification for you.
The bottom line is this is more or less a shit test on the opposite end (beta bait.) It's very enticing to show all your cards here but until she is standing naked in front of you, still play the game correctly and recognize this for what it is. I have had all measure of things sent to me, nudes, videos, women creating masturbation and ass shaking videos. I can say for an absolute fact, the times when I responded with near indifference and amused mastery have taken me much more far then validating her.
This does not only apply to visuals though, this also applies to possibly even more so women initiating hyper sexual texting styles.
If a woman is texting you the things she would do to you and now showing you the things she wants to do to you, you need to hit the hard brakes and tell her to just come over. Do not play along or feed into it, it is purely for validation. Tell her to save it for in person and leave it at that.On the slightly more extreme levels but not at all uncommon, women will even have sex once or twice with a man they consider an orbiter. If he is a "lesser alpha," too beta to be considered a long term sexual partner but just alpha enough that she really wants to keep him around, she will actually have sex with him a few times and then keep him hooked with the prospect of future sex. I have found myself in this situation as well as I'm sure many man will who read this article. It is one of the more bizarre occurrences but it does indeed happen.
Women will often try and turn newly red pilled men and intermediate gamers into Intellectual Whores with false promises of sex:
In 1978 the great Woody Allen published a book called Getting Even. In it was a story called "The Whore of Mensa." It was about men who were dating beautiful but stupid women, and had to hire whores to talk to them about intellectual topics. Although the term is not used in the story, I've always thought of that as an "intellectual whore." So this planted the seed of the term.
Later in life I started encountering a certain breed of woman. To begin with they never wanted to sleep with me. Now, this by itself is okay--not all women will want to sleep with me. However, this particular breed wanted to have me around to talk to and to make them laugh, because I was so "entertaining" and "funny." Some of them went so far as to describe our relationship as that of "friends", and a few even had the audacity to talk to me about problems they had with other guys.
Later I realized what had been happening. I was being used for their amusement and entertainment while they were busy fucking outlaw bikers. Of course they weren't interested in me sexually; they were too busy with guys with forearm tattoos. But apparently they still needed some intellectual stimulation. That's when they would call me with an opening line like "Tell me something interesting." or some other not-to-subtle line. I recalled the term intellectual whore and applied it to this situation. These women had made me into their intellectual whore. Since then I have dedicated a large part of my life to avoiding this trap, and the various bitches that try to put you in it.
In short, it does not refer to a "smart slut" as it were, but rather to males who are kept around by women for their mental entertainment. These men usually want to sleep with these women who usually consider these men friends.
The reasons women do this are plentiful but the main reasons being:
Usually when a woman meets a man for the first time, she immediately decides within the first 5 minutes whether or not she's ever going to make love to him. That decision is usually permanent. Whatever follows is a just charade where he effectively becomes her disposable emotional dildo.
Now understand this; If you run into a woman that likes to play games, two things are true: 1. She likes you enough to keep you around as a part of her stash of men designed to satisfy her fickle emotional needs (the more the merrier), 2. She doesn't think that you're annoying enough to turn away.
The game she plays is not one that you can win. That's the first thing you need to understand. She knows that, but you don't. She plays the game by giving you hope (where there is none). Then you respond accordingly by enacting pursuit (when in truth, there's nothing to pursue). This gives her that sexual validation she needs (hey, I'm still hot - this guy wants me) without her having to surrender anything to you. You're basically expendable.
Complain about it, and you'll be quickly deprecated.
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In conclusion, when starting to get success with women and the Red Pill, you must quickly learn to sort through those women with genuine sexual interest in you and those that look to gain attention. This subject bares repeating since it's not as off putting as flat out rejections, lets just be friends, etc. It is also far more enticing for intermediate level guys who are just starting to see success and often times even advanced guys if they aren't paying close attention and get caught off guard. Actions over words, always. I like to defer to the 35th law of the 48 laws of power. Do not get sexual over the phone/text/Email/Social Media. Save that stuff for when she's throwing her panties onto your bedroom door and avoid becoming another attention and validation well.
Law 35: Master the Art of Timing. Never seem to be in a hurry—hurrying betrays a lack of control over yourself, and over time. Always seem patient, as if you know that everything will come to you eventually.
Good luck and play smart
