So basically a few months ago some girl gave me her number on forum [where my posting is pretty prominent] and I found out she went to a uni very close to mine. I told her to meet up and she she couldn't because she away [which is fair enough it was a few weeks of holidays]. I didn't pay her a lot of attention but she was the one hitting me up everyday, our conversations were very light hearted and got quite sexual. I didn't really care much, generally replied much later than when she responded because I was busy anyway and sometimes I completely ignored her messages but she still hit me up first ALL THE TIME. I just used this as an opportunity to brush up on my game never really expecting much from it. She was also always complimenting me as in me being too funny but didn't give any praise in terms of me being ''nice'' or any beta compliments basically.

When I found out that she was back I immediately cut to the chase and told her to come over to mine [probably came on too strong but wanted to see if she really was sincere or just an attention whore] and she kind of ignored that command and I then completely ignored her [she sent a couple of more messages but I didn't respond at all]. Now that was 7 weeks ago and she hasn't said anything but today about 3 hours she sent me a message asking how I've been. I don't know if I should message her back. She did say when she declined the first meet up that she's free after exams in July and then she'll be 'available'. So shall I ignore or respond? Perhaps give it one more chance aka the three strike rule?

Keep in mind that I've never ever got a girl's number before in my life but after taking the red pill I'm working on myself so much and aren't really interested in going out there and talking to girls, yet, anyway until I get my shit all together [am overweight but lost 40lbs so far, currently stand at 6'1'', 220 lbs, down from 260 lbs]