I've heard it a million times from women. How much they love "pleasing a man". I can't even count how many times I've heard, "I didn't realize how much I loved sucking cock until Chad's throbbing member was gyrating in my mouth." The fact that some women are willing to degrade themselves and do "gross" things like rimming or piss play or whatever.

Make no mistake and think they care about giving you pleasure in the least. Sure, they will say that they love watching you cum inside them, "knowing that their body is giving you that instant of supreme pleasure" but it's a lie.

They love the power it gives them. The control over you. The fact that by performing a fifteen minute act of shame upon you can cause you to withdrawal from 10-year long friendships to your guy pals. That they can get away with you paying all the bills and doing all the housework because they don't cook, clean, take care of the pets, or anything... but you'll put up with it because they give you those few moments of sexual bliss every so often.

Don't be fooled. Women don't care about you. They don't do these things because they like seeing you happy, seeing you overwhelmed with pleasure hormones and chemical reactions. They do it to control you. Because it takes little to no effort from them to give you sexual pleasure, much less work than it would take to be a tradcon wife and take care proper of the home.

And after they get that contract in, it will all stop. Or if you let them get away with being fat sloths without extreme sexual gratification, you will only get starfish, if you get any at all (and only when THEY want it but don't feel like going outside to find a Chad or a Tyrone to cuck you). It's temporary and the memories like "oh well remember that time a few years back at the bar when we fucked in the bathroom that was so hot" will enslave you. Don't fall for the honey trap, boyos. Go your own way. Use a prostitute to fulfil all your nasty fetishes instead. IT's guaranteed, they will be better at it than a non-prostitute, and they will probably be tested and less likely to give you an STD than a random bar pickup. Or, if you can, monk mode. Give the sexual acts no power over you. As you get older sex becomes less and less important, and less and less gratifying. Seek higher things with your time and energy. Don't be a slave because you got steak once. Don't be a slave because you got steak yesterday. Be free.