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You don’t have to be religious to go to church. I’m not religious but I still attend occasionally and volunteer with my community.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/24 09:13 AM
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RP has many schools of thought and the “teachings” you mentioned are from the PUA school of thought which is its own niche. Many do not agree with what they preach. So I’d call those PUA videos instead of just RP videos. RP can be anything in the realm of being “unplugged”.
/r/RPChristians22/04/24 06:39 AM
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Women can* work and make their own money, but the fact is many prefer to not have to, especially as they age and their biological clock makes them want to explore having children and nurture a family. When that happens, inevitably having a provider makes sense. Subconsciously through evolution, women are hardwired to bear children and nurture them, and men are hardwired to protect and provide for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:43 PM
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RP BF here and am also an expat in China who has done long distance. I don't usually chime in here unless I believe there's something of value I can contribute to in a post. As someone who is where you are geographically and have been in your shoes, perhaps my two cents on this might be of value to you. I can relate to and am empathetic to your situation. However while reading your post, I noticed a few things that I'd like to caution you about. Some of these are questions and I don't need to kn…
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/22 11:28 AM
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RP BF here. 35-40 pounds on a 5'2" frame will absolutely make a major difference. There are two aspects to weight gain or being overweight that you might want to keep in mind - physical health and mental health. Wiser men (and women) will understand that much of being overweight comes from a source of less-than-optimal mental health, namely depression, anxiety, stress, etc. Any of the aforementioned will release cortisol, and cortisol easily causes one to be overcaloric or store more fat than us…
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/22 03:49 PM
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Sexual attraction is primarily based on fertility. Whether one is stimulated to want to mate with another is based on clear biological markers of health and fertility. Fertility markers include physical symmetry, weight, visible biological defects (think visible diseases), and most importantly - signs of youth. If at least one of the two partners lack some or all of the biological markers of fertility, it's only natural for that partner to be less sexually attracted or not sexually attracted at …
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/22 04:25 AM
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No. I’m saying he isn’t even qualified to start that conversation with her to begin with if he’s unable to provide. If he’s able to provide, then he’s qualified to merely initiate such a conversation with her.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/22 09:42 AM
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RP BF here and I'm around the same age as your BF. If at age 33 he still only has a part-time job and does not yet have a grasp on his career, IMO he has no business making requests about your being a SAHM. If I were him and making those requests, I'd ensure that I myself am in a financial position to back it up. He needs to show he can provide financial security before even bringing it up. Sorry dear, but he has to be able to take care of his own business first and be able to provide before he …
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/22 09:32 AM
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If she is sexually attracted to the man, she will perform to the best of her ability and experience. If she’s performing “duty sex” and more likely than not isn’t attracted to the man, she’ll barely perform if any. The key is attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:35 PM
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Which region of the world are you referring to? They can differ based on continent, country, and even down to the city.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 08:07 PM
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I’m in Asia. I’ve lived in 3 major, cosmopolitan Asian cities in the last 10 years. Virtually every woman here is very slender. Where I am, it would be an understatement to say that overweight women do not do well in the dating market. I would same it’s largely the same in the Middle East as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 08:02 PM
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You're basing your preferences on your parents' specific scenario, which was one that did not appear to work out the way RP intends for it to. Ideally, both partners are faithful, the man leads/provides/secures, and the woman follows/supports/nurtures. It's constant teamwork, and if one side strays, it will fall apart - and that was what happened to your case. Nowhere did RPW ever advocate for the husband to be unfaithful, so I wouldn't blame it on the RPW here. And you're confusing between what…
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/22 10:00 AM
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Dinners or meals are by no means tickets to companionship or intimacy in any way. That’s called a covert contract. Sex comes from sexual attraction, and a meal simply serves as a social function that may or may not facilitate sexual attraction. Covert contracts never work and in the off chances that they do, keep in mind there are women who will occasionally tolerate these men for their resources (fancy meals, lavish gifts, etc) just like men may sometimes tolerate a woman’s poor attitude for he…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 05:05 PM
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A stranger is someone you’ve never met. In that case she’d already met and spent considerable time with him, so he’d either be an acquaintance borderlining a friend with whom she shared a physical activity and quite a bit of banter with. Far from a stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 11:31 PM
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Most if not all of my biggest “failures” in my 20’s (relationships included) were in retrospect some of the biggest blessings in disguise. Quality women can come from both in and outside of churches, and in some cases more so outside than inside. Try to keep your options and venues open.
/r/RPChristians28/07/21 07:13 PM
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At 25, you’re quite literally a baby to many of us. Prioritize “purpose over pussy”, and you will be in good hands. By all means keep dating if you like, and gain experience on vetting better women as you yourself become higher value over time. The rest will fall where they may. Good to hear you have done your homework on RP!
/r/RPChristians28/07/21 06:47 PM
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In other words, seeking a GF will not solve your fear of being alone, because there’s never been a time where a GF or wife is guaranteed to be forever, especially if you’re a low value man and she’s a low value woman. Seeking your own success, however, which in turn will naturally attract higher quality women, will drastically improve your odds.
/r/RPChristians28/07/21 06:40 PM
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Well, how old are you if you don’t mind my asking? The secret to a man’s life and his attractiveness is that it rises steadily and considerably after his 30’s. Google the “SMV curve”. Assuming you are in your 20’s, you should be using your time to develop your sexual market value, which for a man is primary his career and wealth (both are main traits of childbearing readiness). As a man ages and as he develops himself, he naturally attracts more women - and women of better caliber. The quality o…
/r/RPChristians28/07/21 06:36 PM
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Welcome to the real world, where it is up to you to fail and learn from your mistakes. It is our responsibility, as men, to learn how to vet better women and lead them physically, emotionally, and spiritually. You made a sound decision to call things off. She was a wreck. Never make her own problems yours, unless she’s a victim of an unforeseen act of God. She demonstrated a willful and consistent disregard for order, and so should be accountable as such. Finally, if you fear any period of singl…
/r/RPChristians28/07/21 06:15 PM
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She got pumped and dumped!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/07/21 01:15 PM
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You’re kidding right? Read the sidebar. Then google Sexual Market Value.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 02:58 AM
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Ok. Have you seen the SMV graph? At 30, she’s at the low point of her SMV. She’s hit the wall. At 29, your SMV hasn’t even begun to rise. You top out at 40-50. You should be dating them at your age, not marrying them - not to mention being the provider and Knight in shining armor for a damsal in distress. Everything you’re doing it signals to her that you have been putting her on a pedestal. Treat her like a celebrity, and she’ll treat you like a fan. I’m in my mid-30’s dating mid-20’s. Why woul…
/r/askTRP06/04/21 11:29 PM
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Brother, who told you to marry someone older? Were you not aware of the SMV curve? Even same age couples present enough issues on its own already. Who told you to have oneitis like that straight out of your college years? Your SMV goes though the roof at 40, and you traded your future high SMV for a post-wall woman now?? How does that make any sense?
/r/askTRP06/04/21 11:23 PM
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They are children because they were evolved to care for children and so therefore they themselves need to be more childlike.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/20 05:02 AM
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Ok. There will be a limit to how much you can help or influence him. If he can’t figure this out on his own, which is not uncommon, he will likely need the guidance of a good “older brother” role model of sorts. If there are older friends he could reconnect with that he trusts or can build trust with, or you have someone like that in mind that he could potentially turn to as he matures into his 20’s, that would help. Men in their 20’s go through a great deal of change as our SMV starts at near z…
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/20 09:41 PM
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Did he move around as a child? And were his parents or one of his parents often absent? It would help quite a bit if he had/have good mentors or role models, or a solid father figure throughout his life.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/20 08:57 PM
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RP BF here. A great deal of self-esteem issues stem from one’s childhood and upbringing. What’s his relationship like with his parents and did he ever experience a broken home? People with self-esteem issues also tend to get into relationships or stay in them to externally validate their own self-worth through their partner. Be mindful of this as it is unsustainable. Sooner or later, whether with you or by himself, your BF will have to learn to be confident about himself on his own. Whether or n…
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/20 04:38 AM
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Brother, part of TRP is understanding and learning how to let go of things in life that are outside of your control. TRP is also about self responsibility and accountability. We are responsible and accountable for our own behaviors and actions, just like your ex is for herself. You dodged a bullet and should be celebrating, if anything. People will continue to come and go in your life. We each do the best we can for ourselves and others, if able. Beyond that, ultimately we are each on our own ju…
/r/askTRP11/08/20 07:45 PM
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Jesus Christ brother, why do you even bother with her. It’s good you’re getting some practice with frame holding but nobody needs the drama from an LTR that lives with the same amount of balls as there are breasts. Time to plan your exit strategy.
/r/askTRP25/07/20 01:18 PM
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I have long coined a term for this. I called it "beta bragging". Absolute cuckery.
/r/askTRP15/07/20 05:16 PM
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Why would you care unless you gave a fuck? Why would you give a fuck unless you didn’t have value and know your self-worth? Where the fuck is your abundance mentality? Go lift and pursue your mission. Women are the complement to your life, not the focus. You faggot.
/r/askTRP21/06/20 10:52 PM
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What is Onizuka? Do you mean from the anime GTO?
/r/TheRedPill16/06/20 05:44 AM
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And it's probably also the blackpilled low-value simps doing it out of spite towards high value men and women too
/r/TheRedPill16/06/20 03:57 AM
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RP is about self-improvement and outcome independence. The fact that you even placed an emphasis on your wife shows you’re an even bigger faggot than you may have originally thought about yourself. Please read the sidebar again and work on YOURSELF. The wife joining or not is up to her and as captain of the ship, it is up to you to save your own sinking ship regardless of whether the first mate will stay.
/r/askMRP14/06/20 12:29 PM
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Keep in mind that for some people, especially those who are depressed or anxious, it may take experiencing a crisis event to “change”. That is just sometimes necessary and the change becomes so profound that your entire sense of self and worldview is recalibrated. It is a good thing. If your upbringing is from a broken home or there is resentment between you and your parents, then the likelihood that a crisis event is needed increases. You are young. Use your time and youth to pick the most chal…
/r/askTRP06/06/20 06:21 PM
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OP, good stuff. I went through some of the exact same phases as you and had the exact same realization about just not giving a fuck - having outcome independence - and how that translated to much higher attectiveness. The results are day and night. I wanted to ask about one thing specifically though - what’s up with the workout out with your date together in the same gym? I ask because I have a potential plate coming up where the shared gym thing may happen on occasion, if we want it to. What’s …
/r/TheRedPill05/06/20 08:22 PM
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Thanks for your response, this helps clarify a few things and also sheds light on your situation. We do not need to be from a “broken” home to be affected as an adult by the dynamics of how we grew up when we were kids. Your situation was similar to mine in that my relationship with my mother was better than that of my father. This creates a variety of issues particularly for young men and of course also for young women. The leader of a household is the father. Our species was evolved from the m…
/r/askTRP02/06/20 08:14 PM
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Sorry to hear OP, but you dodged a bullet. I must ask though, if you don’t mind. Are you from a broken home? Say, divorced parents etc? Because needing a partner to be emotionally available, be a great listener, etc are generally effeminate traits that are the natural needs of women, and often times for men who grew up in single parent or broken homes. I have had way too many friends with this exact situation and traits so it is more than just a correlation. I just thought I would ask so that if…
/r/askTRP02/06/20 06:09 AM
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I can’t agree more with this. RP happens when we “wake” internally from a catastrophic event in our lives, either from an acute incident or a chronic issue that has dragged on too long and a last straw broke the camel’s back.
/r/RedPillWives31/05/20 05:34 PM
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She said that as a test. If you acted like you didn’t even want it, then she may have wanted you even more.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 08:32 AM
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Sir, thank you very much for this guide. Just out of intuition I’ve been doing lots of what the guide preaches, but there were some good points I have not previously considered. I am saving this guide. All the best, brother.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 11:41 AM
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It’s mainly to develop into a family (with kids). So without that, yes, there’s practically no need for an LTR.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/20 03:06 PM
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Agreed. In my experience on the field - there is an inverse correlation to a woman’s career status vs her familiarity with the game. The higher up she is in the corporate and income ladder, the more clueless or naive she usually is. Some of them were also married and with kids too, and as long as they feel you won’t judge, then they won’t care either. They love living in the moment. And since I’m single, I’m happy to help provide that.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/20 12:13 PM
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American based in Asia here. Can confirm AWALT. It would have been beyond naive for anyone to have assumed otherwise.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/20 02:53 AM
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Pilot here. That beta pilot does not need to own his own plane but can simply rent - which is what most private pilots do. Doesn’t cost that much to fly up somewhere in the US, could be around the same you’d pay for a steak dinner for a party of 3. Nonetheless, the same lessons remain. Never compete with the betas...
/r/TheRedPill13/05/20 10:37 AM
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Where I am the bars are reopening exactly today and social distancing measures are eased today also. There have been no new cases for more than 2 weeks straight where I am. (I’m not based in the US.)
/r/askTRP08/05/20 02:17 AM
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Good huntin’ brother
/r/askTRP07/05/20 05:57 PM
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You’re one of the lucky few, OP. Take it from someone who found out years into a 6-year LTR while already in the corporate world and the two of us met on a business trip. We were in the same industry and knew each other’s clients, colleagues, etc. We were also living together. When it’s that invested and you’re much older, the immediate consequences of a breakup is much greater. It takes longer to recover also. So go out and celebrate bro!!! You’re young and looking back I would rather have expe…
/r/askTRP07/05/20 01:37 PM
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I think his point is that if you want to pursue literally one of the most life-changing events - not just for yourself and but for the new lives you will bring to this world, do it properly and be fully responsible and accountable. If you can't see commiting yourself to your children's psychological and emotional well-being by being available as a father, then perhaps consider not adding a spawn in a world where part of the problems society faces ironically stems from people's lack of masculinit…
/r/askMRP07/05/20 11:30 AM
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How old is your wife? That’s not a piece of information you should leave out, especially when you’re only 30. That guy is likely demonstrating dominance (by being disagreeable, calling her out on her shit, etc) and your girl was pleasantly shocked by how there’s finally a man who had enough balls to sweep her off her feet. Nothing dries up pussy faster than total agreeableness, as it is a sign of the weak. Because you pushed for answers you don’t yet know, she has been tipped off and will likely…
/r/askMRP07/05/20 03:52 AM
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What you haven’t yet learned is to make peace with or completely let go of things that are outside of your control. People’s actions and thoughts will always be outside of our control. Why would asking someone to do something, or not do something, yield a result that you happen to want? When has that ever been up to us? Respect is irrelevant in this case, because as soon as it involves someone else’s actions, it is no longer up to us. Think about that very carefully.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/20 11:17 PM
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Accountable over potentially INAUTHENTIC behavior, though.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/20 09:57 PM
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There is no limit. It is generally AWALT, and as you age and date more women, you may be jaded by it. And let’s not forget - it always takes two hands to clap. If a girl does a low blow, it’s also on you because you picked her as your GF first. Every time shit like this happens, it’s an opportunity for us to grow as better vetters. Learn how to vet your woman properly and stuff like that will be mitigated. It’s good you’re experiencing this while still relatively young (I assume). Imagine when y…
/r/askTRP20/04/20 06:33 AM
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And in other words, what she did shows you that the social aspects of life, particularly how others think of her - is what SHE values. So she is simply trying to destroy what SHE thinks YOU ALSO value AS WELL (which may or may not be true), but there’s much more on this.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 06:11 AM
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Simply to fuck with your allies (aka your “bros) in order to shame you. The whole point of it is to make you lose social capital on both the men and women side. Women are generally social creatures by nature, so lots of what they do out of pettiness and bitterness have to do with social shaming. It’s the only way they can and know how to get to people. Unlike men, we sometimes get physical to solve our problems with each other especially when we’re younger. For women, they can’t do that because …
/r/askTRP20/04/20 06:06 AM
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I’m in a foreign country from where I was born and raised. So I have already done what you’re proposing. Just curious - are you aware of the how long and difficult the process of relocation may be? Especially if you don’t have mobile skill sets and or job skills that are in high demand elsewhere that are in low supply locally in that location you want to be in. Work visas, residency permits, etc can be a pain to get approved and maintain. For a lot of people, relocation in practice is easier sai…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 06:00 AM
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Because women don’t want other women to have what they themselves couldn’t have. They get bitter and petty. Welcome to life :-)
/r/askTRP20/04/20 05:51 AM
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Haha all agreed except you should know better than to imply that entitlement ends with white women only. I assure you they are global and of all ethnicities and nationalities.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/04/20 09:41 AM
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I’d be happy to offer some clarity from personal experience. Both my siblings and I moved around a lot when we were young (think between age 4 to 17, moving to a different country every few years, but even just moving cities can have similar effects). When a child relocates, he or she loses friends. He/she then makes new friends and then loses them again and the cycle may repeat. This can have significant impacts to a child’s social development, confidence, and self-esteem as he/she constantly t…
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/20 01:29 AM
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Agreed.
/r/askMRP08/04/20 01:01 AM
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RP BF here. Find out about our family background, our upbringing. Whether we moved around a lot as kids, and/or had absent father or mother figures. Find out what kind of childhood we had and the relationship we have with our parent(s) and sibling(s). What we lacked in our childhoods will inevitably surface and manifest themselves as potential baggage in our adult lives - and more often than not, will unnecessarily affect our SO’s and our relationships. This goes both ways for both men and women…
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/20 01:09 AM
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Precisely because that behavior will get you no pussy and any pussy that you do get will very quickly dry up. We’re here for this cuck’s long term improvement and success, not short term simping. Delay of gratification is any wise man’s imperative.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 06:40 PM
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And if WE men can smell this desperation from you, you don’t think a woman can sense it? They have a sixth sense for this shit and sooner or later they will smell it and instantly dry up like the Sahara. So why would you continue down this known path where you already know how it will play out for you? Where is your rationality?
/r/askTRP28/03/20 12:33 AM
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Then that means you need female validation in order to feel good about yourself. That is what a cuck is. You should be more turned on to yourself in the mirror than to any other woman. YOU are the prize. Did you not read the sidebar? What are you doing to work on yourself every day instead of simping? Ask yourself not why you can’t get girls, but instead why girls aren’t coming to you automatically - then fix THOSE things. What is your physical, mental, emotional, and financial fitness? Instead …
/r/askTRP28/03/20 12:30 AM
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You’re 26 so your SMV is going to be relatively low. Work on YOURSELF during these golden years of pre-birth for men. If you play your cards right, at 30 and beyond you’re going to score day and night if you wanted to. Women are lagging indicators of success. YOU are the prize, not them. They wait at the finish line to fuck the winners, so ARE YOU A WINNER? If not, then any tinder thot that you simped into a GF will inevitably monkey branch off to a Chad either behind your back to in your face s…
/r/askTRP28/03/20 12:25 AM
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Where would the sidebar be on the phone version? I’ve always wondered. I’ve only seen it on the desktop browser version.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 12:19 AM
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That’s called simping. Only someone with a scarcity mindset would say what you said and think what you think. Go fucking lift and read the sidebar you cuck.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 12:18 AM
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So your solution is oneitis?? Obviously the real solution is GET MORE PLATES! Why is there even a post dedicated for a tinder thot? C’mon man, keep improving your game. Watch that oneitis. Seriously.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 12:17 AM
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They’re made by BP men and/or for a BP audience (which in the West is by and large the majority).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 05:42 PM
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By almost every mainstream media, tv show, and movie since the 80’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 05:48 AM
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I live in a high rise with a clubhouse gym for residents only. That gym is now closed due to corona, so I have been doing calisthenics at home. I don’t have any weights at home but I’m now looking into getting them. Due to corona monkmode, I’ve been reading more and trading more stocks. For entertainment I’ve been spending more time in VR exploring a few titles I bought months ago but haven’t yet tried. There’s been a surge in VR users due to corona, which is making it a fantastic multiplayer so…
/r/askTRP18/03/20 01:01 PM
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MRP only works through a combination of passing both shit and comfort tests, you faggot. Nowhere does it say men can’t display emotions - but you must display them at the right times, and only your positive emotions. Keep your negative emotions in yourself or your garage or among your bros. You faggot.
/r/askMRP17/03/20 04:16 AM
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Part of the RP journey is rebuilding yourself. There is an inherent Lone Ranger element to that while you ascend and eventually come across other RP bros. More importantly, you should be at peace with a reasonable amount of isolation. Check your self-esteem and self-validation levels. They should be on point such that you should not be bothered about spending time for yourself, on yourself.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 11:06 AM
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RP BF in Hong Kong here. Just wanted to wish you guys all the best and take good care.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/20 04:10 AM
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Cool, thanks for sharing. Sounds like you had a decent and stable upbringing, most importantly during your early years. This sets a good foundation for self-worth and what you instinctively look for in healthy relationships. Do you still keep in touch with your dad? Father figures to young women will remain incredibly important throughout your young adult life. It will affect what kind of a man you look for in a serious relationship. Your father and who he was, his values, etc will set the tone …
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/20 09:03 PM
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RP BF here. What I noticed you may have left out is the importance of knowing how much your family’s upbringing may have affected you. What was your upbringing like when you were younger? Father and mother figures? Step siblings? Any abuse? Etc. These will all come into play as you become an adult and inevitably seek certain relationships that mirror your upbringing. Be self-aware of any of these potential issues as early as possible in both yourself and your future boyfriend(s). How you grew up…
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/20 08:13 PM
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She’s only revealing a small teaser. I think you have a good idea what the full flick was probably like. Move on brother. Don’t look back. You literally just dodged the biggest bullet in your life. She may beg at your feet but do not waver. Move on.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 06:44 PM
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Not wanting to put the relationship status on FB? Seriously? My LTR and I of 9 years both decided against putting anything on social media. We enjoy having our own space and our own peace. Both of us have incredibly public jobs, I’m in media and she’s in public relations. Facebook statuses are the last things we want.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 02:35 PM
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Brother, you were passing her shit tests but failing each and every one of her comfort tests. A balance of passing shit and comfort tests is essential for a healthy marriage, especially in a RPM. This is part of the sidebar! I’m glad to hear things are better. Keep up with the balancing. You are the captain of the ship and she is your first mate. Make sure she knows her place but you are responsible for making her feel like she is an essential part of the crew too.
/r/askMRP24/02/20 06:43 PM
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It seems you have more than enough RPW points to reflect on so I won't be adding any further insights at the moment. You'll need time to reflect and analyze your own past, insecurities, desires, and underlying motivations in order to move forward. Sometimes we all do. At this point it is up to you to recognize and make certain changes, some of them may need to be drastic changes. I too am Asian (Asian American) and am based outside of the US. I split quite a bit of time among Shanghai, Hong Kong…
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/20 01:08 AM
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Because the moment you did that, he knew you weren't proper GF material and in that case, he felt there was nothing to lose by merely continuing the physical act. In that sense, and at that very moment, you were expendable to him and not LTR material. Only someone desperate and out of touch with the general norms of courtship in the modern world would do what you did. This is not me judging - I'm the same guy who has been responding to your feedback in detail. I also did not downvote you - I bot…
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/20 08:14 PM
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I see. I figured it was something along those lines, that's why I asked. His behavior may be indicative that there may be unresolved, subconscious mother-son complex involved. A mom walking out on a kid during his formative years often (and should indeed) have significant impact to the child. Abandonment, lack of attention, love, and care, etc are all themes. "He was really independent" is precisely how most people deal with being abandoned - they compartmentalize their trauma and insecurities, …
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/20 08:07 PM
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You're welcome. Do make sure you familiarize yourself with the sidebar. They are the building blocks to the ideal RPW life you're trying to create for yourself. Platonic guys don't count. Most if not all of them are orbiters - and they are there more or less for you to subconsciously validate yourself. But this isn't even the most important thing at the moment - right now we've established some concrete evidence that there are more than a few things you need to be working on for yourself first a…
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/20 07:50 PM
10

I completely agree. I also got the creep feeling as well, and I’m a RP guy. I have posted a comment asking some additional questions to help the OP hopefully get to the bottom of this. There is unhealthy obsession and fixation going on, and we lack a clear picture of the OP’s underlying motives and personal history. My questions, if answered, will bring light to all of them.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/20 04:30 PM
-2

Did you BF come from a broken home or had a very rough time with his parent(s) during his childhood?
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/20 11:07 PM
0

You lost frame. Why did you care so much for a plate? Next her and move on. Always hold frame. The best show of disrespect is to ignore and give the silent treatment. Would you yell at an ant? Someone who you yell at has to be worth it in the first place.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 01:23 AM
1

How old are you both and are you guys working or still in school? Age is relevant.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 11:36 PM
2

Very much agreed. Do women do this to men as well??
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/20 05:45 AM
2

Ask yourself whether you can be completely happy and at peace with being single and even alone for the rest of your life. If you don't think you can be at peace with that, you're not ready for an LTR because you'd just be projecting your need for happiness onto her or relying on the existence of her and your relationship with her to fulfill your own void. That inevitably fails because no one but yourself can make you happy. Make sure the above is not your case.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 01:33 PM
20

They may be billy betas also. See if you can find a RP brother to help keep you on track.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 09:55 PM
39

You win 100% of the fights you don’t get into. Your BF held frame and did not let the situation escalate between him and the old co-worker. You might feel differently if you had to drive him to the hospital with a broken nose only to be stopped by the police on the way for assaulting the old co-worker, even if it was out of self defense. Good job overall.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/20 08:39 PM
1

Thanks for your blogspot link, it has been a fantastic read so far and I've shared it with a married RP bro who has just commended the piece highly as well. Truly excellent insights.
/r/askMRP18/02/20 01:37 PM
-6

RP BF here. My SO knows I have VR porn and she's also seen it. She knows I watch it sometimes and it's more to satisfy my curiosity of what VR and technology can do for everything in our lives. Obviously us guys have our needs and our SO's aren't always there for us, nor should we expect them to be. Think of all the business trips, long distance relationships, and other scenarios where SO's aren't able to see each other for prolonged periods of time. That being said, for me it in no way replaces…
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/20 12:49 PM
1

You need to keep these scenarios in mind: It doesn’t matter whether she says she’s taken, because: Could just be made up as a shit test or to avoid you (as you have also mentioned) Could actually have a BF but doesn’t care if she does the deed with someone else Could actually have a BF but things are going downhill and she’s looking to monkey branch Could actually have a BF but even he may not care. Could be an open relationship. Dozens of other scenarios. You shouldn’t ever care if she says she…
/r/askTRP16/02/20 10:35 AM
1

Approx how old are both of you? If you guys are in your early-mid 20's, forget it - plenty of time to learn from these experiences. Your 20's are literally your "trial" years for precisely this kind of stuff. That's good you brought up about his parents' messy divorce. I'm sure it's affected him to some degree, and keep in mind it's highly likely there're other things in his past you are unaware of. We all have skeletons in our own closets. He is no exception. Once you analyze his past a little …
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/20 05:19 AM
20

RP BF here. Depending on your BF’s source of RP - was he cheated on before, how did he come to learn about TRP, etc there may or may not he longer term issues. It sounds to me like he is in his anger phase which will pass - but again, depending on his background and how he was fed TRP will determine how he moves past the natural anger phase into peace. You need to vet by partially finding out about your BF’s childhood and previous relationship experience. Was he from a broken home, abusive paren…
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/20 04:28 PM
2

Ditto!
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/20 07:24 PM
9

Girls who want to hang but genuinely had something in the way will make an effort to make it easier for you to ask again, or they’ll counter with an alternative in terms of penciling a date. Lacking any of that means SHE soft-nexted you. Leave her on seen. Move on.
/r/askTRP12/02/20 06:01 AM
5

My mother is the same age and I sent her scent candles, she loved them!
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/20 08:53 AM
1

When I ask a girl out it’s usually asking her to join me in an activity I was already gonna enjoy doing myself alone anyway, so it’s more of an invitation to have fun with me and not asking her to do something that was meant for the two of us. It makes a difference because there’s less pressure on her end and I really don’t care all that much whether she joins. If she says no she already had plans then I write back a little while later saying enjoy etc. If she valued what she was going to miss o…
/r/askTRP10/02/20 09:36 PM
1

Make sure you have some evidence or alibi in case she goes apeshit and starts physically abusing herself then calling the cops to frame you. It has happened. Have some plan for if that happens brother. As for the other stuff - seems like you’re in good hands based on the other comments here.
/r/askMRP04/02/20 11:14 PM
1

You never once mentioned their SMV - what are their primary traits like? Beauty and youth. How hot are they? Generally, success and gym going aren’t you primary attributes. Edit: Just read what your bf said. Can totally agree. Check out the crazy hotness scale video on YouTube.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 09:04 AM
48

The mothers want their sons to be betas too partially so that they (the sons) can continue to provide for them. And never forget that many of their attempts at betafying you are shit tests. So are the ensuing eye rolls.
/r/askTRP04/02/20 12:55 AM
4

If you had true abundant mentality, you wouldn’t care whether you ever fucked her again. My recommendation is NEXT. It’s not worth the increased drama. Having your own peace of mind and moving on is priceless. Having said that, it’s your life. You may think with your dick just because you’re a guy and I get that. However everything has its consequences. You may need to live and learn from your own experience rather than someone else’s.
/r/askTRP04/02/20 12:31 AM
1

Don’t worry about hookers. They are legal in many parts of Europe and Asia. Very high end, legitimate businesses and establishments. Just take a trip to one of those many places in the future if you’re up for some legal commercial. Where I am here in Asia (I moved for my career), I hit the clubs on most nights but definitely the commercial for other nights when I’ve got too much going on and don’t need the extra BS. I don’t pay them to fuck, I pay them so they can leave afterward and I can get b…
/r/askMRP22/01/20 09:26 AM
3

Exactly this. I’m in my 30’s so slacking on my mission is the biggest no no. In my 20’s I’ve had enough slacking off that it meant I also had a lot of pussy. Now though, it is all about my mission. It’s all about the hustle.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/20 03:53 AM
1

This!
/r/askTRP20/01/20 03:38 AM
1

RP guy here to give you my perspective... Your scenario has happened to my SO before and I have never been able to sleep next to her after a rejection, for practical reasons. I may not get as upset, as we’ll usually aim to make it happen the next morning etc, but there is no way I would be sleeping next to her after that - purely due to the raging blue balls I would have. I’d literally be sleeping with a raging boner next to her, wide awake, and unable to touch her unless I wish to aggravate eve…
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/20 02:39 PM
0

For me, generally yes it is a priority. Not only that, but it’s our biological mandate. However the intensity of it depends on your libido. HL or LL (High or Low). If you frequent the deadbedroom subreddit you’ll see this issue quite often on both the male and female sides.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/20 02:29 PM
7

You and your oneitis. Assuming he even exists - she was never his to begin with and will never be yours. This is RP 101, make sure you understand this before you catch feels for anyone.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 06:47 PM
2

Never take her word from her words. Take her intentions from her actions. Last week I slept with a married mother of two that told me she was married from the get go. Commonplace. Either she has mentally checked out of that marriage for ages or is in the process of doing so. That’s her prerogative. Now think about that girl with her “long distance BF”. Wake up.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 06:46 PM
1

I’m not doubting you but this needs to be said - if the only evidence you have is from her telling you, then you need more proof. Jealousy and backstabbing can play a role in these situations sometimes, and people can fabricate things. It has happened before. Again I believe you but I just wanted to make sure you verified it and is beyond reasonable doubt first.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/20 05:23 PM
2

OP, part of TRP is remembering that the fun goes where YOU go. Not where she goes. You’ve got this whole thing backwards. Why would you be concerned that she’s missing out on the fun from YOU? Go enjoy yourself as you should and would regardless of whether your wife is joining. You are the fun!
/r/askMRP01/01/20 01:46 PM
1

Couldn't have said this any better myself. Bravo.
/r/askMRP31/12/19 02:33 AM
3

Are you happy with yourself and are you happy alone, when single? I mean happy as like happy as fuck. As happy as you can be. Answer that first.
/r/askMRP30/12/19 03:49 PM
7

Exactly this. It is evident the OP’s self worth is based on the GF he may or may not have at any given moment. Very bad idea.
/r/askMRP30/12/19 03:16 PM
7

I invest time and energy yes - but who said I expect a certain degree of returns? It is an expectation issue possibly on your end, not a trust issue. In real world, betrayal happens. That is the nature of relationships (of any kind, from business to romance). You’ll need to accept that to get into the business of relationships is to expose yourself to both the upsides and downsides. To go into any relationship expecting only the upsides would no doubt be extremely naive. And you don’t need to te…
/r/askMRP30/12/19 03:10 PM
22

My gf isn’t mine to begin with. I do my best to make sure her interest in me is actively maintained, but at the end of the day I am at peace with the fact that she is not mine - it is only my turn. That is a fundamental part of TRP - to let go of what you ultimately cannot control. Any control you feel you have had has been an illusion all along. And the fact that you care so much indicates possible scarce mentality. Practice abundance mentality and naturally you will also care less, because you…
/r/askMRP30/12/19 02:55 PM
3

Agreed, great points.
/r/MGTOW18/12/19 07:55 AM
6

Great point and fully agreed. I’ve wondered too - what’s the scientific explanation for women liking emotionless men? Is it because they are more likely to have good composure and calmness in times of crisis, making them good leaders and mates? Not to mention the mystery factor. What else?
/r/MGTOW18/12/19 06:32 AM
10

Yes. You also have no idea as to the nature of that other guy's relationship with his wife. Your suggesting to "reveal" the affair to his wife implies that somehow she even gives a fuck. More often than not, that other wife has already checked out of the relationship months/years ago and your wife may have gathered the same, and so has been "making her move". Your own wife probably checked out months ago, at minimum. I also just learned that you married a single mother with 2 kids. Unless you yo…
/r/askMRP16/12/19 03:51 PM
7

She found what she considers to be a “better provider”, not a better man. Depending on her SMV she may continue to monkey double backflip off of Chads. I wouldn’t recommend giving any grief to the simp. It’s not worth your effort. You’re still currently emotionally attached so you may be keen on doing things out of spite. At the end of the day the best course forward is focusing on yourself.
/r/askMRP16/12/19 03:39 PM
1

Elder care will also be huge in the next 10-15 years due to the aging boomer population.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 11:53 AM
1

AI, renewable energy, geo-engineering, computer science, gaming, VR, AR, MR, vertical mobility (personal transport), etc will be very important industries. Skills wise - this depends on what you’re good at. Early on you need to identify whether you’re an academic with hard skills (engineering etc) or a people person with soft skills (social skills, salesmanship, etc). Both are needed for the greatest success - as was the case with Steve Woz (hard skills) partnering with Steve Jobs (soft skills).…
/r/askTRP13/12/19 11:52 AM
1

I have replied to the OP’s question. Feel free to check above for my response. Happy holidays!
/r/askTRP13/12/19 07:22 AM
1

Hey man, I’ve been so busy I haven’t gotten a chance to properly sit down and rely to this until now. To answer your question: Yes, I make enough to have a comfy quality of life with savings. The word “entrepreneurs” is very broad in definition. I’m a business owner, but I don’t consider myself to be an entrepreneur. I consider entrepreneurs to be people who take a bit more risks than the rest of us by daring to innovate and open new categories. I did no such thing - I simply turned my prior emp…
/r/askTRP13/12/19 07:21 AM
3

You did the right thing. Look at what she did in just 4 months - now imagine 4 years into the relationship. You’re learning how to vet an LTR which is great, but you should be dating more women as plates so that you build abundance mentality and a better data pool for what women do in relationships and as a partner. Based on how you wrote your post and going straight for self-criticism, I have a good feeling you’re going to go a long way. I admire your thinking that you probably did something to…
/r/askTRP25/11/19 11:58 PM
1

In terms of getting the spotlight and prestige, connections, social capital, etc it would be the editors. And yes they have a ton of growth as well.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 02:27 AM
1

No I did not, thanks for reminding me that I missed this question. Work and travel got in the way. I’m working on this response now.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 02:04 AM
1

High-end media. Think something like Forbes.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 01:56 AM
1

When it comes specifically to seeking a long term mate that could potentially by the mother of your kids - then yes. Her value there would primarily be your fertility which only comes with youth, as well as her beauty which is a strong indicator in how handsome/ugly your kids will look. These are biological and social factors built in to us for maximizing the chances of a healthy, presentable offspring. Other traits may of course be important too, depending on the person seeking. But ultimately …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/19 05:05 PM
1

I actually made sure I scrolled sufficiently down to check for his answer before asking. I did not see anyone who asked nor an answer. I’m guessing likely because they were’t upvoted enough.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/19 01:45 AM
0

Great story, thanks brother. But what the hell was her gift?? Don’t leave us hangin’!
/r/TheRedPill21/11/19 12:37 AM
1

Have fun getting some new gainz!
/r/askTRP13/11/19 02:39 PM
1

Treat her like a celebrity and she’ll treat you like a fan. That’s how it all started. I put her on such a high pedestal that she could not help but subconsciously recognize how much I devalue myself and therefore a strong indication of my lack of self-worth (but at the time, I had an absolutely fantastic career and job, I still do). Nobody wants to be with someone of that low sense of self-worth. Nobody wants to be with a loser. Another mistake was I prioritized the unicorn woman oneitis over m…
/r/askTRP13/11/19 02:14 PM
6

DITTO. Exactly this sir. My eyes widened and I verbally went OHHHH outloud even though I was alone.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 05:32 AM
12

A lot of MGTOW men date. They simply don’t make women, hook ups, or LTRs their priority. Some date quite a bit, but will always prioritize their non-women-related goals over dating. The reason they talk about women is so the thousands of newcomers every day can relate with their own situations better and to remind the community, especially the newcomers, why the path exists. Like with any group, there are those who are at peace and those they harbor darkness and turmoil. The ideal typical MGTOW …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/19 09:47 AM
1

Yes, I will respond later. I’m on an adhoc business trip since two days ago but I’ll get back to you on this in the next day or so.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 09:13 AM
3

My young brother. You forgot that men are the gatekeepers of commitment, while women are the gatekeepers of sex. You voluntarily flung your gate of commitment wide open. That was supposed to be HER job to try and PRY past your gate with every ounce of sustained effort. By volunteering to commit, you’re telling her you don’t have options. Because someone with true options will not commit - they will play their field in order to evaluate all their options. She WANTED to be one of your options, but…
/r/askTRP21/10/19 06:51 AM
1

Excellent report... Thank you sir and enjoy!
/r/askTRP20/10/19 01:15 PM
16

Being BP and RP attracts you to different people. They could also attract you to the same people but in different ways. I'll just share with you how I got to know that particular mentor of mine. Before I found that ex had cheated on me, I already kind of looked up to this guy in my company whom was higher up in the corporate ladder, but really only as my career mentor. We were getting along as a career mentor/mentee pair as well. When I found out about the cheating, I was in my office at the tim…
/r/askTRP19/10/19 02:18 PM
2

I went on to own my own company and retained all my previous employers as my clients. I found the path of living at my best, instead of at “her” best which will only and always inevitably fail.
/r/askTRP19/10/19 09:38 AM
100

Sorry to hear, OP. I thought mine was an angel too - the unicorn different from all the other girls out there that all the RP men bash on. She was special. She was mine. She would never hurt me. I couldn’t even fathom her doing anything but love me. Forever and for life. I bought a ring, too. We were living together. And then I found out. Just like you. And then it was the biggest wake up call of my life. The biggest blessing in disguise. I should have thanked her for cheating, as it made me lea…
/r/askTRP19/10/19 02:21 AM
9

Curious what red flags they were too..
/r/askTRP19/10/19 02:13 AM
5

The ship has sailed brother. The same thing happened to me when my last ex was 24 some 8 years ago. I “took her back” after an initial breakup due to her seeing her ex, and it was the worst decision I ever made. She did everything else great and had a great career too. The whole LTR lasted 6 years. Going back with her deep down it made her lose respect for me and she continued to break boundaries - and was only smarter about it since she already knew she fucked up once. My taking her back meant …
/r/askTRP08/10/19 09:38 PM
1

This!!
/r/askTRP08/10/19 09:23 PM
1

The 48 laws of power dictates that you should not outshine your master... It’s literally Law #1 of the 48.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 01:12 AM
1

Well said!
/r/askTRP05/10/19 06:46 AM
8

Ditto!!!
/r/askTRP04/10/19 07:06 PM
2

Don’t be fooled. She may even already have hook ups setup by herself or her group. To maintain her image she’ll continue to play the “I don’t wanna to go but if they go I’ll go” card in order to appear plausibly uninterested in going. AWALT. Don’t be naive man!
/r/askTRP02/10/19 07:52 AM
2

I disagree. I work in entertainment. The audience never see what we see. We’re on the inside and see and hear every dirty little secret nobody likes to hear. There are no fairytales when you’re on the inside. The fairytales are perceived by those outside consuming the content and what is portrayed by the industry.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 05:43 AM
2

It’s because you are deep down insecure of your own self-esteem, and internally and subconsciously recognize that the lower HB girl is “well within your reach” as a potential mate. Essentially, who you hit on is a direct reflection of the SMV score you give yourself. Work on your own self-esteem and I am sure you will be getting signals from higher HBs as well.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 03:09 PM
0

This. It’s also basic psychology of attraction 101. This is how one starts off on the right foot!
/r/askTRP20/09/19 05:20 AM
2

If she has cheated on other SO’s in the past, then that’s a clear red flag she isn’t wife or mother material. Why was she not next’ed or vetted off as soon as you knew that?
/r/askTRP20/09/19 05:18 AM
2

Everyone you know is happily married ON THE SURFACE. Don’t be delusional and mistake impressions for reality. I’m sorry to hear brother - but congratulations on your divorce so that you can now finally rebuild YOURSELF - as you started off on the wrong foot to begin with, so the relationship wasn’t going to end well in the first place. You started off on the wrong foot by putting her on the pedestal. By doing so you unspokenly confirmed to her that you are of lower value. Every woman wants a man…
/r/askTRP20/09/19 05:13 AM
3

Brother, congratulations on your divorce. Use the time to rebuild yourself. Don’t get into another oneitis - go into monk mode for awhile to purge yourself of all your emotional baggage. Rebuild your self-esteem that is independent from women and your relationship “status”. Only then will your true self begin to emerge. Keep us posted!
/r/MGTOW20/09/19 01:49 AM
2

I’m a musician and a licensed private pilot for over 10 years. Currently based in Hong Kong. If you head over here, feel free to PM me. Drinks on me pal. All the best.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 01:16 AM
1

Brother, you did the right thing. You learned from the past and applied it to the present. Never take BS lies - they are just the tip of the iceberg. If those are what she was willing to reveal - imagine the things she has or will have kept to herself a year, 3 years, or 5-10 years down the road. You dodged a bullet and should be happy about it. Go have a whack, clear your head, and move on.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 09:54 PM
1

You’re talking about PUAs, not RP. PUAs are simply one of the many “practitioners” of RP that may or may not have “gone astray”. It’d be like talking about how best to build a car and someone only references go karts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 12:36 PM
6

Redpillers do not reject marriage. In fact it’s the very opposite - that’s why the redpill marriage subreddit and redpill women subreddits exist in the first place. Most redpillers welcome marriage but it is only advised if kids are mutually in the picture and if the woman is properly vetted. In RP marriages, men are the captains of their family ships. Men provide direction and women provide depth. MGTOWs on the other hand by and large reject marriage as their members consists largely of divorce…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 12:31 PM
3

Indeed. And men are hell of a lot simpler lol
/r/askTRP25/07/19 01:33 AM
2

I’d have to respectfully disagree with the OP. My experience is that womens’ standards go up when they look for a billy beta provider. Their standards for casual sex go down gradually as they age while they continue to seek casual sex behind billy beta’s back, as there are fewer and fewer Chads and Tyrones willing to fuck her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 01:25 AM
1

It means “Hey, I’ve just told you in public that I am officially attached, so if you wanna game me, yes I will let you do that and we may eventually hook up but it will all have to be discrete.”
/r/askTRP25/07/19 01:18 AM
1

Thanks!
/r/askMRP23/07/19 02:19 PM
1

I started lifting about a year ago and have never incorporated the row machine into my routine at my gym. Thanks for reminding me about this. If you have any tips for using the row machine, do let me know. Many thanks!
/r/askMRP23/07/19 03:27 AM
2

You just described my ex almost exactly. We were 6 years in, she monkey branched, and wrote me an email less than a year later. I was still redpilling at the time and stupidly replied. Never again. Been focusing on working on myself in the last 2 years. Thanks for sharing and best wishes to you brother.
/r/MGTOW22/07/19 05:12 AM
3

Yes. After you game her a bit and when in comfort and isolation, she’ll say they actually recently broke up / he was her ex but they were still living together / she wasn’t sure if it had ended as they were still working things out at the time, etc etc etc. There is an infinitely long list of excuses they can and will make up on the fly.
/r/askTRP21/07/19 01:14 AM
9

She would, as a shit test to see whether you possess the traits that could carry on despite hearing about her “BF”. Some have mentioned BF to me and after we fucked, told me they did it in order to let me know that they’d like it to be on the down low.
/r/askTRP20/07/19 03:27 PM
2

Great face, but horrible hair for sure. Spiky hair does not work on you.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 05:52 AM
11

Awesome response, made a ton of sense. This seriously needs to be pinned. Thank you!
/r/MGTOW17/07/19 07:35 AM
1

Also I just read the last part of your original post. If you understood TRP, you’d know it’s hopeless to “make friends” with “cute, hot” girls. If you try to meet new people with that agenda in mind, anybody can smell your desperation from a mile away. You’re young, your SMV is gonna suck. Work on yourself, build value, and meet people of greater value than your own. Chase success, and as a byproduct, women will chase you. If you just wanna practice your day game, that’s a different story but I …
/r/askTRP17/07/19 03:41 AM
1

Also I just realized you’re also the OP, which makes your reply that much weirder lol.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 03:36 AM
1

Have you actually been to a meetup group? I’m in Asia. I’ve been in meetups in Shanghai, Hong Kong, and Singapore. The specific interests groups I’m involved in include music, video games, travel, languages, astronomy, culture, sports, fitness, and a variety of others. Their ages are anywhere between 18 to as high as 40’ish, depending on the interest. Their ethnicities and nationalities vary widely as well. Perhaps YMMV in certain parts of Australia, but I’ll stand by my experience with meetup g…
/r/askTRP17/07/19 03:34 AM
14

What is the reason for women wanting grandchildren? Is there a practical reason or perhaps it’s hardwired into them biologically? If so, how?
/r/MGTOW17/07/19 02:32 AM
1

In other parts of the world, you wouldn’t need to only masturbate. Prostitution is legal in many countries, including the country where I’m currently in. :-)
/r/MGTOW17/07/19 02:32 AM
6

You can certainly expand beyond your university environment. Check www.meetup.com for interest groups near your area.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 10:20 AM
2

Yeah I have no idea why people would NOT make that connection and potentially choose to be offended lol
/r/MGTOW13/07/19 11:50 PM
7

It doesn’t, but the OP included that bit likely because it matches the “Tyrone” in the meme.
/r/MGTOW13/07/19 01:29 PM
5

Good call brother. Keep us posted on the development!
/r/MGTOW26/06/19 02:54 AM
18

How can your sexual market value plummet with being single? If anything it would make you more valuable since you aren’t yet taken. Continue working on yourself and build value. How social is your job btw? Mine is extremely social (I’m in media and public relations) and so I get to mix quite a bit of fraternizing with work in my industry.
/r/askTRP23/06/19 05:42 AM
4

It’s important for young people today if their social circles are mediocre, and especially if their circles happen to be equally young or younger.
/r/askTRP23/06/19 05:35 AM
1

Your have an irrational fear. You cannot possibly get pregnant workout having sperm inside your vagina in the first place. A condom, used properly, which is extremely easy to do, will keep all sperm inside the condom tip every time. Enjoy and have fun!
/r/askTRP12/06/19 10:00 PM
4

Greeting from Hong Kong brother. Enjoy the GYOW life! I am enjoying it to the fullest. All the best.
/r/MGTOW10/06/19 01:05 PM
3

If I may continue this conversation with you brother, I am actually interested in having a meaning discussion regarding some points without dragging anything out too long. May I ask whether you are from a broken home? You remind me of some of my best friends who married early because of their broken homes. I had long discussions on many evenings about this with them - we dissected and analyzed their desire for female companionship in order to self-validate (self-esteem, self-worth, etc). At the …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 09:23 AM
2

This can work only if you and the woman are young. As you age, women’s expectations of your experience - in all fields of life, increase. So in career, in finance, in connections, and in sexual experience - in their eyes all that need to be proportional to your age. 23 is still young, men are born at 30, so don’t be afraid to take chances. You won’t have the same opportunities and relative lack of serious consequences to really “explore” in life later on. Best wishes to you brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 08:36 AM
1

May I ask if you’re from a broken home? It usually has a lot to do with it and I can tell you more if so.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 08:47 AM
1

How old are you and how are your relations with your parents? These affect why you might not have aspirations at the moment.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 01:09 AM
5

Private pilot here and an aviation magazine editor. Best of luck brother and remember your license is your license to learn!
/r/MGTOW21/05/19 12:16 AM
2

Lovely indeed. Thank you and you too brother.
/r/MGTOW17/05/19 08:02 PM
12

Thanks my friend, I will. All the best to you as well.
/r/MGTOW17/05/19 12:54 PM
2

Ditto.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 07:39 PM
3

No, I’m suggesting for those of us who may have been dealt a bad hand in life to be extra prudent and vigilant when choosing to have kids so that the bad hand doesn’t automatically get perpetuated to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 07:12 PM
1

They don’t need to wait for the perfect one. Just one that isn’t trash. Mating with trash for either sexes are likely not going to bring humanity further, either. The point is life isn’t fair. Sometimes you’re dealt bad genetics and/or environment and you have to make do with what you’ve got, for both sexes. Sometimes you have to pick your poison, and sometimes the poison gets you. However it is the individual’s imperative to make sure that the poison stops with him/her and isn’t perpetuated to …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 07:06 PM
4

There you go. “Claim”. It is up to the female to see past the claims of her potential mates and actually judge the man’s integrity, character, ethics, and trustworthiness. If the woman wasn’t brought up in that way though, the same problem can and will often perpetuate to the next generation especially if the kid is a daughter. Dads become their daughters’ role models for how to properly vet their own man in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 07:00 PM
1

Because for every deadbeat, there is a woman who misjudged the quality of her man or knowingly mated with an unreliable man. It takes two to tango so both are responsible. That is of course separate from other cases such as infidelity on both sides or one side, or that the man or woman was just plain crazy and one side could not continue viably with the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 06:56 PM
1

OP, may I ask about your relationship with your family or specifically your parents? Did you come from a broken home by any chance? As you remind me of many of my friends who come from certain environments that caused their BP tendencies. I can explain more about that if so.
/r/askTRP08/05/19 05:01 PM
1

Legal and regulated here in many parts of Asia, so it’s common place.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 06:36 AM
9

Absolutely. You’re missing the point that affects all men beyond the potential immediate physical gratification of one, assuming he even wanted that kiss from her in the first place.
/r/MensRights08/05/19 06:32 AM
2

Definitely please do a service to the students and report her.
/r/MensRights08/05/19 06:11 AM
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It’s sad that you feel you need to be attached to someone in order to validate your own self worth, brother. I hope you resolve whatever self-esteem issues or deep-seated insecurities you may have about yourself. And if you’re a woman, then everything makes sense LOL.
/r/MGTOW07/05/19 05:08 AM
1

Brother, THIS is TRP. She’s doing what any woman with a brain would do. If you were a woman, you would also do the same especially if you were a redpilled one. Both genders will maximize their options and so should you. You are displaying weakness and insecurity by somehow needing her “love” for you to be “genuine” and for her actions to not be “calculating”, when in fact those are the very things that reveal your insecurities about yourself. Are you not confident in your own frame and capabilit…
/r/askTRP04/05/19 09:49 PM
1

I moved to Asia awhile back for work and know a couple of buddies in finance who have recently moved to rapidly developing countries like Myanmar, Vietnam, etc to continue their finance careers. Those countries are “the next China”. Some of them are with oil companies and others with Visa, MasterCard, etc. I myself am in the first-tier locations such as Shanghai, Hong Kong, and Singapore which you’re probably not looking for (high CoL).
/r/askTRP30/04/19 03:01 AM
2

I understand you asked about combat sports to try and alleviate your low self-esteem issues. However I am more concerned/curious about your working out the source and root cause(s) of said self-esteem issues. Some of them cannot he understated. From broken home to childhood trauma and other upbringing-related issues, they will need to be addressed accordingly. Otherwise no amount of BJJ etc will get you the genuine confidence you need.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 02:47 AM
1

At 19, you aren’t even born as a man. How can you possibly hope to have a relationship, much less lead in one as a captain? First you have to have lived and experienced enough to BE a captain. A captain, by definition, is a leader who has, through his wits and judgment, led his crew to survive storms and life-threatening hazards of the rough sea. What storms and hazards of life have you overcome? Indulge me.
/r/askMRP26/04/19 02:56 AM
1

It’s completely legal where I am based, not just the country I’m in but several counties in my region. I do hope the US can see the sense in this one day and join the rest of the world in doing what makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 05:56 PM
3

Can confirm the same legality and quality in many parts of Asia including Singapore and Hong Kong.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/19 10:16 AM
1

It was never like any of the above in Asia. We’re all about fair/pale skin, slenderness, cuteness (sometimes including petite-ness), silky hair, very traditional feminine features. I believe your markers above may only apply to the US or Western world in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 07:50 AM
3

What if I identified as the opposite sex? Lol
/r/MensRights10/04/19 07:13 AM
1

OP, sorry it took awhile to respond. Thanks for your thoughts too, they have shed some light on the issue. By broken home it includes soured and broken relationships with our parent(s) since childhood. They affect how we subconsciously process and perceive adult relationships, and cause us to develop insecurities and needs that are manifested through our responses from the interactions of our significant others. You are already self-aware of some of it which is an awesome first step - many would…
/r/askTRP07/04/19 04:15 AM
4

OP, if you don’t mind my asking - were you from a broken home? Many of my friends who exhibit the same behaviors are from broken homes and crave affection because of it.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 03:30 PM
1

Your SMV is always location-dependent. I experienced the same as an Asian American who moved to Asia for work and continue to visit the US often for biz. The SMV disparity is literally day and night. When you are making decisions for your job, SMV and quality of life will undoubtedly be impacted depending on where you geophysically move to. There's no way around this. What you do have going for you is that you are well-traveled and hopefully have retained all of your abundance mindset. Let their…
/r/askTRP02/04/19 09:28 AM
1

Agreed. OP has some serious reflection about subconscious baggage that need unpacking.
/r/askMRP02/04/19 03:03 AM
2

You can be born rich or be self-made and attain high SMV “early” that way, but high SMV includes attaining the highest potential of your intellectual and emotional intelligence as well - traits that are acquired through a wide array of life experiences that build and harden you. You’re in it to be the captain of her ship, so you better make sure you’ve got the miles on your belt to take command. Above all else, ask yourself whether you’re happy alone. Whether you’re content with who you are in t…
/r/askMRP30/03/19 01:04 PM
1

Why in the world would you want to lock down a woman when you at age 25 will still have an UNKNOWN SMV? Are you not aware that your SMV only shows itself BEGINNING at 30? Women are the gatekeepers of sex and men are the gatekeepers of commitment. Tell me, how are you gatekeeping?
/r/askMRP30/03/19 02:29 AM
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OP, PLEASE LISTEN to this advice.
/r/askMRP30/03/19 02:28 AM
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OP, I have the exact same issue with my family and relatives. All my bluepilled cousins married “early” with toddlers and more kids on the way, and all I get asked at the family reunions and BBQs are when I will have an LTR, because you know, apparently my time is “running out” at early 30’s LOL. Seriously it is becoming such an annoyance that I actually wonder whether there are certain things I can say to make them understand my POV without explicitly spilling RP theory on them. I’m focusing a …
/r/askTRP24/03/19 01:50 PM
3

All very valid and fair points!
/r/TheRedPill23/03/19 04:31 AM
1

I’m a libertarian. People should pursue what they want and it’d most ideal if they could first, to the best of their ability, tried to overcome their deepest inner fears or insecurities before deciding on what to do with their lives. For instance, if you grew up in a broken home and as a result always feel like you need to be in a relationship in order to subconsciously compensate for the lack of affection you received during your formative years, you should try to address that and be at peace w…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/19 10:43 AM
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I disagree. Because life is finite, pleasure by definition is meaningless the moment we take our last breaths. It voids and nullifies all the endorphins and pleasurable memories we created. The only thing that outlives us are actions that impact lives beyond our own lifespan. Actions and results that help shape the world and those that come after us well after our own trivial deaths. We are, after all, on a pale blue dot. It’s here we must make our last stand. I will seek pleasure by all means, …
/r/TheRedPill22/03/19 08:30 AM
1

Haha they look up to Japanese also, as they were a Japanese territory for a long awhile. A lot of mainland Chinese girls also look up to Americans and Westerners, especially those who are more international and/or studied abroad (I’ve dated Shanghainese girls who exclusively date Westerners). However I believe it is true that, on average, local Taiwanese girls resonate with foreigners (especially Americans) more so than the average local mainland Chinese girl. US and TW have also been allies for…
/r/askTRP03/03/19 03:12 PM
2

For sure brotha, Taipei is sin city ;) It’s generally Western culture they look up to - their perception of status that comes with “being from the West”.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 02:33 PM
3

American in Hong Kong here. I’ve also lived and worked in mainland China with very frequent regional travel for work as well. Have spend a total of 10 years in Asia, a third of my life. I’m also natively bilingual in Eng and Chi so I can understand the cultural dynamics of both especially as related to TRP. TRP applies the same here if not more - the more densely populated the region/city, the more TRP helps because competition for everything increases in such locations. So with 10 million peopl…
/r/askTRP03/03/19 10:27 AM
3

My first time seeing it haha...
/r/PussyPassDenied02/03/19 05:05 AM
1

I almost thought this was a post from: r/averagebattlestations r/shittybattlestations Both of which I frequent haha. Looking good!
/r/MGTOW02/03/19 04:13 AM
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TRP is FAR, FAR from about “gaming women.” TRP is a school of thought that equips you to observe, evaluate, and act accordingly in a world based on undeniable, cold harsh truths of how people fundamentally operate. This means it applies to your work and career life as much as it does to your romantic one, if you allow it. TRP was never about women to begin with. You’ve misunderstood it all along. For me, I’ve focused on honing and developing myself with TRP. I’m improving physically, mentally, e…
/r/askTRP02/03/19 03:51 AM
1

You need to work on yourself. Unless you’re born rich, value as a male is earned and developed. It’s honed over a long period of time. Develop skills, interests, hobbies, and ideally passions. Lift. What do you like to do that may be a marketable skill in the future? What was your nurturing and family environment like? Any siblings that are good at something? Parents? If you come from a broken home, you may naturally want to seek female companionship and beta orbit. Resist this at all costs and …
/r/askTRP01/03/19 08:07 PM
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Unfortunately not true if you work in people business, particularly in media, fashion, public relations, and particularly when you need to regularly attend events, cocktails, galas, and biz travel, etc you get the idea. If that’s not your work area though, then yes it likely does not matter.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/03/19 08:02 PM
0

You left the ball to her court which meant you were negotiating from weakness and deferred decisions to her. If she gave enough IOIs, you should’ve just suggested a specific day. “I’m free to grab a drink Thursday night.” and let her bend to your frame or she’ll suggest an alternative date if she really wasn’t free.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 08:41 AM
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You shouldn’t be doing or being anything to attract girls to begin with. Focus on becoming the best version of yourself physically, mentally, emotionally, and financially, and you will naturally become more attractive to anyone. Then it is up to you how you leverage that attractiveness beyond yourself if you so choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 08:39 AM
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Great response and thank you for serving brother, and may your horizon be forever bright.
/r/MGTOW25/02/19 04:24 PM
1

This!!!
/r/askTRP21/02/19 08:38 AM
5

Good on you bro. I wonder why she revealed that to you voluntarily. As a shit test perhaps? Why couldn’t she have just kept her mouth shut?
/r/askTRP20/02/19 08:02 PM
2

This!
/r/askTRP20/02/19 04:27 PM
1

Yeah seriously the bigger issue here is why the fuck is she even living in your apartment??
/r/askTRP20/02/19 04:27 PM
1

What’s the context of this advertisement? Who is the advertiser?
/r/MensRights20/02/19 10:12 AM
3

You need to work on your own SMV first. We’re genetically and biologically programmed to seek mates that are fertile - as fertile as possible. That means as young as possible post puberty. Not women post-menopause. When we don’t, it’s a fault in our nurture where it has more or less reprogrammed our desires. I would question your past, parenting (or lack thereof), single dad or single mom issues, abuse and lost of trust, or other past baggage in your psyche that may be at play. You also get defe…
/r/askTRP19/02/19 03:57 AM
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Fantastic story, thanks for sharing. Fellow aviator here. Just a reminder - you might not wanna share the part about having contemplated suicide. You never know who here’s in the FAA or FSDO and may link you to something personally identifiable in your profile. I’ve seen a few cases like this online where the pilot bro lost his job this way. They take this shit seriously for your 2nd/1st class medical as you may know. From an aviator to another - congratulations on the transformation. Blue skies…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 09:50 PM
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What do you do for work? I have an extremely social job being in the luxury lifestyle media industry. Think fashion, boats, cocktails, galas, regattas, biz trips and events. Constantly. My work helps with that a ton so I don’t need to develop something “independently social” unless I want to. See if you may be able to find work that gives you more social opportunities.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 08:51 AM
1

May I ask what are the characteristics from autism that you think makes you unattractive when they are displayed?
/r/askTRP05/02/19 10:04 AM
2

And I think you missed my point - beggars ARE mostly nice people because they lack options. They NEED to be nice in order to get money. That’s why the phrase “Beggars cannot be choosers” exists. And no one would appreciate people who are nice only/just because they “need” to be. This is the basic dynamics of power that will affect others’ treatment of you subconsciously/psychologically. Those who are nice by choice will be respected a lot more than those who are nice by force. Which one are YOU?…
/r/askTRP04/02/19 01:43 AM
1

I am in the cut throat corporate world so I know what you’re saying. I have still managed to maintain long lasting friendships with people from all social classes and cultures so perhaps I can offer some perspective. In short, I am an asshole to those who I need to be assholes with, and I can be extremely nice to those that will resonate with that. You need to learn how to read people and situations well enough so that you can adapt your behavior to yield the most ideal outcome for you (and for …
/r/askTRP02/02/19 03:35 AM
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Brother, I had to give you my first Reddit gold. Your story resonated very strongly with me and what happened to my most recent LTR. Thank you for sharing your story with your brethren so that we can be reminded of what must never be forgotten. All the best to you brother.
/r/MGTOW01/02/19 05:29 PM
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It depends on whether you are being nice because you lack options (and therefore you’re nice out of sheer incompetence), or you’re being nice while you are fully capable of being anything and others are aware of it. Imagine the difference between a beggar being nice to you, versus a king being nice to you. The former is a strong indicator of DLV - demonstrating lower value. You’re preemptively telling others that you are of lower value than them and usually out of the lack of other options. A be…
/r/askTRP31/01/19 06:26 PM
2

Thanks for sharing OP. May I ask if your parents divorced or you came from a “broken home” so to speak? As I’ve noticed that many of those that are desperate for companionship came from divorced or separated families, or there is unresolved issues with their parents. And so they so desperately seek the comfort and companionship that they lacked earlier in life from their parents, and absolutely fall for any SO. Personally I have nearly 10 friends in my immediate circle like this and know of a fe…
/r/askTRP27/01/19 11:52 PM
1

Haha no, they are auto saved. All my WhatsApp, Wechat, Viber, and Line videos, whether PM or group, are auto saved. Sorry to disappoint buddy. Somehow you’ve preemptively excluded this most obvious method. I actually never even thought of a manual save until you mentioned it, LOL. gg.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 01:46 PM
1

The video could have been sent to a group or another person, and received/forwarded to your ex by that group or person. Just a possibility.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 05:15 AM
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It comes from TRP :) Maybe in the 48 laws of power too. When you’re investing in someone more than that person is investing in you, essentially you’re demonstrating to that person that you’re the one of lower value. Instead, remember YOU are the prize, and the prize would not invest into its winner more than the winner herself.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 05:01 AM
2

Isn’t the OP just reposting someone else’s post? That guy gave pretty good context above.
/r/MGTOW20/01/19 12:45 AM
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It’s YouTube’s anti bottling algorithm. You need to watch at least 75% of the video for all votes to stick. The same should/will happen to your upvotes.
/r/MensRights20/01/19 12:42 AM
3

Only if the guy is “aware” haha. I have a couple of high SMV guy friends who are not aware of their SMV nor TRP etc and are with significantly lower SMV women AND think they themselves caught a great deal... sigh...
/r/MGTOW20/01/19 12:17 AM
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That’s some nice bros before hoes action there haha. Good one mate.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 12:10 AM
4

The BF actually came looking for you? What happened and what did he say after you showed him the texts?
/r/askTRP19/01/19 11:52 PM
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This is already more direct than I would’ve put it, OP. Everyone here is warning you about a potential FALSE RAPE ALLEGATION. Have you NOT been paying attention at all in recent years? Textbook maneuver.
/r/askTRP19/01/19 06:50 PM
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OP, are you seriously this oblivious to what’s going on? Have you been living under a rock for the last 3 years?
/r/askTRP19/01/19 06:49 PM
4

As someone who’s currently following the whole Gillette shitstorm from Hong Kong, this was refreshing for sore eyes.
/r/MensRights16/01/19 10:57 PM
12

It was on Reddit first haha, from the Jordan Peterson sub.
/r/MensRights16/01/19 10:35 PM
7

Next. Plenty of fishes in the ocean. U’re young as hell bro, these are your golden years to taste them all. No reason to have oneitis. “Fun” girls are everywhere.
/r/askTRP15/01/19 05:59 AM
2

OP, I appreciate your trying to apply TRP to your interactions. As long as you’re aware and improving, that’s what TRP is all about. Now if I may say - the earrings “trick” is textbook standard for plates who want an excuse to visit again. They can be earrings, rings, bracelets, necklaces. accessories, etc. In extreme cases, I’ve had plates that put them in places so odd that it’s OBVIOUS they didn’t want them to be found by me and potentially delivered to them (if I wanted to cut things off, et…
/r/askTRP14/01/19 10:42 PM
2

Because it’s always weighing pleasure vs risk (of headaches, drama, crazy, etc). My experience with older women is mostly crazy later on.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 10:30 PM
5

I’m in my early 30’s and plated one that was in her early 40’s. In my case it got crazy in a sense that she became utterly attached to me emotionally and physically. And she’d increasingly revert to a “cute” state whenever around me, perhaps to try and compensate for her age. At first it was mutually understood to be just sex but later she obviously expected commitment and more. They always do. It only got real crazy when I sensed from our conversations that her HUSBAND may be aware of us. I cut…
/r/askTRP14/01/19 10:27 PM
8

Only if you have the genetics for it :-) I’d love to have a beard but it takes me months to grow fucking peach fuzz haha.
/r/MGTOW14/01/19 10:01 PM
1

You don’t need to explain yourself brother. I used to live in a brand new city as well and a plate at the time purposely left her pair of earrings one night. I basically told her sorry no can do, out with friends tonight. Leaving something behind could have been a “test” to see whether you might have plans with other people, especially other girls or plates. Mind games, bro. You can still change the story and say you got invited to lunch/dinner/party/drinks, you two can meet up later.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 11:13 AM
1

Lifelong PC gamer here and just got my first PS4 as well recently. Got RDR2, The Last of Us, The Order 1886, the entire Uncharted series, a few EA sports titles, and Injustice 2. I’ve been really enjoying the experience and I’m probably set for the year! Enjoy yours bro!
/r/MGTOW09/01/19 08:22 AM
12

Thank you for all these links OP!!
/r/MGTOW09/01/19 07:46 AM
8

OP, you are not alone. This is exactly the phrase I’m going through. I was redpilled several years ago, and this “phase” has overall always gradually improved. Even in this phase, I was able to maintain good relations with friends were also redpilled (one of them was responsible for it as well, one of my closest friends), as well as with colleagues and mentors. It has helped me in friendship, relationships, and in business/work. I believe the initial phase of being fed TRP has a higher chance to…
/r/askTRP08/01/19 08:32 PM
2

Congratulations, OP! I’m 31 and my ex, too, flushed everything away by cheating on me when I was in my mid-late 20’s climbing the corporate ladder to start building a long term / family with her. That fed me a ton of red pills. Today I’m single and happy, and although I’m nowhere close to your mark, I’m in the initial stages of spearheading a small IPO that I’m passionate about and good at. I definitely need to do better with saving “aggressively” though, as you’ve put it. I’ve underestimated ho…
/r/MGTOW08/01/19 08:39 AM
1

I read your original post + your comments, OP. I think you’ve got this perfectly so far and you’ve been holding just the right amount of frame. If she continues to bombard without showing IOI or signs of wanting to shag again, make your replies more and more curt to continue to hold frame while creating a bit of tension between you too. We already know that she has an issue with your seemingly not caring at all about her and the ordeal, so being increasingly succinct and curt in your responses w…
/r/askTRP06/01/19 06:30 AM
2

You took the words right outta my mouth bro! Major personal and/or cultural insecurity red flags from the OP.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 02:43 PM
2

Wait, this is TRP am I right? OP - what in the world would cause you to want to so instinctively provide for a woman? What makes you want to be a provider so badly? I’m at a loss here. Please enlighten me. Women are gatekeepers of sex (in return for commitment). Men are gatekeepers of attention and commitment (in return for sex). What you want is exactly what a WOMAN instinctively and biologically wants (commitment). What would cause you to go against this very nature of TRP gender & relationshi…
/r/askTRP02/01/19 02:38 PM
2

If you’re over her and you felt you treated her poorly as a human being during an occasion or an episode, there’s nothing wrong with an apology just out of basic decency. Make sure you’re really over her, then go for it with a short and simple sorry.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 08:52 AM
3

Only in Western societies. In Asia, for instance, the Chads are Asian.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 05:09 AM
1

Haha sorry but we’ve got legal prostitution here. Well regulated and a thriving industry. Having said that, we do not need to take any of your craziness and will still gladly choose our hand with or without you...
/r/MGTOW02/01/19 03:56 AM
4

I’m inclined to agree with that. Seems he was triggered. I wasn’t haha. Best wishes on your journey brother.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 12:48 AM
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I think it was the undertone in your question that he was concerned about. It reeks of low confidence and a defeatist attitude that isn’t consistent with any reasonably high-value male who is aware of his high value. After all, the woman isn’t the prize, bro. You make it sound like it is. You are your own pursuit and TRP is more about maximizing your own potential more than anything else - with or without women.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 12:43 AM
1

Seems you already know what you wanna do (and had your mind made up) but also want to know whether the majority of this sub agree with your decisions? ;)
/r/askTRP17/12/18 08:15 PM
1

Not worth it bro. Plenty of fishes in the sea. There are ones out there much crazier AND with better sex.
/r/askTRP17/12/18 08:13 PM
1

Very spot on analysis, thank you for this!
/r/TheRedPill17/12/18 08:04 PM
2

I once had an LTR with a girl that had an absent father since she was very young. A ton of fear of abandonment issues like the OP said. Over a course of a few events, one day, I became red pilled and the relationship gradually went south from there, and eventually we broke off after 6 years. Now that I’ve read the OP’s post, it’s made even more sense. I wish I had know all these earlier in my life but it is what it is! Thank you, OP, for the post.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/18 05:11 PM
4

OP, you sound like many fellow bros that I know from a past life so I can empathize. You mentioned you have traveled. Have you been to parts of Asia or Europe where hookers are straight up legal, abundantly available, and well regulated? Like Hong Kong, Singapore, Amsterdam, etc. If you ever come to HK, drop me a PM and I’ll personally bring you to a good one. Someone once did that for me as well years ago and I appreciated that. Just passing it along. Any chance you can move? Relocate. Are you …
/r/askTRP16/12/18 07:22 PM
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OP, I got nearly an identical message from an ex last year. I replied but it was about something else and totally ignored her apology. She then apologized again, and once more I ignored. I don’t hate her, but for the damages she’s done, it’s better I treat her and all things related to her as nil. Zen’ed the fuck out.
/r/MGTOW30/11/18 10:21 AM
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Do NOT call. Hold your frame. She will call if interested. Turn on your abundance mentality mode.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 10:03 AM
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You’re better than that pettiness bro. Forget her and move on. Next.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 04:56 PM
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LOL love the username
/r/MGTOW27/11/18 07:22 AM
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That’s all fine and dandy except the world isn’t black and white, unfortunately... :-)
/r/MGTOW27/11/18 12:17 AM
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If it is a public business establishment, then there will always be staff on the premise. If the child's safety is at risk on that business's property, then that business's staff is obligated to respond to the matter. If for some reason there is no staff on hand and I wasn't comfortable physically handling the child, I would've verbally comforted and reassured the child in the most pleasant manner possible then, while keeping my eye on the child, look for another responsible adult who could help…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 02:23 AM
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I would have talked to her, then if the child needed help, I then would have immediately summoned their staff. Why take matters into your own hands personally when there are other solutions that will produce the same results?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 12:08 AM
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U were her backup and she’s shit testing you now to see whether you’re even worthy of being a backup in her hamster mind
/r/askTRP15/11/18 11:54 AM
1

When they were banging the 25-26 year olds, I suspect they were banging the ones who they perceived to be high SMV for their age (good career potential, some spending power, etc). These are traits that they wouldn’t expect and would normally not look for in younger men (22-23). Age 22-23 you’re supposed to be just out of college, not necessarily in the work force. At 25-26, you should be solidly in the workforce and making your way up. So you need to factor in the factors that determine your SMV…
/r/askTRP13/11/18 07:44 PM
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That’s fine. Still better than directly “owning”.
/r/MGTOW13/11/18 07:06 AM
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You know what it means, buddy.
/r/MGTOW13/11/18 07:05 AM
4

Also TLDR after 1/3 of the post. Before you trim, let us know how old you are, OP. This relates to your SMV and where you should be in your life as perceived by women.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 07:03 AM
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Thanks for sharing, OP. I had almost the exact same scenario happen to me with an ex of one year. I was on a business trip (at the time, still in my 20’s) and she said she would do chores and sleep in early on a Friday night. Turns out it was a party. Found out on social media and one of the club’s owners happened to be a friend of mine. Later on found out her ex was at the party also. I contacted my owner friend at the club and actually requested to see security footage. Nothing happened on cam…
/r/askTRP08/11/18 05:31 AM
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I see, damn. Thx for the insight. But what about the man? Why wouldn’t men insist on putting on their rubber?? That’s my rule #1 unless it’s someone I intend to have kids with!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/11/18 10:29 AM
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Seriously, why the fuck don’t ppl use condoms or at least get on the pill?!?! It’s 2018...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/11/18 04:20 AM
1

I agree with that in the context that the girl may have most likely been shit-testing him, perhaps even on a subconscious level without herself realizing.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/18 05:38 PM
2

I have a good feeling she’ll reach out to you when the dust settles, brother. Thanks for the objective and analytical post, great read. Keep us posted.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/18 03:30 PM
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As a pilot myself that mingles quite a bit with other “bro”bachelor pilots, we actually have that meme as somewhat of a guiding philosophy among ourselves as well, haha. So it’s definitely real!
/r/MGTOW21/10/18 01:54 AM
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American living in Hong Kong :-)
/r/MGTOW07/10/18 07:29 AM
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That’s a pretty dated video just FYI. I was based in China at the time as an American expat when that video was released and that was many years ago. The “costs” are even higher now haha.
/r/MGTOW18/09/18 04:00 AM
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And Naomi Osaka who won isn’t a woman??? LOL
/r/MGTOW10/09/18 09:39 AM
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Holy shit bro you dodged a bullet. My bros and I are ALL in our 30’s and we’re literally just born. Take your fucking time and wait until the SMV curves align at the very least! You’re not the asshole - she’s the one who made the mistake of irresponsibility pooping out a fatherless child for whatever reason. TAKE CARE OF UR OWN BIZ FIRST - You’re NOT running a charity!
/r/MGTOW04/09/18 09:13 AM
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I’m glad to hear your son is a CAP cadet. When he becomes an adult he can become a senior member take on more responsibilities. For training. IMO it’s the perfect age. Same age as when you can get your driver’s license pretty much. The reasons for that are: Build discipline early on so that it becomes part of your attitude for increasing challenges that come It takes time to build up your other ratings and tickets - instrument, commercial, multi, CFI, etc. It may take years. So they’re designed …
/r/TheRedPill31/08/18 07:47 PM
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OP, as much as your post resonates with me I just need to clarify one thing - I’m a pilot and also in the CAP. The federal minimum age to be eligible for a PPL is 17. At 16, your kid at most could have legally only soloed. I’m sure he is well on his way to his PPL, no doubt. Thought I should make this clear for those who may be interested in the aviator’s path and so that there’s no inadvertent misinformation on that end. Cheers.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/18 07:34 PM
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Because they are hardwired from evolution to desire the sperm/offspring of an alpha male, and only if they had no other choice (when hitting the wall or post wall) to “settle” for a provider beta male. Sad but today’s norms but it’s just evolution doing its job haha.
/r/MGTOW21/08/18 03:31 AM
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It’s only shallow when you have an unreasonable or irrational need to be emotionally invested in a female - which by nature isn’t a male’s trait. Logical and rational beings do not emotionally invest more than emotional beings.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 04:54 AM
2

Depends on where you are. It’s US$60-80 here for safe, legal sex with any woman you could imagine. Hint: We follow British common law but we’re in Asia.
/r/MGTOW14/08/18 03:24 AM
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In many other parts of the world, it’s legal and widely available. Where I am, it’s legal and business is always booming.
/r/MGTOW14/08/18 03:12 AM
1

I wasn’t aware that a source was needed for logic. I’ve spoken to quite a few old plates over the years about this also - many of them have admitted to me that the gratification they got out of every session was mostly witnessing their power and control over me. It’s as real as it sounds.
/r/MGTOW14/08/18 03:11 AM
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Pilot here. Not that much older than him at all either. I will toast to the fallen brother today.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 11:31 PM
2

Amen brotha. Our SMV though - would be as if we showed we had more wealth and status than we actually did.
/r/MGTOW12/08/18 01:37 PM
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The slobs part depends on where you are hehe. I’m based in a very cosmopolitan city of Asia and there are very, very few slobs - everyone dresses and grooms very well. Fashion is just a huge part of the culture here too. Tokyo - Hong Kong - Singapore - Taipei... you name it - fit, well-dressed, and well-groomed men and women are the norm.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/18 04:49 AM
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I get along with everyone but atheists swipe away? LOL
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/08/18 09:21 AM
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Thanks for sharing and at 25 year old your SMV hasn’t even begun yet, brother. You basically got married when your SMV was still completely “unknown” while her’s was much higher (being young/fertile and higher SMV than you presumably simply due to age). The fact that you did all those things for her i.e. providing for her, attempting to add value, tacitly ALLOWING her to not have to work, etc are all DLV (demonstrating lower value) and failed “shit tests”. Any woman’s interest in a man would dro…
/r/MGTOW01/08/18 01:53 AM
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Nice analogy. Also a business and corporate management person here. From one workplace to another aside, I’ll also say that they’ll always be on the look out for that next freelance “gig” too for some extra “pay” and “exposure” to other industries and/or workplaces on the side, so to speak. Whatever they can get to “taste test” the job market.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 01:42 AM
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Thanks for the perceptive story and for holding your frame for us, brother. Good stuff.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/18 12:38 PM
9

Wtf no sex for you, brother?
/r/MGTOW18/07/18 02:49 AM
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Was that actually a quote from Hitchens? Anyway, I miss that guy. I need to go watch some Hitchslaps on YouTube.
/r/MGTOW13/07/18 08:06 PM
4

May I ask where is this from and who is the gentleman in the photo? I lived on a non-Western continent for many years of my life and thus may not immediately recognize certain (even public) Western figures especially from the 80’s and 90’s.
/r/MGTOW10/07/18 07:08 PM
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Long weekend coming up for me too, good sir. What about the game controller there? Any gaming with the cold beer? 😎
/r/MGTOW30/06/18 04:08 AM
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Many thanks for this, OP! You have definitely helped me recognized some of the shit tests that I’ve encountered in the past, as well as some that I did not know (until after your post) were actually shit tests. Good stuff. Thanks bro.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 03:37 AM
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Source?
/r/MGTOW07/06/18 08:50 AM
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Agreed tho technically speaking she didn’t specify where the 420 pics were taken. They could have been in states or countries where 420 is legal haha.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/18 05:53 AM
0

If you lived in a densely populated, 1st tier city, you would have sprained your neck long ago bro..
/r/MGTOW30/05/18 02:11 AM
2

Then what do you make of a married couple where both are lawyers? There’re plenty of them haha.
/r/MGTOW18/05/18 10:37 PM
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Congrats brother! Many of us have been there too. Best wishes ahead and be well!
/r/MGTOW17/05/18 08:16 AM
5

I see your point and do understand it. My motto is live and let live regardless of TRP. One interesting thing is your particular focus on how others perceive a particular race (“...you are also improving the image people have of your race.”) For me and maybe for those who grew up/lived/worked/traveled abroad, we don’t associate a person’s behavior or actions into an impression of that person’s skin color. So if I witnessed you commit an obvious crime, I’d just think a human being committed a cri…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/18 10:30 PM
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Since you had no choice and did not work for where you happened to have been born or raised, I’m not sure where the pride comes from. I was born in the US but spent years on several other continents and countries on the other side of the globe. I am multi-lingual and have multiple nationalities. However I only identify as a human being. After all, it’s truly a pale blue dot we’re in. If I may - your pride should ideally be independent from any external source - especially one that you had no say…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/18 10:06 PM
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Thank you for sharing this with your fellow MGTOW brethren, OP. I emphasize with you. I myself was going through a very similar scenario recently. What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger. The positive lesson out of this is that she’s shown her true colors, and probably so has your friend. In this case perhaps it’s a two bird with one stone - to re-build your social sphere from a clean slate that is free of toxic and manipulative people. Be the best man you can be in your own way and the best fr…
/r/MGTOW30/04/18 12:57 PM
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Huh? What are you talking about? The last sentence of the comment above said “Let us take a look at 6 ways...” then it abruptly ended. There were no 6 ways following that sentence, so naturally I thought the author may have posted an unfinished post by accident. That is what I’m merely trying to clarify with the author.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 03:05 AM
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Where are the 6 ways you speak of?
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 02:15 AM
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