Good evening all. I just joined Reddit about 5 days ago. I am very grateful for the MGTOW community and wanted to share my story with you all and the reason I am MGTOW.

I moved to the U.S about 10 years ago from Australia. I met my ex wife, who is 6 years older than me, through mutual friends in Australia and moved to the U.S, and got married. During our marriage, my ex wife continually would go out for ā€˜girls nightsā€™ and would travel alone out of state with ā€˜friendsā€™ etc. Our sex life was non existent. I had to work very hard to set myself up for work etc and among other things we tried to have children but it was not meant to be. She spent most of MY money and I would regularly have money missing from the account, no explanation of where this money went. I suspected that she had been cheating on me but did not have sufficient proof to confront her. I was also a major simp during this period of my life.

Fast forward 6 years. We had just purchased our first house. I just started a new career and had to travel for work during the first few months. We were arguing daily. We didnā€™t see eye to eye on anything. She was outright hostile to me. I woke up in bed one morning, with my ex wife beside me and looked straight at her and said that I couldnā€™t do this anymore and wanted a divorce. She agreed.

She slept in the end bedroom for the next couple of weeks and then moved out. This was around Christmas 2014. About 4 months later, we were officially divorced. I kept the house. She kept the motor home, vehicle, wedding ring ($24,000) and other assets and savings etc. It was mostly an argument free divorce. The home loan and deed was in my name only, hence it made it a lot easier for me to keep my house. During this time, I didnā€™t contemplate why this process was much easier than I thought it would be. But it would soon make sense.

Two weeks later I receive an email from my ex wife, stating that she wanted to tell me that she was pregnant. She then admitted she had cheated on me with another guy (the same guy I suspected) and she was due in 4 months. I have never felt so angry/upset/betrayed in my entire life. I knew it wasnā€™t my child as we hadnā€™t had sex in over a year. During the divorce proceedings, we were both asked by the judge if she was pregnant. She stated no. I also stated no, as I had no idea (she was wearing baggy clothes, in case someone asks why I didnā€™t see the bump). I then find out all of our mutual friends knew that she was pregnant... her entire family, her friends, everybody. Her father also picked up some of her property from my house a few months later that my ex wife and I had organized. I left her property on the driveway, as agreed upon. He decided to ram and damage my garage door with his truck as he was leaving. My ex wife also gave me an STD. I was aware of this about a year before our divorce, with my ex wife explaining to me that she had always had it (but never mentioned it previously). Trying to be understanding of her, I believed her. I then found out it was because of the guy she cheated with. We also had two dogs together and she wanted to keep hers and give me my dog. I told her that it wasnā€™t fair to our dogs to be separated and that she could have both (even though this really broke me inside). I found out from a mutual friend that one of the dogs (my dog) was killed because she had decided to go on one of her ā€˜friendsā€™ road trips and left the dog at a friends house and the dog ran out onto the road and was hit by a vehicle. There are other stories like this but Iā€™m trying to keep this short.

It will now be 5 years since my divorce. I am completely MGTOW and have been for a while now. I dated some women a few years after my divorce but I slowly started listening/watching/reading MGTOW content and slowly started to become aware. I deal with women at work and during everyday life, but I do not date, I do not use any dating apps and I donā€™t visit hookers/prostitutes. I am 33, very well off financially, the only debt I have is my 2018 4Runner, I started learning German, I travel frequently (just came back from visiting TX, NM, AZ), I travel back to Australia at least twice a year and have an awesome career. I am planning on retiring in my late 40ā€™s and have started planning to be a full time RV traveller, visiting every part of the U.S (as well as visiting Australia as much as possible).

I keep my MGTOW status on the down low officially but I do speak with men who are married/divorced/dating/engaged and make sure to drop red pills daily to them. Some of these guys are some of the most miserable people I have met and I really do feel for them. I cannot and will never trust women in this feminist society. I will keep spreading the MGTOW information and will do my small part to help the MGTOW community.

Again, I wanted to thank all of you who participate in this forum and to say thanks for reading.