So when a woman is hypergamous and cheat, she is considered empowered. This is further justified by her being "unhappy", because the man is not "good enough" (spolier alert: the man is never good enough). When a man wants to dump his current partner for someone better, he is automatically a Lifetime movie villain. This generation of men are forcefully brainwashed into thinking that they are not allowed to desire for a better partner or JUST GO ALL THE WAY ON THEIR OWN; it's labelled as "misogeny" if you do.