Disclaimer: In the context of this post, a "beta" is someone who has nothing to show for himself, has no true confidence, has no true "frame," and constantly tries to act more than he is. An "alpha" is someone who doesn't give two fucks what anyone else thinks, lives for himself, and focuses on his mission, half-unconsciously succeeding with women, and doesn't worry about whether or not what's he's doing is "alpha."

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I’m getting really tired of all the bullshit I’ve been reading on this sub recently. Let’s be real, there is no “consensus” on theory in “The Red Pill.” There are the fundamentals, but beyond that everyone and their mother thinks they have the new “rule” or “idea” that is super “alpha.”

I’ve been seeing a ton of this crap recently:

“A is subservient and beta.”

“Never do B, it makes you look bad.”

“C is only for blue-pilled men.”

“D causes you to fall into her frame.”

“E is only for fucktards.”

“If you do F for a girl, she’s gonna leave you.”
“Nothing dries up pussy faster than G.”

There are some specifics recently that really make me wonder if any of the people here have ever even touched a girl, but I won’t delve into it.

There’s no end-all-be-all for any of this. Generalizations are useful to explain some of these concepts to the newer, less experienced men, but beyond that, it’s up to you. You figure it out. If it works, it works. If it doesn’t, figure out why and change. It’s very simple.

Let’s be real. Get the fundamentals down. Lift. Develop strong self-esteem. Develop a strong sense of character and identity. Have abundance. Focus on your mission. Live for yourself. Stop giving a fuck what anyone thinks. Stop putting girls on pedestals and treat them however the fuck you want. Play around with them, say stupid shit, and then have fucking fun.

95% of the “advice” you’ll read here is completely natural for someone who has his shit together.

It’s fine to read these rules and internalize the general idea, but stop following these “methods,” “routines,” and unbreakable “rules” that keep circulating around this sub. I can’t think of anything more “beta.”

Trying to become something for women? Changing yourself just for women? Following a set of “rules” just so you can appear “alpha” and deceive yourself into thinking you are one?

Develop some independence and do whatever the fuck you want. In fact, you should get the fundamentals down and leave this sub. You’re not going to get anything out of this, what do they call it here—“circlejerk?”

Once you get the basics down, go and make whatever life you see worth living. Nobody’s going to change it for you.

Disagree with me and hate on me all you want. I’m just tired of seeing all this crap circulating around this sub lately. Figure it out for yourselves. The purposes and goals of this sub are at first glance decent and useful for many of the guys, but it has devolved into a completely different entity.

If you’re a high-value, high-status, confident, successful man with an unshakeable identity and frame, who every man wants to be and every girl wants to fuck, what girl is going to care what you do? She’s not giving to give two fucks about what angle your head is at in her pussy, the timbre of your voice, the exact phrases that come out of your mouth, and how many words you send her in a goddamn text.

An "alpha" does not worry about whether or not what he's doing is "alpha," because he is in. *Everything he does is "alpha***."**

Is it "beta" to ask her to coffee instead of drinks? Is it "beta" to hold her hand? Does an "alpha" ever do this? Does an "alpha" ever do that? Take whatever example you want.

The "alpha" that does these things is still an "alpha."

I understand that these rules are helping to shape “betas” into “alphas,” but beyond a certain point they should be second-nature. You shouldn’t even have to think about them. They should be completely natural to you.

Remember—you're working to become a true "alpha," not a "beta" who walks, talks, and thinks like an "alpha."

Take from that what you will. Godspeed.