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[–]XavierMalory1 point2 points3 points (5 children) | Copy Link
This is probably a catch-all, and me being a dreamer hoping this would ever change but...
Shit Testing
EDIT: And by that, I mean, they shit test you and love it when you "pass." Wish they'd just stop that shit altogether, but again, wishful thiking.
[–]hrm08943 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
From my experience, they stop or "slow down" the shit testing once they're secure enough with you. If you pass enough tests, that is.
Still, you can miss me with that shit cause I aint going back to the plantation.
[–]anonymouseketeerears1 point2 points3 points (3 children) | Copy Link
Like sending one of their friends on a secret mission to seduce you in order to test if you are loyal or a cheater?
[–]XavierMalory2 points3 points4 points (2 children) | Copy Link
That's "Cluster B, bat shit nuts" testing. Run away. Run fast, run far.
Nah I'm talking about the smaller stuff. Check out this link (a really good read), but skip down to number 3 to see what I'm talking about:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/illimitablemen.com/2014/12/14/the-shit-test-encyclopedia/amp/
And to be fair, shit tests aren't just done by women. They're done by everyone and they're how our culture determines your worth. I just hate when women feel a need to do this constantly.
[–]anonymouseketeerears1 point2 points3 points (1 child) | Copy Link
I had no idea someone had defined this in so much detail.
Good read for what I read.
[–]XavierMalory1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh believe me there's a LOT to read on that guy's site. This can help your game in interviews and other places where shit tests are just a part of life. Glad I could show you this. :)