[UPDATE] Girl didn’t tell me she had a boyfriend of 4 years even tho she was hooking up with me for years until he proposed!

2018-08-05T22:35:18+00:00

Major kudos for giving him the information he could use to save himself -- I know the men here, if we were in his shoes, would have appreciated it.

You did what you could, man. The rest is on him.

SaltTax · 2018-08-05T22:48:33+00:00

You planted the seed of doubt in his mind. It will grow whether he likes it or not. People don't respond well to having their whole world upended initially. Right now his brain is subconsciously scanning the entire span of their relationship to validate/debunk your claim. Inconsistencies he didn't notice before will arise no doubt.

SovereignSoul76 · 2018-08-05T22:48:48+00:00

You can lead a cuck to MGTOW, but you cant make him think.

ijnenak · 2018-08-05T22:56:18+00:00

One day he will remember what you said to him and know how much he fucked up

IronLyon77 · 2018-08-05T22:44:12+00:00

You tried to warn the cuck, but he didn't care, your conscience is clean.

maggot_brain79 · 2018-08-05T22:46:45+00:00

You gave it a genuine try, man. Really isn't much else you could have done. Sometimes the blue pill mindset is a terminal illness. With any luck, though, you planted a seed of doubt in his mind and he'll start wondering if what you said was true and what it means for him. You did all you could.

shist1990 · 2018-08-05T22:34:29+00:00

You tried and the result didn't matter anyway. Now there is nothing left to do but GYOW :-)

re_all · 2018-08-05T22:58:08+00:00

You did what you could.

That man will be cursing the day he blocked you off.

BNSoul · 2018-08-05T23:41:36+00:00

Obviously this woman is a piece of work, I'd bet she's a narcissist or some other cluster-B disordered individual, she's been having this "smear" campaign going on since you rejected her las time ("I've enough friends") so she has painted you as a crazy, jealous, bipolar friend of hers who went mad when she announced that the boyfriend proposed. "I'm sure XYZ is going to try and ruin everything contacting you, don't believe any strange text or call you get, I love you with all my heart please don't even read or reply just let me know and we'll think something". I'd suggest to expose everything quickly but carefully before she sends more "flying monkeys" (manipulated people) after you.

RunawayGrain · 2018-08-06T00:35:21+00:00

Chances are she told him you are a stalker / molester / rapist / whatever. She's going to be out to wreck you to cover up for her actions. Just be aware of that.

2018-08-05T22:47:27+00:00

At least you can sleep at night knowing you tried.

2018-08-05T23:12:54+00:00

Gotta free a slave if you have enough money to buy them from the plantation.

2018-08-05T23:20:50+00:00

That guy will show up on r/relationships lmao, give it time.

Frogkaboo · 2018-08-06T02:24:38+00:00

i wonder if it's possible that she was holding onto his phone when that went out and she then proceeded to perform cleanup on both their accounts

SlainFunicle · 2018-08-06T00:43:02+00:00

In a couple of years he will reach out to you the important thing is you tell him what is up, that takes some huge balls to do

2018-08-06T01:52:52+00:00

You did what you could, truth is, maybe she already thought this was a possibility and told him something to prevent you telling him the truth. Women are very sneaky and intelligent when it comes to these kinds of things.

Anyway, you did god's work man, be proud of yourself, I'd buy you a beer if I lived near haha, the world needs more people like you.

bbm72 · 2018-08-06T02:45:15+00:00

Let the countdown begin till when she reaches out to you.

I am guessing this week, no later.

Keep us posted.

PerfectNemesis · 2018-08-06T03:02:41+00:00

It might take some time. No matter how strong your will power is, its hard to accept what he had for the past 4 years was based on lies. No one can throw it away overnight. If he still stays after giving it some time and thinking about it, then he deserves it.

Final_Round · 2018-08-06T07:14:34+00:00

You can't force a horse to drink, but you sure as hell can put two shells in it's head.

onemanfortress · 2018-08-06T09:06:24+00:00

I told you to not do it this way go check my comment:

https://www.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/94t0wa/this_girl_had_a_boyfriend_for_four_years_sent_me/e3nwhg1/?context=3

I warned you that would happen. Now you have her on your ass, and she will revenge. And they both will unite in misery and you are just fuel for their relationship. They will be conspiring against you. Next time read the comments. I will not be surprised if you car gets vandalized, or if you get metooed. She can even tell him you raped her, and believe me, whiteknights are crazy.

Mapispema-ta · 2018-08-06T09:13:28+00:00

Never help a simp let him learn the hard way don’t be captain help a simp.

Xxtourlife · 2018-08-06T02:51:11+00:00

Then He screwed Himself.I even thought Vince screwing Bret was bad enough😂😂

2018-08-06T03:58:45+00:00

I don't think it's necessarily wrong but game playing whores are just arseholes...

I suppose she might be the kind of wife that will willingly fuck all your friends on a Friday night party....

Then when her cunt and arse have prolapsed, and she is a sex addict that has gone completely mental - you can think of her going off to the psyc hospital as a way of moving herself out...

She has her uses and then when her time is up, she moves on.

What can be better.

Probably not getting involved with a piece of shit like that in the first place.

Y3rtsqu1rt · 2018-08-06T04:06:55+00:00

To bad you told him, she'll still come around to fuck you again in a couple months after the wedding. All dumb useless bitches come back eventually. The fiance deserves to be cucked and is a total dumb ass like all blue pill cucks are. He needs to accept reality and stop worshipping the purity of the pussy of whoredoms. All these responders acted like you had a duty to that blue pill, but I disagree a man who chooses to be in chains deserves slavery.

Edit: the only thing you can due to that slave is whip the shit out of him and make his life hell till he demands his chains be removed and GHOW.

2018-08-06T04:15:00+00:00

If you have pictures or strong evidence that you can email, then make a new gmail account and send it. Gmail will also allow you to text it to his cell phone.

RandomReeditUser · 2018-08-06T04:25:06+00:00

It's okay, giving people the truth is great, and it's even better when they don't want to hear it. What a tool he is.

cfuse · 2018-08-06T04:57:51+00:00

The problem with pointing out whorishness is that it is often you that pays for that act of kindness.

My thinking is simple enough: worry about your own conduct alone. The minute you find out that the whore is a two-timing whore then it's up to you to continue fucking her or not based on your own morals. It's not your job to police her whorishness for his benefit, that's his concern.

TheDevilsAdvokaat · 2018-08-06T05:52:54+00:00

Well, you tried.

From there on it's up to him.

Good on you.

thearmchairwarrior · 2018-08-06T06:41:26+00:00

You did your job, All men appreciated it :). You would want the same if some whore did that to you.

Doesn't matter if he listen or not. You did good.

NWTD2760 · 2018-08-06T08:08:10+00:00

What you need to do this send him a gift for saving you from that parasite.

mma13579 · 2018-08-06T09:20:43+00:00

LOL wonder if they will still go through with it, update us if you hear anything.

elementalwalruss · 2018-08-06T09:34:20+00:00

Tbh, you should've just made an anonymous account and sent him a pic or something of her if she send nudes or just some text chat and the title SHE A CHEATIN' HO. No need to expose yourself for no reason.

2018-08-06T12:36:41+00:00

The people who were telling u to tell him are novices. Any mgtow with experience knows that you cannot blackpill someone. There is no easy way to learn, we all must learn the hard way. I wouldn’t have told him

2018-08-06T12:58:11+00:00

You tried. Leave him to his fate.

Muh-So-Gin-Knee · 2018-08-06T15:08:48+00:00

The best part is yet to come. She'll be back! Once cucky is safely locked down, i.e. married, she'll come back around jonesing for that dick. Just wait, calling it now.

2018-08-06T15:20:23+00:00

Damn how blue pulled do you gotta be to not even hear someone out? Holy shit and I bet you could have even given him proof if he wanted. What a dumbass

But good job man I'm proud of you

ginD4C · 2018-08-06T16:44:41+00:00

He's already dead. He's going to hold on to the delusion that his precious born again virgin traditionalist wife would never whore around behind his back with all his might. Hate to see it, but cucks are willing to sacrifice all self respect for the coveted second hand pussy. Incoming dead bed room, more whoring behind his back, suggestion of an open relationship, and the divorce rape. All the while this idiot continues to smile in ignorance as he jumps into the meat grinder for nothing more than validation from a society that could care less of his well being. And you know it's going to happen, because she already has no respect for him because he fell for the trap. He bought the used car at premium price that everyone else got to ride around for free.

mytoysqueeks · 2018-08-06T18:20:32+00:00

Maybe they had an agreement?

decafbabe · 2018-08-06T18:27:15+00:00

What a simp. Let him be, you tried. Not worth any more thought, he will learn the hard way.

easternhermit · 2018-08-06T18:51:14+00:00

why you are worried about it . screw him and screw jessica, jeanine, jacqueline , janessa, whatever it is

Title	[UPDATE] Girl didn’t tell me she had a boyfriend of 4 years even tho she was hooking up with me for years until he proposed!
Author	stephen301
Upvotes	188
Comments	56
Date	August 5, 2018 10:31 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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